A Sure Thing for Sex  

RogueDragon 60M
575 posts
8/23/2005 4:39 am

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A Sure Thing for Sex

During dinner, my wife remarked that men who have a sure thing for having sex tend not to use the sure thing. She feels since I can do her or my GF anytime I want, I don't because I am more focused on finding new or other pussy.

I agree to a point, but believe it is not just a guy thing. I think women do the same thing.

I do agree that there is a quest to find new pussy (for guys) and new cock (for the ladies). It is always exciting to meet someone new and explore.


rm_HotGuynFay 51M
50 posts
8/23/2005 3:35 pm

New pussy is always fun and exciting. Given the opportunity to fuck new pussy or old pussy, I will take the new pussy.

sxywickedwitch 54F
42 posts
8/23/2005 3:50 pm

see.. I was right... even HotGuy said it. Personally, I would go for cock I've already had and know.. I feel more comfortable with it and it already knows what and how I want it. And yes,it is exciting to meet new cock, but I'm always so nervous and find it hard to really enjoy it the first time, With a few exceptions and those exceptions I like to keep around LOL

cowboyandred03 40M/40F
1 post
8/23/2005 4:17 pm

Wellll......I don't find that true at all! I have sure thing cock at home but do not go searching for other cock. I mean, if it comes to me, well, under the right circumstances, then yeah, I'd take it. Now searching for strange pussy -- both my husband AND I agree with THAT statement!! Oh, and I'm with HotGuy, Rogue -- Send nudies of the wife...she IS hot!! Tee hee!!!!

cuteandnaughty76 40F

8/23/2005 7:52 pm

well, i guess the thing to remember is that your wife and girlfriend are only a 'sure thing' because they love and enjoy you. It's easy to take a sure thing for granted, but that's exactly how you lose a sure thing.
in you're case, dragon, you are damn lucky you have such a kickass wife. don't forget to show her what's really important to you, that goes for the gf too.
i think most of us know what it feels like to be treated like old pussy. It sucks.
its great that you guys can talk about it so openly. it can be painful to admit that our actions sometimes hurt the people we love. i've seen open couples just shut down and let the resentment build up and that never works out well.
Anyway, I don't think it's a gender specific issue. I think we all tend to ignore the beauty that is right in front of us, while we search for something else. we spend our whole lives doing that and end up missing most of the good stuff.

ArgosPlumyKooky 45F
3902 posts
8/25/2005 9:21 pm

there is the excitement of discovery, but unless it is a real bang it can't match up to a good steady.

RogueDragon 60M
213 posts
8/26/2005 4:59 am

Its a two edged sword kinda thing, on one side steady pussy is always good (cause the more you do it, the better it gets) and on the other side, its always exciting to try out new pussy. Same applies for women and cock.

sweetplaything 63F
23 posts
8/28/2005 11:56 am

AH HMM...there was a point of that comment at dinner that was not lost on you I'm sure! But it does make for an interesting blog. On a personal note, Ms Snatchmatch said it for me perfectly.

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