The beach  

Raveheart2005 49M
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7/27/2006 12:57 pm

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The beach


today I feel led to talk on a certain subject, so grab your favorite lounge chair and dig your toes into the sand....

There is NO perfect mold for people , you cant pour someone into a robotic mold and expect then or you to be happy, you cant possibly compare someone to the past or even to what you know , thats the beauty of beaches each one has thier own and its diffrent then yours....

If you stifle someone by not accepting ALL of them for who they truly are as they come to you in your life and in the time you have to live on your beach, you and that person are missing out on many things....

I truly dont understand how someone would NOT want to be out of the box of normaility, of course normality is to each person just as thier beach is, the things of thier life, the past experinces they have gone through has given each one of us a sense of what normal is to us...

We all make mistakes on a minute by minute basis ,the tradjedy isnt the mistake its NOT learning from it...I have come across a theme lately...

many out there have never been loved unconditionally, they have allways been the caretakers of everyone else, and when someone comes into thier life that offers to be thier caretaker they have a HUGE adjustment to make to allow it...

I also have seen those who are so burned out by fakes and dictators that they truly cant respond to being loved or taken care of, they are just like walking ghost to emotions and feelings and dont allow themselves to feel....

you know there is two people in this world...one who builds others up and tries to help and make them the best people they can be, and then theres the negative leech that tries to beat people up to tell them they arent worthy they arent good enough they dangle things in from of people and hold things over thier head like oh you do this or that and then maybe I will love you as you crave....

I guess today it has hit me that no matter how much I work on this beach called life here , there will allways be issues that dont sit well... I can ignore them as the populations seem to do or I can try to change it one person at a time.. and make a small diffrence..

I am amazed at how foreign unconditional acceptance is becoming, back in the older days like when my parents met, there was a value to relationships and when they took a commitment upon them it was for life no matter what came up or what they had to face together....

it seems today its like a drive through resturant if you make a commitment to someone and things get rough or you feel they are to fat or too diffrent you can simply just pull back your comitment from them until they fit your mold..... and if they cant fit your mold you abandon them...

I am not pin poinitng anything today specifically but this.....Break the damn molds ....stop putting people and ways of lifes in boxes ...stop making things fit your life instead mold into each other and enjoy the diffrences.....

Lets each one by one do the best we can to break the molds around us and to unconditionally accept people for ALL they are even if its one at a time in a year that list of people with now new broken molds will be huge, and it doesnt take that hard of work to love someone for all they are and to tell them everyday how important they are for simply being themselves......

I have to tell you I appreciate allof you in my beach and I love the comments you make thanks for taking time out of your life to stop by and view my beach...

Rave

2daycowboywanted 45F

7/27/2006 1:27 pm

If for a brief moment people could do that - the world would be a wonderful place - even if it was for one brief moment!

2daycowboywanted


marnison 79F

7/27/2006 2:44 pm

....welcome... to the blogs.

smiles


Raveheart2005 49M

7/27/2006 3:25 pm

thank you all for oyur comments , and for sharing my world

Rave


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