What do people think??  

PleasurePaulNow 42M
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7/15/2005 7:27 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

What do people think??


For most people the act of talking during sex is quite intimidating.
Usually a person is afraid they'll say the wrong thing
and kill the mood, or reveal a little too much about their
desires. If you're willing to overcome this fear you
will find that an aural addition can incredibly heighten
the sensual stimulation you're both receiving. First,
be sincere. Nothing can kill the mood faster than scripted
verse. Be honest about what you are saying and feeling.
Your partner will definitely be able to notice if you're
not. Talk about what you are feeling. This is an easy way
to segue into verbal foreplay. If something feels good,
tell your partner, and be specific about it. If you like
it when they do something make sure to let them know.Talk
about what you would like. Take to heart the old saying,
"If you ask for it you just might get it." Tell
your partner what you enjoy. (For example, "I like
it when you..." or "Do it like...")
Tell a fantasy. Open up a bit and tell your partner one of
your fantasies. This can be a great turn on especially if
you're whispering into their ear while you're
making love.Act out a character role. Sometimes being
yourself can be intimidating. One way to get around that
is to act in character. There are many role-playing options
such as doctor/nurse, slave/master, teacher/student,
cop/robber, etc. You may find it easier to approach verbal
arousal while in character.

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