Hairy Bush a Fetish Now?  

ReadyToTango46 57M
188 posts
3/17/2005 12:47 pm

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Hairy Bush a Fetish Now?

I was just reading a blog where a gentleman mentioned he preferred unshaven bushes, and mentioned he thought it may be a fetish. This got me wondering, have we gotten to the point where if a woman does not shave or at least neatly trim her bush, it is considered abnormal? Kind of like if a woman didn't shave her legs or armpits?

Now before you yell at me - I know the shaving issue differs depending on culture. In the US, unshaven legs and armpits would be considered unusual and very unattractive by most people.

Around the time I turned 18, American porn movies were becoming mainstream (or at least accepted - movies where being played in public theatres) in the US. All the porn legends were actively making movies - John Holmes, Ron Jeremy, Cristy Cannon, etc. None of the female pornstars were shaven, and very few even trimmed. Shaving clean was unheard of back then.

Fast forward to the present. Porn is everywhere. Porn is accepted as normal. Woman watch and enjoy porn (gasp!). ALL of the current pornstars are either completely shaven or trimmed extremely close. And porn movies featuring natural, unshaven bushes are considered fetish movies.

Nowadays many (most?) women in the US trim or completely shave their bushes as part of their daily grooming. I've always felt that the porn industry is responsible for this change in cultural norms. Yay porn industry!

So tell me guys, if you went to bed with a woman for the first time and found that she had a full, untrimmed bush would you find that to be unusual or unattractive? It will be interesting to compare the answers of younger men and older men. Women are also welcome to express their views of course.

Comments please?

SigEp4U 42M

3/17/2005 8:01 pm

IMHO... A hairy bush would definetly be a big turn off for me... sorry I guess I am just a product of modern day porn...


wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
3/18/2005 1:05 am

I'm a woman and I definately consider it a turn off....


rm_greedycat2 64F
46 posts
3/18/2005 4:26 am

yes thumbs down to hairs between your teeth lol

Random1962 55F

3/18/2005 8:11 am

Yeah but the blamed thing itches unless you keep at it all the time. And I'm sorry but what about you men shaving YOUR privates? I've heard that some of you are even going in for waxing. As painful as that is for the legs I sympathy cringe to think of it being done anywhere else.

Tala4u2 54M  
2961 posts
3/18/2005 3:14 pm

The bush is dangerous! You can be traipsing through and suddenly a Leopard can leap out and you are lunch! What we need is to establish a corps of dedicated bush wardens to keep these unspoiled tracts of nature safe for adventurers.

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,

ReadyToTango46 57M
161 posts
3/18/2005 10:23 pm

I'll volunteer as a bush warden. I pledge to keep the bushes trimmed and inspect thoroughly for leopards. Inside and out.

rm_sapphire71 45F
53 posts
3/19/2005 8:43 am

I agree that women should be kept at least, neatly trimmed. I myself feel cleaner that way. I do get waxed regularly, but I draw the line at the Brazillian. It's just too damn painful. I get waxed to a narrow strip, and keep the rest trimmed very close, and that better be good enough! lol

While we're on the subject of hair removal....BACK HAIR....GET RID OF IT GUYS!! It's such a turn-off for me. Especially when it is just in random patches.

ReadyToTango46 57M
161 posts
3/20/2005 7:31 am

Hey, getting rid of back hair is not so simple (unless you go somewhere to have it done for you - are there places like that?).

You women have been reaching around behind your backs unfastening your bras all your lives. It's a natural movement for you. If (for some odd reason) I was wearing a bra and tried to reach back like that to unhook it I'd end up dislocating my shoulder.

So what is a guy supposed to do? I suppose I could fasten a bunch of strips of duct tape, sticky side up, to my bed and fall backwards into it. But then I'd probably just end up stuck to my bed and have to call for help.

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
3/20/2005 8:40 am

ROFLMAO I can just see Tala and Tango guardians of the sacred bushes

I like my men shaved, and sapphire dear you are soooo right about those clumps!


wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
3/21/2005 8:36 am

ROFLMAO Tango, Ask pretty much ANY woman and she will be happy to 'pluck' the LOT for you lol....


rm_jillaroo2u 56F
1 post
3/21/2005 10:00 pm

G'day all. Just putting in my 2 bobbs worth on the bush saga. I have a nice,silky soft thatch of curls left A LA'Natural. Nothing gives me more pleasure than to lie back and watch a contented man lick his lips and pick a few of my hairs from his teeth. Much like a man who's just consumed a thick,juicy steak!!!!!!!!!!!!

rm_sapphire71 45F
53 posts
3/22/2005 8:55 pm

>>>"Hey, getting rid of back hair is not so simple (unless you go somewhere to have it done for you - are there places like that?)."

Do you think I wax my bikini area myself??? Heck no! I'm no where limber and agile enough to do that! Those Romanian ladies at the spa I go to will wax anything off!!! Bikini, butt, back, chin, name it!!!

Besides.....I think it would be nice for a man to go though the pain and torture that us women go through at least once. Try the butt wax!


rm_sapphire71 45F
53 posts
3/23/2005 9:04 pm

Whatta ya think Tango? Gonna set up an appointment??? I myself....will be going through the waxing torture this weekend.

ReadyToTango46 57M
161 posts
3/25/2005 1:54 pm

I'm just hoping I don't get waxed by my wife's lawyer...

No, I think I'll pass on the waxing sapphire71, lol.

1 post
3/25/2005 3:03 pm

What the hell is wrong with American Society? There is nothing more pretty then a natural bush. Let me explain....#1 It's's how god made you. #2 Women are beautiful creatures....pretty face....accented by a great hair style....pretty eyes...acccented by eye brows....and last but not least a pretty pussy covered in hair. It differentiates the blondes, from the red heads...or brunettes. Who the hell want to look exactly like everybody else. It's soft and fluffy and feels good on your cock. No stubble or razor burn. Your OBGYN will tell you it's healthier. Wake up! and smell the sweet hairy pussy people. Thats all.

ReadyToTango46 57M
161 posts
3/29/2005 7:39 pm

Talented - I agree. I have to admit that I prefer at least a trimmed bush, but hairy legs and armpits on a woman would really turn me off. How did that happen? That would be perfectly natural too. And in many cultures it is in fact accepted as natural and normal. I wonder when women started shavine their legs and pits. I really have no idea. All I know is that American women have being doing it for at least the past 45 years. It seems really silly to me to have to shave like that, but I to am a victim of the American culture - so no hairy pits/legs please! ^.^

tiger5350 66F

4/2/2005 6:34 pm

Putting in my 2 cents. I am not shaved or trimmed. Believe it or not there are women who can't shave due to sensitive skin. I have been shaved 3x due to surgeries. Each time I was so sore I couldn't stand being touched or have any clothing touch me. Most of the men I know love the fact that I am not shaved. I do pits and legs but draw the line at shaving other private areas.

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