Just what the name says....just think of it as a potpourri of my thoughts, ideas and little tidbits that I share with everyone!! A special thanks to all my friends who read and comment in my blog on a regular basis!!
*Kiss on the stomach-----"Let's do it" *Kiss on the Forehead ----"I hope we're together forever" *Kiss on the Ear ---"I'm horny" *Kiss on the Cheek ---"We're friends" *Kiss on the Hand ---"I adore you" *Kiss on the Neck ---"we belong together" *Kiss on the Shoulder ---"I want you" *Kiss on the Lips ---"I love you" OR "I want you"
What the gesture means...
*Holding Hands ---"we definitely love each other" *Slap on the Butt ---"That's mine" *Holding on tight ---"I don't want to let go" *Looking into each other's Eyes ---"I just plain love you" *Playing with Hair ---"Tell me you love me" *Arms around the Waist ---"I love you too much to let go" *Laughing while Kissing ---"I am completely Comfortable with you" --Advice--
* Don't ask for a kiss, take one. * And here we always thought "A kiss is just a kiss."
There is much behavioral science research showing the most popular skin colour, eye colour, or hair colour in terms of sexual attractiveness. But there is little on what is the most sexually attractive color per se.
Different cultures have different attitudes and preferences in the attribution of qualities of colour and behaviour. For example, "black" is associated with death in European countries. But "white" is associated with death in China and "purple" is associated with death in Brazil.
As for sexual attractiveness, there is an enormous cultural component in this as well. Gender is another confounding variable. What might be perceived as a highly sexually attractive colour on a woman may not be perceived as such on a man. And what might be a highly sexually attractive colour to a woman may not be so to a man.
Nevertheless, drawing upon various studies from the fields of colour psychology and color therapy, a not-too-scientific ranking of "more" or "less" sexually attractive colors could be constructed from the list below of colors and their supposed attributes.
Given the above, red, black, and copper/bronze would seem to head the list of the most sexually attractive colours.
Research shows that colour affects shopping habits as well. Red-orange, black, and royal blue attracts impulse buyers. Pink, light green, light and navy blue attract tight budget shoppers. Pink, rose, and sky blue attract conformists.
Sep 1, 2007 7:54 am Mood: contemplative, 341 Views
Anniversaries are an interesting thing when you think about them. There are anniversaries which are generally happy such as wedding anniversaries or job anniversaries. There are also anniversaries that can be sad like the anniversary of the death of a loved one.
I have a more unique anniversary in the sense that it is bittersweet. Today is the 10 month anniversary of my cancer diagnosis....the day that changed my life forever. In a matter of moments I went from being a healthy (at least I thought) 42 year old woman to a woman who had to face the biggest battle of her life....Cancer.....and of course the first thought that runs through your mind is "Oh my God, I have cancer. Cancer kills people. I am too young to die!!!" Later of course, once the initial shock has disappated, somehow, out of nowhere, you find the strength to battle it and you determine that you WILL NOT let it beat you.
So why is it bittersweet you may ask? There is a silver lining to the date you are diagnosed with cancer. It is also the date that they utilize as a measurement of being cancer-free so today is also my 10 month anniversary of being cancer-free. This of course is the sweet part of the anniversary because you realize that you faced the odds and that you managed to beat it rather than letting it beat you. It is a milestone, because for each month and each year that you remain cancer-free, your chances of staying cancer-free increase exponentially.
Today I celebrate the sweet part of my anniversary. I AM A SURVIVOR and will remain a survivor. The diagnosis is but a distant memory even though it will always remain a memory because it made me a stronger person. I would much rather celebrate life than having lost the battle so today I thank God that I am here to celebrate!!
A Florida couple, both well into their 80s, goes to a sex therapist's office. The doctor asks, "What can I do for you?" The man says, "Will you watch us have sexual intercourse?" The doctor raises both eyebrows, but he is so amazed that such an elderly couple is asking for sexual advice that he agrees.
