What is the 'netiquette' for post-cybersex cuddling?  

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6/22/2006 12:27 pm

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What is the 'netiquette' for post-cybersex cuddling?

Hello, my cyber nickname is Naughty, and as any RealWoman can tell you, naughty is certainly a prime part of what we're all feeling when we reach out for sexual contact-- it's great to see so many women responding so freely, graphically, hotly, in a venue where they can really say what they want.
And you men, how sexy, how horny, how sweet and sincere you are- I wish I could fuck and suck every one of you!
But, alas, so many men, so little time, as the song goes. For now, I'll try this blog for a bit and see if we can all make each other happy this way.
So, question for the day:
After you've cybered to a volcanic orgasm, wanking yourself into a frenzy, typing away with one hand while frigging yourself wildly with the other-- YOU CUM! and he/she CUMS! and if you are sharing that experience with a 'real' person, you are now in a moment of great intimacy, empathy, sympathy with the other person-- grateful to them, joyful with them, as content as you can be without the physical presence of your lover of the moment. WHAT HAPPENS NEXT?
What is your experience, do you just say, 'Whew, thanks, gotta go, see ya?' Or do you stay on the line and whisper sweet nothings?
I'd like to know what others do, write me back if you find this interesting. -- Naughty 6/22/06

rm_Ptalk1155 34M
3450 posts
6/22/2006 2:15 pm

No, not usually sweet nothings. Usually jokes, a good laugh, and a move on to different conversation.

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spacecadet561 60M

6/22/2006 3:44 pm

It depends. If it's a serial gangbang, a quick "thank you, maam" followed by a "have fun" to the next dick in line. If it's a one on one, a little cuddling if in a chat room. Private IM sessions can get into some interesting cuddling, or a shower (sometimes with a follow-on round of sex), or if it's late enough a long goodnight with some hugging and kissing.


rm_a_real_nice1 60M
572 posts
6/22/2006 7:31 pm

Welcome to the blogs. I like you style and your question. As for me it depends on who the lady is and what kind of relationship on line we have.

angelofmercy5 59F
17881 posts
6/22/2006 9:13 pm

Welcome to the Blogs!


6/23/2006 4:29 am

Thanks to Ptalk1155 , spacecadet561 , a_real_nice1
, and angelofmercy5 , who responded, and for the welcome to the blogs. From this small sample (2 w/detail) , looks like there are varying degrees of 'post-cyber' cuddle that folks enjoy.
My own experience has been that the guy (or guy and/or gals) that CUM with me are often touched for a moment or a few, with real satisfaction and a mutual gratitude for sharing both the deep need that drives us, and the release that comes from the CUM-- the best we can do is imagine the smile and the sweetness we're both feeling at the time.
So, today's question: Do you fall a little bit in love with everyone you fuck?
My answer is Yes. once you've bared your soul, (which is located in the center of the pussy, as far as I can tell with girls a part of your never-ending heart is given to that person- thank you darling, for a lovely cum.

Sometimes it starts kinda like this:
He wrote:
It must be the thought of all that ‘stiff’ leather….

We’d had an argument on the phone as I couldn’t make it back to a party we had invites to but as luck would have it the meeting finished early and I charmed my way onto the last seat on the flight.
I arrived at the airport and tried to call you but no reply, so I got a cab and was eager at the thought of seeing you after such a long time apart. I paid the cab driver and ascended the lift to the apartment. The apartment was empty, or so I thought, as no-one replied to my calls. I checked and found you lying on the bed, out cold from to much drink, as you must have gone to the party. You were dressed in a stunning outfit but I was annoyed, as I’d made the effort but you had ‘Gone off on one’. I decided to put you to bed and started by taking your dress off. You were like a rag doll but I unzipped the back and managed to pull it off in one go. The sight that greeted me was enough to make my prick jump…

And then I wrote:

--- I heard you call when you came in and glanced groggily at the clock-- Oops, you're home earlier than you said you'd be, and I had gone to the party without you...
Now worried that we'd have a tiff, and knowing that I've had a bit much to drink, I'll pretend to be sleeping . Then you came in and started to undress me...
Hmmm, I think, this could turn out to be something good, but I'll let him think I'm still out cold for now.
When you unzip my dress you see that I've worn my sexiest hose, the black ones that go up to the thigh top, then are panti-less to the waistband.
And, since I was pissed at you when I left for the party, of course I wore no panties at all, and danced at the party with some beautiful young men, thinking of how I'd tease you when you got home...

What happens next? (ladies, feel free to knock on the door to borrow a cup of Remy while all the above is going on -- Naughty

2 posts
6/23/2006 8:07 am

Well this can go two ways. First, seeing that you went to the party so sexily dressed might get him more angry. So he goes and sleeps on the couch , or what i prefer is that seeing you all sexxy gets his cock so hard that he wants to make up with you. He starts by crawling between your legs and slowly gives you oral till you awake with a thundering orgasm. Then proceeds to make love to you till you fall asleep in each others arms.

expatbrit49 62M

6/23/2006 10:25 am

It does depend on the situation if its with someone I know and have some feelings for then we stay online chatting silly things... same as would happen if were in bed... otherwise its usually a relitivly sort period before going off line

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

GrazeToadyCovet 48M

6/26/2006 1:12 pm

Well I like to cum down from the orgasm with a little more foreplay. Ask her what the aroma in the room is? Have her lick her fingers and describe how she tastes. Maybe explain to her the saltness of my cum as it touches my tongue. Whatever it is I try not to make it wham bam thank you ma'am.

MangeSteinJabot 59M

6/28/2006 3:33 pm

I've never "cybered" - so let's try it and I'll let you know how the post cyber goes....

rm_JJustin3 57M
2 posts
7/4/2006 8:43 am

Well, usually there's a long pause (gotta wipe off the keyboard, you know ). Then some stuff like "Wow," "That was great" "I came soooo hard..." "You're really gooood" and suchlike, depending.

I don't mind continuing the conversation after that, but eventually the cleaning up issue has to be raised (not the keyboard -- the rest of me) -- there's baby oil to be wiped off the hand, cum to be mopped up from the leg (or wherever) before it hardens, etc. So usually, after an exchange of appreciation and endearments, I try to end the session after five or ten minutes -- with a fervent hope expressed to the lady that we'll do it again soon.

By the way, RealWoman, there's a better way to find out my post-orgasm cyber technique .


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