do you oftentimes see a couple more than once?  

RUupTOit 60M
71 posts
10/30/2005 6:30 am

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do you oftentimes see a couple more than once?

And, Is it awkward at first?

My response;

I don't see where it is possible for a single male to have regular sexual encounters with couples without returning to a couple or couples that he has already familiarized himself with. I have not run the numbers but there must be 50 (if not 100) single males seeking couples for each couple that is available here.

The competition would seem to make most attempts to acquire a date, or even an interview, almost hopeless. Then, as if that was not enough, before you face the competition, you must pass through the maze of requirements that the couple has created in their profile, to find if you should contact them in the first place. "If you don't have 10" don't waste our time", "We want someone with no body hair, shaved cock and balls" "We are looking for a man with boyish looks" "If you are over 30, don't expect a reply" The list is endless.

So, this is always the most awkward stage for me. It challenges my abilities of adaptation, as well as my sales ability. Yes, my ability to sale myself. As a couple narrows the field by ever increasing stipulations, I must do the exact opposite and be open to an increasing array of what I find acceptable. I must be inventive in how I present myself from the very first communication. Do I write one sentence, "You are hot, let's get something going" or do I write a short story, "I am a single male with a bit of experience in M/F/M. I am easy to get along with, and you will find that I am non-threatening to your relationship..." and so on.

The truth is, I never know. The short approach can give me extra time to evaluate the couple so I can more accurately pinpoint what they are looking for, thereby, giving me the opportunity to become what they are looking for. I may not have told them much but, I also may not have given them a good reason to reject me yet. For the less experienced single males, still trying to get a foot in, this is probably the better approach.

I, good or bad, will normally go with the jump in with both feet approach. I not only tell them more than they could possibly want to know about me, I will even write a blow by blow of what they can expect from the moment we close the door behind us, being careful to explain that it is certainly adaptable to their wants. I don't avoid any concerns they may voice, such as, a couple wrote, "We are very clean and we are trusting you to be the same" How would you answer that? "I am very clean, you won't be disappointed"? It sounds like an appropriate response... but, is it enough to bring you to the forefront, ahead of the competition. This is an example of how I respond to this concern. This isn't lip service, I do what I promise.

"...I certainly understand your concern. I too want to feel free to let my tongue travel over every part of your bodies without encountering any surprises. This is what you can expect from me. About 1 hour before departing from my house, I will take a minimum of 2 enemas. I will then shower. Every nook and cranny will be cleaned completely. I will not apply any fragrances nor under arm deodorants so you can be sure there are no cover-ups. If you have any reservations that require additional hygienic action on my part, please, do not hesitate to tell me. The last thing I would expect is for my hygiene to be an issue, even in the most extremely cautious partners and I will stop at nothing to insure this is the case."

I learned many years ago, just because a concern seems trivial to me, it may mean the world to someone else. In which case, suddenly, it must mean the world to me also.

It is the anticipation over the unknown that causes most of the awkwardness we experience. I suggest that many of these unknowns can be eliminated in advance so that the ones that remain will be those that generate excitement not reservations. Do this and you will have an advantage over the others and just maybe they will want to come back for more.


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2/19/2011 6:27 am

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