Am I Obligated  

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4/16/2006 9:50 pm

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4/29/2006 6:15 pm

Am I Obligated

to respond to EVERY email I receive?? Especially, the emails and winks I receive from people who KNOW they do not fit what I am looking for, yet they attempt to convince me otherwise.

My mama used to say, "If you do not have anything nice to say to someone, then keep your mouth shut to hide your ignorance from others."

I came to this website to find what I am looking for, so that I can be selective as to who I allow into my inner circle. This is my God given, AMERICAN right! I did not post here to be every man's best friend and confidant, or to be someone's counselor, supporter, or a morale booster!

My profile is very clear about what it is that I am looking for, an ALPHA MALE...someone who is confident with who he is, what he wants, and where he is going. Someone who does not need my hand-holding or reassurance to be secure with himself and does not have to degrade or belittle others to make himself feel more of a man.

He must compliment me and I him, that whole B/S about "You Complete Me" is so... so sappy! I want a man who is already complete, someone who is looking for his mirror image in a woman to be his partner not his mother.

All I can say is this, Folks, If you are going to be overly sensitive to someone not responding back to your email or your wink... then this may not be the best avenue for you.


PS... made 6,000 since 3/11 as I wrote this and I am sure this controversial blog will open up a can of worms!

RaytownRick 61M

4/28/2006 11:31 am

Of course, I'm not a paying member, so I can't read your profile, but I do understand your frustration with knowing when, and how to respond to someone. The other day a woman I work near walked past me and pinched me on the rear. Now, for me, this is an unusal event, I must admit. But it sent to me a clear signal that she had an interest. I didn't (I will qualify that: I didn't right up until she expressed an interest!) Now, I'm left with the confusing responsibility to respond to an unwelcomed advance. Do I look at her firmly and say, "Lady, don't touch me?" Do I ignore her, and thus send the inspecific response, "I'm not interested?" Or, do I go pinch her, and whisper in her ear, "I'll meet you under the bleachers?" I can't see a good response among those options. I've chosen to ignore it. Surely, that will suffice as a communication. So, that was the track I took, right up until yesterday, when I was sitting outside the Cherokee County Courthouse, and she came and sat across from me and started up a conversation. She's still in pursuit, and the lack of signal didn't indicate to her a lack of interest.
Now, SummerBreeze--I'm an alpha male. But, I'm a married alpha male (how can an alpha not be?) You can be as selective as you'd like. But consider yourself pinched.

puntachueca 105M

4/29/2006 1:28 pm

Right on!
A friend of mine painted a great picture of two wolves hunting...male and female...and you could tell they were communicating without having to talk...
I'm one of them there Alpha males...looking for the Alpha female...not some submissive little chicky...but someone who is just as good if not better at things as I am...ranging from speaking her mind and shooting...and who wants to function in a co-equal relationship.
No, don't waste your time responding to the sheep and cows...maybe AdultFriendFinder needs an automatic response like "eat dirt asshole" or something appropriate to weed the weanies out.
So where the heck is this town in Texas you are from? I'm originally from downside by Houston.

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