Sex and friendship  

RogueDragon 60M
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8/11/2005 7:10 pm

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Sex and friendship


I was browsing other blogs and saw some vague pondering on sex and friendship. The writer, who lacks experience or wisdom, has many preconceived notions on the entire matter. But let us first make the leap that they fact that we are here in A.F.F. land we are all about sex. Now some are looking for friends or relationships, nothing wrong with that. But lets assume that 90% of everyone in here is looking to hook up for sex. Now this uninformed person assumes that all guys are just looking for sex, friendship is not included.

I may be the exception to this fact. I think that sex and friendship go hand in hand. I consider all my lovers friends as well. All this said, I understand that sex is just sex and love is something entirely different. But I also believe that sex gets better each time you do it with a person, you become more in tuned to their likes, desires, and responses.

I also understand that you can be a friend with a member of the opposite sex and never have sex with them. I have quite a few female friends and I haven't had sex with them.

So is every guy on A.F.F. looking to hook up with a woman just for sex and friendship be damned..... Nope.... there are a few that think friendship and sex go hand-in-hand.

cuteandnaughty76 40F

8/15/2005 7:38 pm

umm...so where are the rest of them?
did we get lucky enough to find the only guy on AdultFriendFinder who isn't threatened by a woman's friendship?

and boys, what's up with that? there are some women who can be naughty with a man and be content with nothing more than genuine friendship.

hey, it could happen.


cuteandnaughty76 40F

8/15/2005 7:54 pm

ok, a new post for a new thought.

I have to agree with the Dragon here. I really enjoy getting to know the person i'm in bed with, finding out what makes her scream or what curls his toes is one of the best parts of the whole experience.

on the other side of the coin, I love it when someone takes the time to find out what i like and then actually commits it to memory, but never stops trying new things. People are static, moods change, sometimes I feel really naughty and creative, yet other times I just want fuck, but you sort of have to know a person, at least a little bit, before you can pick up on what they want without directly asking.

but that's just my humble opinion.


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