One-Niter, Fuckbuddy, Date, Relationship?  

Plumpness1 48F
67 posts
5/21/2005 9:51 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

One-Niter, Fuckbuddy, Date, Relationship?


Hey everyone!

I've been reading through the blogs and find that there seems to be a lot of differences in the definition of certain terms that we all think we know.

I would really like to hear from everyone here - how do you define the below:

1. One-niter - who, where-do-you-meet-them, how did you know?

2. Fuckbuddy - who, what qualifies them, aftersex expectations?

3. Date - who, what qualifies/disqualifies them from becoming a potential fuckbuddy or relationship but gets them a 2nd date?

4. Relationship - how can the first 2 categories turn into one, who determines that?

Love to hear from you!
Plumpness1

rm_ChiChi2727 47F

5/21/2005 10:34 am

1-A one nighter is someone for who there is an extreme physical attraction. You may meet at a nightclub, a coffee house, a hotel bar...chat for awhile, and dispense w/all the b.s. and just find a place to fuck. Have an incredible few hours, entire night, or 20 minutes...and then be on your way. I don't want last names OR phone numbers. I just had an itch, and thanks for scratching it! lol

2-Fuckbuddy-this is someone who I call, or he calls me, when we want great sex w/out the strings--the only aftersex expectations I have is to maintain a casual friendship, and to be respected and treated well. I have a few fuckbuddies, and they are great fun! Read my blog from today to hear about my latest fuck buddy..hehe

3-Date-This is someone I would consider opening my heart and soul too...so we do a few dates to test the energy, similarities, etc. If they DO score a 2nd date, then the interview for the relationship is on...if they don't score a 2nd date, they just may be a fuckbuddy.

4-Relationship...it is rare that that 1 & 2 would turn into a relationship, but definitely possible. When you open yourself up sexually to someone, it can be easy to let emotions get in the way...so, one or both my develop feelings, and that is kewl. Just roll with it and see what happens..right?

Anyway, that is MY take on it...

Have a great weekend sistah!
xxx
~Chi


rm_WickedFemale 62F
401 posts
5/21/2005 12:28 pm

1. One night stands are for ones that rather not even know your name.
2. when you are on call for when THEY need you....
3. a dinner and talk, getting to know a bit about some one
4. relationship, taking the time to make a go of it together, seeing where the next level is with each other.
The number 1 never leads to nothing more than one night, if it did it would not be an one night stand.
Number 2 could go into a 4 with a lot of patiences and time. But honestly, who desires to be on call for another?


Plumpness1 48F

5/21/2005 7:15 pm

Chi-Chi!

You are too fun! And we agree on each point...except for 2 small words in #2. The man cannot call me when he wants it. He is MY reserve officer to be called up for active duty when I need it!!


Plumpness1


Plumpness1 48F

5/21/2005 7:18 pm

Wicked!

If Chi-Chi is my Adventuresome sistuh, you are definitely my Cynical one!! We agree completely!!

Always tells it clear and true,
Plumpness1


Teddybear8812 54M
2 posts
7/22/2005 10:38 pm

Like to meet hot funny Lady


Teddybear8812 54M
2 posts
7/22/2005 10:38 pm

good time a must


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