Why is this site a waste of time?  

SabersandSpurs 63M  
16 posts
8/8/2006 9:42 am

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Why is this site a waste of time?


Lately, a lot of profiles are claiming that AdultFriendFinder is not a very good place to meet others for sex.

"This site is a joke." We're not renewing our subscription." "This site is a waste of time." "No real people here."

There are a few really strange people on AdultFriendFinder.

Many (I suspect) are just collecting responses, read the responses for entertainment with their boyfriends-girlfriends, collect pictures, and even a few are using AdultFriendFinder as a scam to link you to their pay-for-view sites!

On the other hand...

I have met some fantastic people on this site which led to some fantastic sex! Oh, there were the few really odd ones (whom I elect not to contact anymore), but by and large, those who are serious about sex are delightfully inventive, playful and great in bed!

So.... Tell me...

Why do so many on AdultFriendFinder have such a low opinion of AdultFriendFinder?

seeking2pleasure 70F

10/15/2007 8:25 pm

i've had fantastic luck on here ... i have met and yes, had sex with a select few.. i choose carefully , who and why and i never go outside my group... i know what caliber of men they are... i know they are clean , honest, men who care about more than just getting laid ... they are protective, gentle and kind ... they can carry on a conversation and are intelligent ... so for me , it more than works ..

never judge a woman by the size of her jeans!!


SabersandSpurs 63M  
7 posts
8/9/2006 11:23 am

I think Phoenix made a charming comment, that those on AdultFriendFinder should view each contact as "a potential new friend who maybe one day we might have sex with". Each wink, view and response is indeed a fresh page in the novel of romance, and a new step towards adventure!

Men substantially outnumber women on AdultFriendFinder, and looking for physical sex, while women are looking for romance.

So, where does that leave us?

As I said, I have met several delightful, delicious and wonderful ladies here on AdultFriendFinder. The experiences we shared were special and priceless!


XJackinyourBoxX 42M

8/8/2006 10:27 am

I'd chock it up to unrealistic expectations. Guys have to work it since there are about 8-10 of us for every woman and the ladies have every right to weed out the "freaks" that they don't believe will be compatible with them.

Guys tend not to try had enough to get a lady's attention, and the ladies have too many responses to weed through while still having a life.

I've had good success here too. It's what you make of it.


phoenix639 49F

8/8/2006 10:24 am

Because the believe the hype that AdultFriendFinder throws out.

Join today & meet for sex tonight....only an idiot would realise that aint gonna happen unless its with a paid sex worker!!

Real women dont meet men after an email of 'lets fuck'. You will maybe get the odd one or two who may meet for a quick session. Most likely not too fussy either.

The majority of men & women on here have morals & have standards too. They are human beings with feelings. AdultFriendFinder doesnt mention that in its hype.

I personally love the site though...for makking friends & blogging. Ive met a fair few people & i have made some great friends on here which are noe real life friends too.

If only people can view contact as a potential new friend who maybe one day we might have sex with they may actually succeed here.

The ones who complain on here have unrealistic views of people altogether & you will find they dont have much luck in real life so think they will here...doesnt work like that at all does it.


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