When the couple finishes, the doctor says, "There's absolutely nothing wrong with the way you have intercourse." He thanks them for coming, he wishes them good luck, he charges them $50 and wishes them goodbye.
The next week however, the couple returns and asks the sex therapist to watch them again. The sex therapist is a bit puzzled, but agrees. This happens several weeks in a row. The couple makes an appointment, they have intercourse with no problems, pay the doctor, then leave.
Finally, after 5 or 6 weeks of this routine, the doctor says, "I'm sorry but I have to ask. Just what are you trying to find out?"
The old man says, "We're not trying to find out anything. She's married and we can't go to her house. I'm married and we can't go to my house either. the Holiday Inn charges $98 and the Hilton charges $139. We do it here for $50 and I get reimbursed $43 from Medicare.
Okay so I am typically dishing out jokes, miscellaneous tidbits of information (sexual or otherwise) or just plain ranting on my blog. I thought today I might have a little fun and make you all think for a few minutes so I have come up with a 20 Questions game. Just cut and paste the questions into your own response along with your answers....it's that simple!!
1. How did you come up with your Adult FriendFinder name?
2. What is your current situation (single, married, divorced, etc)?
3. Favorite day of the week and why?
4. Favorite time of the year and why?
5. What is your favorite thing to do for fun?
6. What is your favorite color?
7. What is your favorite smell?
8. What would you do if you one a million dollars?
9. What color are your hair and eyes?
10. What is your favorite underwear preference for yourself and for your partner/lover?
11. How would you describe sexy?
12. What is your favorite sexual position and why?
13. What is your favorite part of your partner/lover's body?
14. If you could have one steamy night with any person in the world, who would it be and why?
15. Are you a moaner, screamer, dirty talker or quiet?
16. Would you rather have sex for 15 minutes every day or once a week for 3 hours?
17. Lights on or off during sex?
18. If you had to choose, would you rather have oral sex ONLY or penetration ONLY?
19. Clean shaven, trimmed or a la naturale?? What are you and what is your preference for your partner/lover.
A guy calls a company and orders their 5-day, 10 lb. weight loss program. The next day, there's a knock on the door and there stands before him a voluptuous, athletic, 19 year old babe dressed in nothing but a pair of Nike running shoes and a sign around her neck. She introduces herself as a representative of the weight loss company. The sign reads, 'If you can catch me, you can have me.' ithout a second thought, he takes off after her. A few miles later huffing and puffing, he finally gives up. The same girl shows up for the next four days and the same thing happens. On the fifth day, he weighs himself and is delighted to find he has lost 10 lbs. as promised.
He calls the company and orders their 5-day/20 pound program. The next day there's a knock at the door and there stands the most stunning, beautiful, sexy woman he has ever seen in his life. She is wearing nothing but Reebok running shoes and a sign around her neck that reads, 'If you catch me you can have me'. Well, he's out the door after her like a shot. This girl is in excellent shape and it takes him a while before he can continue, so for the next four days, the same routine happens with him gradually getting in better and better shape. Much to his delight on the fifth day he weighs himself only to discover that he has lost another 20 lbs. as promised.
He decides to go for broke and calls the company to order the 7-day/50 pound program. "Are you sure?" asks the representative on the phone. "This is our most rigorous program." 'Absolutely,' he replies, 'I haven't felt this good in years.' The next day there's a knock at the door; and when he opens it he finds a huge muscular guy standing there wearing nothing but pink running shoes and a sign around his neck that reads,"If I catch you, your ass is mine."
Last week, we took some friends out to a new restaurant and noticed that the waiter who took our order carried a spoon in his shirt pocket. It seemed a little strange, but I ignored it.
However, when the busboy brought our water and utensils, I noticed he also had a spoon in his shirt pocket, and then I looked around the room and saw that all the staff had spoons in their pockets.
When the waiter came back to serve our soup, I asked, "Why the spoon?"
