Whats Wrong With This Picture  

PurplePeach72 44F  
7753 posts
6/14/2006 6:24 pm

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Whats Wrong With This Picture

If you have read my Open Hearts, Open Relationships, Closed Minds post, you know that I share. That is She plays without me. Yes parts of my brain want to know all the why and why not me and all those things, but putting that aside there are other things that come to mind.
Tonight she is off with one of her boy-toys. She likes him, no real strings, good in bed. But today is different. He has another g/f who is bi-curious. So he has set up a date for the three of them. Yes, the three of them. So he gets to play with two beautiful women and the New gets to explore her bi-ness, while She gets to play with her boy-toy and another beautiful woman. All sounds great right. Except for one thing. I am at home with no one to play with. Its a snap for Her to find the boy-toy of her choosing. And She has begun finding bi and bi-curious women who want to play. The Beautiful Couple we enjoy playing with is even slipping that way. The two of Them want to play without the guys.
It seems that the Older Me,correction, the Older Married Me, does not have the success that She does. So how is it ok for the married women to play but not the married men. And why in blue blazes am I stuck in a military town full of transit hot young boy-toys? Where are all the beautiful young transit women passing through in the same boat?
I guess what really brought this little bout of whining on is all in the title, the three of them are playing. Three, not two, not four, three. And I was sitting here thinking.....Whats wrong with this picture. I am not in it!
Taking my big sad puppy dog eyes and going to bed, with hopes that She will come home, not all used up, but all worked up wanting the Him


hunterpt 54M  
13351 posts
2/12/2016 6:46 am

You could play along. Kisses

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
6/17/2006 2:02 am

I just came in and read this...have you been reading my journal?Because this sounds like something that has been on my mind and soul for quite awhile now.

My lady & I live in a small town, so the opportunity for 'play' with others is very limited...like slim and none. But I often wonder would there be a strain on the two of us if we were in an area where there were more opportunities to play....

Give you an example...twice now, we've gone to play parties. The first was composed of Dominant Ladies; I was allowed to attend provided I put my Dominant Alpha Male side on hold (I got a damn migraine doing that). We were told that afterwards, we were going to go to another play party where I could have some fun myself. It didn't happen...

Second time, we went to a play party where there were both Dom/mes. Found out later, my lady and a friend were trying to send a submissive girl to me, because she wanted to play and didn't have a Dom with her. I say later, because another Dom stepped up and played with her...seems my lady & my friend couldn't find me.....hmmmmm.

So I sat through another play party....and did nothing. (understand...my lady & I play in private when it is just the two of us...she is an experienced Domme in her own right)

So I feel your pain, so to speak....great post....

NG61....slipping back into the darkness...

PurplePeach72 replies on 6/17/2006 10:00 am:
Even though we life in a not so small town, it can be hard to play sometimes. Of course with a large military base near by the women have no problem. LeeAnn often says I don't work hard enough or chase hard enough. I would of course beg to differ with her on that point. There is a magic line where it is far too much work for it to be fun. In her recent post she talks about falling for my puppy dog eyes. Well I have told her and I mean it, I don't mind her playing and want her to have no guilt. That does not mean that I will not be lonely sometimes. And of late its not from a lack of trying.
When ever she returns from one of her play times we have a wonderful time. So yes sometimes I am lonely, but in the big picture it works out fine.
Thank you for visiting our blog, I feel very special that you stopped and spoke . I hope you also read the Open Hearts, Open Relationships, Closed Minds post that is deep into our post. It touches on all of these things too.

ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
6/16/2006 7:17 am

Hi again. Just got back from reading your open hearts post which enlightened me to your relationship. Makes this post way more understandable. I know you read both mine and my sweetie's blogs so we both know how important our mates are to us. As in most any post that I make concerning a relationship, you'll see the words Communication is Key. And this is so true and the mainstay for us. We discuss everything.Was this situation discussed and expressed?
I know without writing a novel, explaining this whole post probably doesn't make sense to some and honestly , even my view has changed and that is thanks to your suggestion that I read Open Hearts Closed Minds post. As you know NB and I are open too. As our relationship grows each day, so does the parameters of how we feel about the open relationship. Obviously what works for 1 couple perfectly may not work at all with another. NB and I have a Circle of Friends and most that we play with are within that circle. We do occasionally stray outside of that though. In our particular situation, What LeeAnn did would not happen in NB and my situation unless it was going to be a one time only, which neither of us like or only if it were impossible for the other to be there. But this is our choice. Satisfying outside the relationship takes on a totally different means and I put her desire to play with women ahead of any of my desires. Now if the same incident were of to happened to us, I would of at least been there with her, even if it were to only watch. That understanding would be known prior to even making the commitment. I do know exactly where you are coming from and you posting this has made an impression in my open heart and i'm glad I was able to read this.

PurplePeach72 replies on 6/16/2006 1:57 pm:
Thanks. I am glad when the Open Heart Open Relationships post makes a difference to someone. I should explain that in the case at hand, I have meet the other Him. She only plays with b/f's I have meet and approve of. As for the other ladies, well I have meet some, but not others. And I am ok with that. In a MFM situation unless he is Bi and we are all playing I would just as soon not be there. Don't want to feel like I am competing or putting any pressure on her to make sure she "takes care of everybody". And when she comes home, She likes for me to "finish up". I am not complaining about that at all. But you are right, our fit would not work for a lot of people. But I am glad that some of the people out there are beginning to understand how it works and what parts of it might work for them. You and NB have a blast.

ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
6/16/2006 6:46 am

    Quoting ohcurious14:
    Wow!!!! It is early in the morning and this has left me rendered speechless. I shall sleep on this and come visit tomorrow. I will tell you however I do feel your pain. I will address this tomorrow......
Thanks for the suggestion and I will.

digdug41 49M

6/15/2006 8:46 am

well I hopw that you get the chance to explore just like your other half is doing and I'm sure it'll be alot of fun for the both of you

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

PurplePeach72 replies on 6/15/2006 3:30 pm:
The only problem I have is that it is not as easy for me to find interested and willing women or men for that matter that are as interested in me as they are her.

PurplePeach72 44F  
9199 posts
6/15/2006 3:56 am

AWWW! My poor baby,
I'm sorry you were feeling left out and neglected. I hated that you couldn't play but the New Lady was indeed extremely shy and nervous about meeting anyone new and she would not have done well with both of us. I think she was the greedy one, wanting to be the center of the attention from a man she is comfortable with, and the new experience of a woman. She did mention that perhaps in the future I could bring you along so that she could have a MFM experience and I encouraged that line of thought, so we'll see.

Hopefully, my homecoming rendered those sad puppy dog eyes into a wagging tail...lol I certainly didn't hear any complaining...hahaha
Love you baby,


PurplePeach72 replies on 6/15/2006 4:11 am:
Bright eyed, bushy tailed and still panting By the way did I tell you I love you

ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
6/15/2006 12:40 am

Wow!!!! It is early in the morning and this has left me rendered speechless. I shall sleep on this and come visit tomorrow. I will tell you however I do feel your pain. I will address this tomorrow......

PurplePeach72 replies on 6/15/2006 4:09 am:
Dont call it pain. Sometimes I hate leaving her in the morning to go to work more than sharing. It is not a bad thing. You should read the Open Hearts post too.

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/50F
9753 posts
6/14/2006 6:36 pm

Awwww I will come over. Why couldnt you go along and play too? Take turns doing the threesomes Maybe it would be exciting for the other guy to watch her getting screwed by you, hmmmmm?

I wish you well in this darling as I dont think I could handle Sail going on a date and I sat home alone, but I am not judging, we all have our own way of doing things. I am just being honest saying I couldnt do it and would be sitting there with puppy dog eyes too.

Kiss Kiss,

Purry {=}


PurplePeach72 replies on 6/14/2006 6:48 pm:

You are so sweet and beautiful You can visit anytime. No, sharing apart is not for the timid or faint of heart. But I know she will come home to me. The New in the blog is nervous or so the boy-toy says. I suspect he is just greedy...lol...Oh I have had mine, one on one, and have had a bi-women with the two of Us.
Did I mention you are beautiful....

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