Why are SOME men so lazy?  

RedMenice 46F
138 posts
4/13/2006 1:40 pm

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5/31/2007 7:14 pm

Why are SOME men so lazy?

I've been around the AdultFriendFinder/ALT sites a while, and I've recently noticed a 'pattern' in men's profiles lately.....
"I'm the type who's rarely the first to make a move, but once things are moving, I'm really something else. I'm your typical free spirit, single and unfettered and roaming the Earth at will. Hey there! I'm a regular fellow, a little on the quiet side, but I thaw fairly quick once I get to know you."
I have seen this exact set of phrases in multiple profiles....and I'm not suggesting they are the same person...not at all.
Obviously these are being used at large by men who are not creative enough to make their own.

Men, call me crazy, but even if you ARE just looking for sex, my guess is you want to stand out in a crowd.
So blending in with all the other men and offering nothing for originality.........is NOT the way to go.

rm_lwanttoeatu2 57M

5/25/2007 9:36 am

I agree with cuzisaid about using the extras. I have never blogged before and now thanks to AdultFriendFinder I am.Also when I respond to a blog or a advice article it helps me build my confidense in interacting online.Next I have to master the spell check and that emotioncon thingy.


angelicprincene 45M

9/7/2006 8:21 pm

I have changed my post and post heading several times here. I came here looking for fun, unhibited ladies. I can go to just about any bar and pick up for a "fuck" but contrary to popular belief, there are some of us that treat a woman with dignity. I don't see you writing me! Maybe you're not impressed by a guys writing abilities. You should meet up with one of these slick pick-up artists.........they lie and use all kinds of tactics, gimmicks, gambits and trickery many of you gals falling for them. Basically guys fall unto four main categories, right? 1) Jerk/Asshole 2) NiCe Guy wussy, kiss ass foolz 3) Creeps 4) Real Men Oh, and for good measure....... 5) Terrible in bed Guys have been confused since the late 80's what it is to be a man when you gals asked us to be "sensitive". We treated you like dirt wanting you to be our servants before that. I ask myself if I were a woman, how would I want a man to treat me and what would I look for........the only thing is, that more than woman want to admit, many women don't accept the original normal guys here. I learned to just BE and be REAL and that has made a huge difference successfully interacting with women. But personals, including this one, seem to be not much more than a group of lonely loosers men, INcluding the females. Ultimately, I am interested in an exclusive relationship to each his/her own but I find that quality casual "intimacy" is a rarity. Most the gurlies here either want 1) Huge dick or, 2) $$$ I keep on looking for gold and all I get is cobblestone!

kitchenfun1234 44M
1797 posts
8/27/2006 4:21 am

I agree with Cycling_Fanatic. Lots of female profiles include.....Hey there! I'm a regular girl, a little on the quiet side, but I thaw fairly quick once I get to know you."

Don't ever give up searching for the fun in life.

Sweetpickles69 47F

4/13/2006 7:09 pm

I agree Red! Guys, Put something in your profile to get our attention. Something that makes you stand out from the other pervs here! Something that makes us want to meet you, & not just cock shots.


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