I don't want to be "just friends"  

RUhardcuzImwet 32F
29 posts
8/21/2005 12:37 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

I don't want to be "just friends"

God. Is there any worse line than "let's just be friends?" You may as well just say to the person "You're not attractive enough for me." Or "YOu're just down right butt-ugly." Atleast, that's what it means when guys say it to me. I know it is, because I can have an amazing 5 hour phone conversation with someone and them be totally in love with me, but then when we meet in real life, it's like... They're so repulsed by how I look that they couldn't fathom ever kissing me. I get so tired of every guy I go out with saying that. I'm starting to think that maybe I should take everyones advice and stop trying to date. It's the same story every single time, and I'm sick of it. I'm sick of feeling so horribly unattractive when I get home. It's so hard to have any kind of selfesteem. It's not so much the guy I went out with tonight that upsets me. He wasn't exactly my type personality wise anyway. But its the simple fact of not being attractive. Even if Janet Reno called you ugly, it would probably sting a little. (sigh)
I need something. I don't know what. BUt it probably has a little umbrella in it.


ChucklesTheClown 49M

8/21/2005 6:22 am

You know, I really hate that line too! Sending a Smile to try to cheer you up a bit .... I have the same problem myself, hey I don't lie to anyone that I'm just an average person, no rock star, no model... Just me... a funny guy that can make people laugh so if you like me take me as i am I always say.... Hey Be well and things will get better for you.. ( Checking the crystal ball ) Yup.... it will

Be well , and I hope things will get better for ya @--->----

Take Care,
Chuckles.... the


MillsShipsGayly 51M

8/21/2005 6:30 am

DAMN those east coast boyz.
Your pics look downright fine to me. Sweet, nice bod and a naughty mind go a long way in a lot of people's books. Don't be pessimistic. Keep kissing toads ...


trucolourz 36M
1 post
8/21/2005 9:51 pm

so what are un looking for i think u are pretty there is a real man out there for u and its me u should never feel that way u are pretty i like to meet u get to know u reply pls


kozmik_wave 58M
96 posts
1/15/2006 1:01 pm

Damn that's lame for guys to do that to you! All I can say...swap plenty of pictures first, take your time and be more selective...maybe even check out somebody more mature, experienced and older than you...like me!

Don't change a thing...just might want to grab them by the balls and tell them you're getting what you came for, just shut up and like it...that would sure work on me!


paulwal5 39M
1 post
2/10/2006 3:50 pm

hey women u have no reason to feel that way even tough i know how u feel im male but feel the same i mean im no god but dont think im bad just dont get the girls i look at it this way some people got it some dont and well i dont so i make my other good qualitys come out and be your self and u will be fine and to be honist with u but i hate to be like everyone else but hey i think u know how i feel e-mail me we can chat or whatever. but plz nomatter what u dont need jerks like that forget bout it. ttyl


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