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Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F
1147 posts
8/26/2005 10:17 pm

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Song of the weekend: Here I Go Again ‒ White Snake

Will be Wednesday before I post again, I am killing time in the calm before the storm. So why not blog about nothing? Ramble ramble ramble others have done it!

Today was interesting. A girl we used to help and watch when she was younger is in some trouble. We used to help her with homework, take her to the zoo ect ect. Well she seems to have gotten involved in a drug crowd, and is homeless because her mom must have tossed her out. The police called us asking if we would take her in. We feel bad but we said no. We have our own young ones, we do not want this around, nor do we want the drama involved. We are not in a position to help. So as Yoda says Do or Do Not. So we will do not. We cannot trade four lives for one.

Found out a sex offender lives at the complex. I suppose the wise thing to do is “take it under advisement” no reason to go ballistic, but keep an eye on things as always. Just because he did something wrong before does not mean he is out to mess around with every kid in the world. Baseball bat standing by.

Ironic. We have been invited to become casual friends with a couple on AdultFriendFinder. That is funny, find regular friends on this site. Any way they and we already have FWB, but would enjoy another family to hang with. They will probably think we are too weird anyways, but nothing to lose taking them out for a pizza in a week or two. We will probably not discuss AdultFriendFinder, might call it “the blog” so it is kid safe. They will find out we are a couple impersonating a greasy old man playing games on AdultFriendFinder.

Trying to decide how we want to build the house. In order to retire we will need to be out from under rent or a mortgage. The cheapest is to refit a trailer house, and build a cover so it is no longer a trailer but a house. No way the city would ever approve this, so it would mean a commute into town. If in town we might be able to build a house of straw, and cover it with Portland cement. It would be highly efficient to heat and cool. Log house would be somewhat easy to get approved, they are high maintenance, but they are cool, reasonably efficient and eco friendly. Finally can build a traditional house with 2 by 6 and drywall. Not environmentally friendly, not as efficient as natural materials, but easy to get approved. I/we still plan on having the house at least run solar 50%, probably go hybrid. If we use propane or natural gas could go off grid completely. They are supposed to have new solar panel that are really efficient compared to what we have now. I wonder if the monopoly will allow it to be released. It will also drive down the price of regular panels that is great. In town a windmill will not be big enough to give much power, in the country could make two dynamos and really crank out watts, even in the shortest days. Still have not came to a good conclusion about hot water. A solar assisted preheated tank, or an on demand. Much research to do yet.

My own fitness/wellness coach business is chartered. I have no assets, but it exists. When kiddo gets older, will be able to get it going full bore. I can do night classes and finish my graduate degree, and be the damn maid during the day. A stay at home parent job is about thankless, especially for guys. We are supposed to be out hunting. I can already cook better than she can. Luckily many women, wifey included think men who are good with children are sexy. I do need every advantage I can get. I look like a deformed wolf man.

She is a great “crisis manager” when things go to hell she can make sense of the chaos. If I do not have a plan I will hesitate, and begin to falter. Onetime this lady got in a car wreck, Bekka held our infant, and talked to the lady calmly, and gave first aid. Her Fibula was showing, I barely made it through the three anatomy classes with out barffing; this was live Tibia in a live lady. Me running home to call 911 was a good idea. However Bekka will falter when things are calm and status quo. If there is no emergency, she ignores things, then if you ignore things long enough there will be a crisis again. I am a planner. I must have my plan, and several back up options. Like a hand of cards, I just lay them down, one step ahead of the competition. I need to know what I have, and what is needed. We do compliment each other well. Unless I say I think we should do “plan.” She will then see it as a crisis, and step on toes to run the project/plan. Then we get miffed at each other. Damn Taurus, she will bulldoze her way around when she wants too. Drives me batty! I learned to feint a project she will jump all over it, then I am left to do the real project, evil grin. We worked out a code called "toes" when one of us says toes, it is a signal that space is being invaded.

I do not think I ever want to take the woman to a hardware store again. She got those color tiles, they have names for a lot of stupid colors. She asked if the kitchen would look good in chartreuse. What the fuck? Chartreuse? Why don’t they call it what it is, fucking Pea Green! Chartreuse, that has gay written all over it! “Hey guys football party in my chartreuse house.” What about John Wayne saying, “ You men best put on your chartreuse Calvary gear, we are going after the Comanche.” Chartreuse, what is this something from gay porn? “They buttfucked on the chartreuse rug, and their man-man union was complete, he grabbed the hot pink curtains in ecstasy?” My hell! Beige has a better excuse than chartreuse. Lavender, chartreuse, and other colors like that should stay in female exclusive homes. I would paint the house camouflage, but what if I could never find it again? Fuck chartreuse up the ass like the bitch color it is!

Oh damn! The Mormon Missionaries were at the complex today.. Fuck I should have taken them to the sex offender’s apartment! Fuck why do I think of this crap too late!? Arrggg!! Oh well always next time.

