Fingering - a lost art!  

Plumpness1 48F
67 posts
4/29/2005 12:17 am

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Fingering - a lost art!

Men,

Fingering a woman's clit is an art. It requires knowledge (of a woman's anatomy), finesse (I love this word), skill, the right equipment (nicely-manicured fingers with no rough edges or hang-nails), the ability to read signals (verbal and otherwise) and a certain natural ability.

Personally, there's nothing more exciting than having a man put his hands discretely under my skirt, pull down my panties, and start fingering my clit!!! There's nothing worse than 1) feeling a burning sensation from unclean fingers 2) getting a coochie-scratch from unmanicured fingers 3) getting dry-fingered or alternatively 'spit-fingered' (ugh!) 4) get rubbed to death by the man with the iron thumb! 6)and this is the worst - getting well-fingered (varying speed and technique), getting close to an orgasm, and having him CHANGE WHAT HE WAS DOING!!!!

Men, just as you don't like blowjobs of the same intensity, speed, friction and technique neither do we!! Keep your hands clean and cut your fingernails so they're nice a smooth (with no sharp edges). Take a little time to hear how the woman is responding (listen to her dictates), vary your speed (some slow, light strokes, some short, hard strokes) with her moans.

Lastly, understand that sometimes, it's good to just get her off with your fingers. I love it!


4playman4play 62M
13 posts
4/29/2005 4:09 am

In golf most amateurs hold their clubs 10 times harder than professionals, clits are the same always - I think we all started with the iron thumb technique. Start light and teasing, gently using the natural moisture available and slowly build - watch the women's face, the tightness of her buttocks and thighs... sorry must go!


a2rabbit 63M
2 posts
4/29/2005 10:16 am

hey plumpness i have found that bringing a women close to orgasm and then backing off can be a big turn on. I like stroking a womens clit untill she is close to orgasm then sliding my finger along her labia. getting all those juices to lubricate her clit for another round of stimulation. then just at the point of orgasm penetrate her pussy with one or two fingers and bring her to a long drawn out multiple orgasm....mmmmmmmmmm


garbageman1963 54M
3 posts
4/29/2005 10:45 am

Hi beautiful,
Your directions and suggestions are excellent. I would also like to add that having the ability to vibrate ones fingers quickly and lightly, and alternating light insertions with the clitoral stimulation also can provide some nice responses. I think the best way to provide a good "hand job" to a woman, is with her laying on the bed, a me standing next to her, that way both hands can be utilized, providing the potential for a lot of stimulation that is not always easy to perform in masturbation or the front seat of a car! lol It also creates a natural position to continue the foreplay with a light body massage or whatever else might pop up. But really mnost women, I have found have multiple "G" spots, and two hands allows for the exploration of those.


innocent19735 44M

4/29/2005 8:28 pm

4playman sounds like a veteran with the watch her facial expresions but rabbit will get someone killed with that start her up and back off strategy!! Teasing a woman close to the edge of cumming aint healthy!!


Notrouble67 49M

5/1/2005 2:28 am

The true art to a good hand job is to pace that clit, learn that clit. You have to find the sensitive skin just under the hood right in the crease. That's Sweet Spot to touch. If you get really really close as to let her breathe in your ear, she'll let you know that you have found it. It doesn't take much to excite that spot and you don't want to box it like Mike Tyson, just learn to stroke it in both directions. you want to make that little button glow in the dark. Me personally I often have fight off the idea of just using my juicy full lips to please her juicy lips, but its about the "Finger to Clit" relatioship, that is the topic for today.


Plumpness1 48F

5/1/2005 11:31 am

NoTrouble, I like the way you think!

But you guys didn't address the problem of the clean fingers, and clipped nails....just something to keep in mind. Kinda like most men's request that women NOT use their teeth in a blow job!!


LimesMastsAvoid 70M
456 posts
5/1/2005 6:57 pm

Failing that, vibrating appliances and explosives are good....


sportyfun56 106M

5/5/2005 6:46 pm

you give a very nice explanation for the clods out there.


rm_MICHAELG469 49M

7/14/2005 2:40 pm

i LOVE FINGERING AND EVEN MORE - LICKING! IT IS MY LOT ART!


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