Trophyism..  

Queen_Of_Wands 45F
228 posts
5/23/2006 11:19 pm

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5/28/2006 7:50 am

Trophyism..

..aka, Look at me, look what I have that you don't that makes me better than you.

Trophyism is a symbol of accomplishment and is a key part of a sociopathic character. Sociopaths are highly intelligent, witty, attractive and charming. They are also impulsive, utterly selfish, without any sense of shame or guilt, and cruel.

As part of my recent season of nutter experiences, I have had some very disturbing mail just now from a couple of people. As the contents don't relate to me, I won't quote but they have made this post essential.

If someone tries to get you to do things outside your character, back off..walk away..block their mails..don't take their calls. If they parade you like a prize poodle to their chatmates here, take that as the warning it most certainly is that all is not well and leave the room (and MSN if you're chatting there as well). Switch the PC off and get some fresh air. Stay offline for a week. If they ask you to spend money for any reason..well, use your common sense.

Cut contact and don't weaken. Talk to your real friends about the situation, not people here, as by that point it's highly likely you'll have been so suckered in that you'll have no sense of perspective left, and people here don't have to give a fuck about you. Your real friends do.

This place isn't a fairyland; it has a dark underbelly and if that's where you end up, you can get seriously hurt psychologically and emotionally. Remember..everyone's anonymous behind a handle, and bad things can happen under the cloak of anonymity. Not everyone is what they seem, and it's a fact that sites like this attract the bungled and the botched.

Don't leave your brain at the door when you walk in, and don't let your desires blind you to what's really going on.


Queen_Of_Wands 45F

5/24/2006 11:13 am

Well, I've just left chat and this seems to have struck a nerve. As I have the person iggied, I only saw the posts of others asking her what was wrong so she was obviously in the middle of a pity party over something. Ironic for her to seek comfort from others when not 10 days back I saw her razor an 18 year old kid in chat, for the heinous crime of being upset over being dumped by said individual after a 6-week fuckfest. The kid lost her cherry to her and got emotionally involved and a little more kindness wouldn't have gone amiss - what the kid got was aggressive pisstaking and nastiness and she left in tears. No need for that at all.

They say, what goes around comes around.

Karma.


Queen_Of_Wands 45F

5/24/2006 5:42 pm

Oh and Firepeach..yes, I know you're here, reading. Your name's on the guest list, I can see it as I type. I haven't forgotten that you abetted this bitch in razoring that Cheerleader kid so in my book that makes you the same useless lowlife bully that your good friend Audrey is.

So take yourself out of here and find another weakling to tagteam together. Your kind aren't welcome here.


QueenOfSwords 34F

5/24/2006 8:22 pm

I cant imagine what specifically provoked you to post that, but it reads as really good advice that everyone should take in AdultFriendFinder. I wish I had read it months ago when I was new and clueless.


Queen_Of_Wands 45F

5/24/2006 11:41 pm

Thank you, Queen. I felt I should post it after recent events, I saw someone in a chat room demolish a young girl very cruelly so I iggied her in disgust. Then a few days later found myself chatting to a newbie targeted by the same person. After the story he told me, I wrote this post. He was vulnerable after a relationship break-up, in a state of real emotional turmoil, and sadly there are people predatory enough to turn things like that to their advantage. It's all about power, and I don't like headgamers.


Queen_Of_Wands 45F

5/25/2006 5:35 pm

Doesn't pay to help newbies here, I realise. The person I took time to talk to was despicable enough to demonise me for it. I've just mailed him with my opinion of what he said about me. I should have let him get find out the hard way, as others have.

*shrug*

And Firepeach? I know this will be hard for you, but try to accept the fact that you really are insufferably intrusive in the business of others. Don't meddle in what doesn't concern you. Audrey uses you as a sidekick, that's your only function to her. I think the way you helped her to bully and humiliate Cheerleader4lif shows the sort of person you are. Get a life of your own instead of living vicariously through others.


Queen_Of_Wands 45F

5/25/2006 9:34 pm

There's nothing more sad to see than a dick-led newbie crusading on behalf of one of AdultFriendFinder's most adept manipulators.

Some people here don't have the intelligence of a biscuit


Queen_Of_Wands 45F

5/26/2006 12:51 pm

Well, well..the person who gave his word that what we discussed would not go further, and promptly broke that word, is now snooping on my blog.

I have nothing but contempt for you, TragiComedy101. Stay out;
oathbreakers are not welcome here and Audrey's endless pity parties garner her enough dupes and spies without your swelling the numbers.


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