"Well," he explained, "the restaurant's owners hired Andersen Consulting, experts in efficiency, in order to revamp all our processes. After several months of statistical analysis, they concluded that the spoon was the most frequently dropped utensil. This represents a drop frequency of approximately 3 spoons per table per hour. If our personnel are prepared to deal with that contingency, we can reduce the number of trips back to the kitchen and save 15 man-hours per shift."
As luck would have it, I dropped my spoon and he was able to replace it with his spare spoon. "I'll get another spoon next time I go to the kitchen instead of making an extra trip to get it right now," the waiter said.
I was rather impressed. Then I noticed that there was a very thin string hanging out of the waiter's fly. Looking around, I noticed that all the waiters had the same string hanging from their flies. My curiosity got the better of me and, before he walked off, I asked the waiter, "Excuse me, but can you tell me why have that string right there?"
"Not everyone is as observant as you," the waiter replied. "That consulting firm I mentioned also found that we can save time in the restroom."
"How so?" I asked. "See," he continued, "by tying this string to the tip of you know what, we can pull it out over the urinal without touching it and, that way, eliminate the need to wash the hands, shortening the time spent in the restroom by 76.39 percent."
"After you get it out, how do you put it back?" I asked. "Well," he whispered, lowering his voice, "I don't know about the others, but I use the spoon."
Well it isn't even Labor Day and it feels like summer is officially over. My two girls started school today and amazingly were all excited about going back. Mommy of course loves having them home but was happy to see them off as well. This will be the first time since I gave up my career to become a stay-at-home-mom that I won't have kids home all day long.
What on earth will I do with my newfound freedom?? I must admit I am really looking forward to the me time!!! I love being a mom and wouldn't trade it for the world but it is definitely going to be nice to have some time where they aren't around to do things I want to do instead of what they want to do all the time.
So for everyone out there who has kids going back to school and will have some "me" time, ENJOY!!
Most people enjoy a good sex life because sex brings them heaps of pleasure. Not that you’d need any other reason to hop in the sack more frequently, but there are substantial benefits for doing the horizontal rhumba more often. It seems that enjoying sex regularly can keep you in better shape physically and put you in a better mood as well because of the stress reducing endorphins released during sexual intercourse.
Workout: Sex works out your abdomen, buttocks and back muscles and it’s a good aerobic exercise for your heart. You might even lose some weight!
Vagina: For women it gives the vagina a real workout and with this part of your body it’s use it or lose it, baby. Having sex twice a week or more can keep your vagina toned and tight for a great time in the sack. Now really, who wants to have sex when it feels like you’re tossing a sausage down a hallway? Poorly conditioned muscles lead to needing to wee every time you cough (gross) or painful sex.
Prostate: Men, increased ejaculation may benefit your prostate gland and may even cut your risk of prostate cancer. Men who have regular sex are also more confident in every area of their lives.
The health benefits of sex coupled with the incredible pleasure that we get from sex should have you hopping in the bed right now! The more sex you have the happier and more lively you’ll feel. That will probably make you want more sex - which is great. Make sure you save time to read my blog though because I might find something else you need to know.
I found this to be very beautiful and had to share it with everyone.
The Dash Poem by Linda Ellis
I read of a man who stood to speak At the funeral of a friend He referred to the dates on her tombstone From the beginning to the end
He noted that first came the date of her birth And spoke the following date with tears, But he said what mattered most of all Was the dash between those years
For that dash represents all the time That she spent alive on earth. And now only those who loved her Know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not how much we own; The cars, the house, the cash, What matters is how we live and love And how we spend our dash.
So think about this long and hard. Are there things you’d like to change? For you never know how much time is left, That can still be rearranged.
If we could just slow down enough To consider what’s true and real And always try to understand The way other people feel.
And be less quick to anger, And show appreciation more And love the people in our lives Like we’ve never loved before.
If we treat each other with respect, And more often wear a smile Remembering that this special dash Might only last a little while.
So, when your eulogy is being read With your life’s actions to rehash Would you be proud of the things they say About how you spent your dash?