People need to play more. I mean play like kids. With an open mind willing to learn and excited about life and the little things. Maybe the fact I am a kid helps. I can be too serious at times, should go out and get mud between my toes. Legos, I like legos. I spend hours with the kids and legos. Maybe I will build the house out of legos? What would the city planners think? Ha no chartreuse legos.

I am off to shower and sleep. The woman will be up until 2 am, she is a night owl. Another annoying trait she has, she can survive on less sleep. I am a heavy sleeper, I sleep a lot. I could sleep 8 hours and still have a nap each day, but noooo! Oh well


bigredeatsbush 51M/50F

8/27/2005 9:27 am

Enjoy your time away - House building, I can help, you should ask!

Colors - #4 reason it's great to be a man, we only have to know the names of 5 colors! If you want to call it Pea Green, call it pea green, if you don't like the "essence" of the color, tell wifey to find another color, you have to live there too. I'm married to a Taurus as well, I feel your pain. Fortunately, mine doesn't feel strongly about too much, so she rarely "steps on my toes".

Just Friends on AdultFriendFinder, at least you have common ground to start a friendship!! It might be like knowing the worst thing about a person (not that I'm saying this is bad, just secret and personal) and then getting to know the rest about them.

OK, looking forward to your returned from <<insert details>> blog. Best Wishese go with you.

rm_lucytart 50F
590 posts
8/27/2005 6:17 pm

Legos and FWB, and weird families... you sound like my kind of folks! I often wonder how many of our friends and aquaintences are here, too, having another side that isn't shown. I have NO idea how to ask such a thing! Perhaps you have a better order - meet through AdultFriendFinder, and then have the families become friends...

FunandFrisky79 41M/37F

8/28/2005 11:34 pm

P&S- I laughed so hard at this post! You should ramble about "nothing" more often. You're so silly! I love it!!

I think it's great that you are meeting people from AdultFriendFinder with expectations of a "normal" friendship. I've been amazed by how many people I've come across in here that aren't just looking for "fuck buddies". When I first joined AdultFriendFinder in May, I never thought I would meet anyone who wanted a "normal friendship". And, it actually took awhile before I found anyone. But, now I feel like I've made some "real" friends here. I no longer look at this site as just a sex site. Don't get me wrong, I joined AdultFriendFinder with the same intentions as every other member... looking for a FWB. But, I've found much more than that!

I agree that everyone should play more often! Just because we grow "UP" doesn't mean we have to grow "OLD"! (My favorite game is still "Hide 'n' Go Seek in the dark"! LO. And, LEGOS ROCK!!!

Anyway, good luck with your new friends (& your house dilemma)! I hope everything goes well! I'm sure it will because you guys are a great couple! Keep us updated!!! (Btw, I don't blame you for not diggin' the Chartreuse! I'm a chick & I don't like it either! LO.

Take care! Kisses to you, my friend!!!


rm_jayR63 59F
1884 posts
8/29/2005 6:22 pm

Used tires and aluminum cans. probably could recycle some glass containers in there too.

I love hardware stores.
Not homedepot crapparappa, but good old fashioned hardware stores.
They have a wonderful smell about them.

AltumHunksUnite 53M

8/30/2005 9:46 am

Yes, normal friendships are possible on this site. Some of them even get together and play Fantasy Football. It doesn't always have to be about sex.

Let me drive. I like the view

Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

8/30/2005 12:59 pm

Hey Red-
Hey another handy person, great! I agree five colors just might be enought haha

hello thanks for stopping by. We hope to be typical people, legos are cool! stay in touch.

F&F- hey
That is great to find normal friends. All it takes is some good people and good things happen. We often find what we are not seeking and like it anyways!

HEy there. About 2 hours east their is a field full of old tires. Maybe I could build an earth ship with tires, earth and portland cement. Would put the tirres to good use, they have been lying in that field for over 20 years.

I never played fantasy football. Had a neighbor who was nationally ranked, until he passed away.

rm_luke69iner 48M
3275 posts
9/1/2005 1:54 pm

Great ramble P&S

Missionaries don't knock on my door anymore. They must have a national registry for people not worth saving.

The Lego house sounds like the way to go

We could have an AdultFriendFinder Lego house raising like the Omish do with barn raisings

S'io credesse che mia risposta fosse
A persona che mai tornasse al mondo,
Questa fiamma staria senza piu scosse.
Ma perciocche giammai di questo fondo
Non torno vivo alcun, s'i'odo il vero,
Senza tema d'infamia ti rispondo

ExploreMore4Me 59F

9/2/2005 7:55 am

Dear P& have a mind such as yours.... I'm not worhty! <bowing to the great mind master!>

Hugs & Kisses My Friend!


Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

9/4/2005 4:00 pm

luke haha an Amish AdultFriendFinder house raising ROFL you are too much!

EM4M- You are to kind, you are out of my league with the smarts

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