Why are we here?  

Reverbe2 43F
2430 posts
7/15/2006 3:35 am

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Why are we here?

We all have our reasons for being on AdultFriendFinder.In the couple of years since I joined, I know that my own modus operandi has changed.

Some are here to meet a life partner, some a fuck buddy, some for NSA fun, some to perk up their marriage and so on and so forth.

What surprised me and rather pleasantly I must say is the amount of people that use this site and its chat facilties for friendship - either take further into the real world or just as online company through the banality of the long hours of the day and night.

I'll lead by example and will be candid with you readers. I did join AdultFriendFinder yes originally for sex. More specifically to find a sexual partner for no strings attached sex. I had been unfortunate in my sexual partners in that I had not at that stage had what I would consider an good and enjoyable experience of sex. The partners I had I was not strongly attracted to and to be honest they were not one of them the most open minded of lovers.

Had a few meets - all disappointing in various ways.So my reasons for coming on this site changed to coming in for a chat and a laugh with the people I had got to know over the months in chat.I decided to give up on the idea of any kind of relationship.

Then the Goddess herself brought me a truly wonderful gift in the shape of my lovely man.I was lucky enough to actually find my soulmate on here - a happiness that fills my heart and soul and made me realise how fabulous life can be.

So now I'm here to chat to friends and hopefully make some new contacts in life.I've found a man that makes me truly happy and a few close friends along the way.

I wish you all find happiness and whatever you are looking for. Maybe if you are lucky, some unexpected bonus as I did in the form of a real lasting relationship or loyal and true friendship.

The forums open - why are you on AdultFriendFinder?Over to you...

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funintheday2006 56M
9659 posts
7/15/2006 6:04 am

Buggered if I know. If you find out give me a shout!!
Think Im just the site court jester

Reverbe2 43F
3297 posts
7/15/2006 6:49 am

Well welcome funintheday!

A laugh is always a good thing

Keep spreading the humour!

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waterdragon67 64M

7/15/2006 6:58 am

WOW you sound so much like me -- i came for sex did not a truly compatible partner a few meets and some friendship not close just people who think kindly of each other.

Then i was blown away by a lady -- now i come to relieve a loneliness as she is far away and out of contact at the moment. My earnest wish is to meet and find out if our connection is real and lasting.

Reverbe2 43F
3297 posts
7/15/2006 7:54 am

Welcome waterdragon.

Glad you have also found someone special. Hope that you get to meet and make your dreams come true.

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tracy_de_lacy 105F
9268 posts
7/25/2006 1:23 am

I too joined this site for sex originally. I had a meet with a man from here withing joining and he has ended up being my wee love. I have been seeing him now for almost 11 months.

I have also met some of the best friends in my life through my group and the meets we have. I have a lot to thank this site for.

I don't think I could have ever been happy meeting up just for sex anyway...it isn't who I am.

Bye everyone, it was a blast

Reverbe2 43F
3297 posts
7/25/2006 10:18 am


Sounds like your experiences on AdultFriendFinder pretty much match my own. Glad you have also managed the lovely surprise of finding a loved one.

Good luck with the future.


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