Why my threesome days are over  

Rubenesque1968 48F
152 posts
4/13/2006 12:12 am

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4/13/2006 8:26 pm

Why my threesome days are over

I suppose I should answer that question. Yes, I have had more than one. Actually, I have had four different experiences with FMF, and one MFM.

My second experience was when I was married to my second husband. As you may remember from my blog Numbers two and three, I tried many things to “help” my husband with his erectile dysfunction. I thought about my next-door neighbor. She and I had “flirted”, danced around the subject in many a conversation, and I knew #2 had always wanted to participate in a threesome. I talked with her boyfriend and he was all for me seducing her. One night, I decided to seduce her. It worked, and before long #2 started to join in, but he never did get hard. Although he seemed to be enjoying what he was seeing, he gave up and went home. She called her boyfriend, and he came over. It was supposed to be a one-time thing, and they agreed to that. However, boyfriend wanted to have just me to himself. Yes, she was mad, but it did not ruin our relationship. It did ruin the relationship between them, though.

My third experience was with another couple that I had known for quite some time. They had been together longer than the first couple, and engaging in threesomes for quite some time. Rules were set forth from day one. I wanted to guarantee that she knew I would never sleep with just her husband. I also wanted to make sure they knew my boundaries. Everything was fine the first few times we were together, and then they started pushing my boundaries. They wanted another man to join us, and I turned them down. They wanted me to do anal, another no-no. They wanted to make movies, absolutely not. I felt as though they did not respect my boundaries, or me, so I ended it. That ended our friendship.

My fourth experience was with a couple of friends who were not a couple. I thought this was the best way to have a threesome and not have jealousy issues, and they would not expect more than I wanted to give. It was a great night, until it was over. The woman could not look me in the face, anymore. The man thought he could get me to do any woman he brought home and convinced to have a threesome. I would get phone calls at 2am, asking me to come over and service him and some girl he picked up at a bar, or wherever.

My MFM experience was when I was married to #2, as well. (As I said, I tried everything.) While I tried to give #2 a world class blow job, one of his friends was doing my doggie style. #2 never got it up, and we had to ask the friend to leave fairly early in the evening. To be honest, I did not enjoy this experience at all. It was too hard to concentrate on giving that blow job. When I am performing oral sex, I really get into it. I want to give my best effort, and I could not do that with someone pounding me from behind.

Obviously, I was not meant to participate in threesomes. To be honest, the last experience I had was over five years ago, and I do not miss it. I like one on one sex. I have never really been attracted to women in the sense that I would ever just be with a woman. It was more like the idea of being in a threesome used to turn me on, it doesn’t anymore.

Thanks for reading,
Rube


GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11238 posts
4/13/2006 12:40 am


at least you have xplored your options....

many don't dare think out of their 'box'


Rubenesque1968 48F

4/13/2006 1:31 am

Goldmember ~ Thanks for visiting my blog. I am glad you enjoyed it.

Rube


Rubenesque1968 48F

4/13/2006 1:33 am

Goddess ~ I have always had the desire to try new things. I will continue to try to think outside of the "box" when it comes to my sex life.
Thanks for visiting my blog.
Rube


DIVISION77 39M  
8321 posts
4/13/2006 3:02 am

Some things are better left to adult actors.

Although I will say, don't chalk it up to threesomes, it might be you chose the wrong people.

DIV

"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur


Rubenesque1968 48F

4/13/2006 4:40 am

DIV ~ Yes, it is entirely possible that I chose the right people, however, I am still through with it. The idea doesn't turn me on like it once did.

Thanks for visiting my blog
Rube


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