My Perfect Guy...  

Peche85 31F
828 posts
1/25/2006 3:30 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

My Perfect Guy...


This is just for fun, but here's what I think my perfect guy would be like:

* Significantly taller than me so I can wear heels and not be taller than him.

* Have manners and hold doors open for me, pull my chair out but not go as far as opening the car door for me, waiting for me to get in and closing it for me then walking all the way round to the other side to get it! I hate people closing car doors for me and I don't wanna wait for you to walk to your door lol.

* Be at least 3 years older than me.

* Doesn't smoke or do drugs.

* Likes going out once a week for dinner & a movie and doesn't mind seeing foreign films.

* Gives me massages because I'm sore & tired and because he wants to, and doesn't make me beg for them.

* Hugs me when I cry and knows that there might not be any reason in particular, I just need to cry!

* Understands that sometimes I need to study and do other things and that just because I'm not with him it doesn't mean I'm seeing someone else!

* Doesn't mind that I have guy mates and knows they are just mates and nothing more.

* Likes to give presents for no reason.

* Likes having breakfast and reading the morning paper in bed on Sundays.

* Takes me away for random weekends away.

* Likes going for drives to random places for no reason but to be alone together for a while.

* Is honest, truthful and tells me everything and wants to know everything about me.

* Texts me every night just to say good night!

Hmmm well thats about it for now. If anyone knows this person send him my way lol. And if you are this person send me a message!!

Of course I'm not totally selfish and will do everything mentioned here in return.

I guess I just want someone who I can do nice things for for no reason and they do it for me in return instead of "I did this for you so you have to do this for me". Couples should do nice things for each other because they want to and love making each other happy, not because they want something in return!

I had fun doing that list! Everyone should make one!

Darkpassion 57F

1/25/2006 5:58 am

Yours sounds good to me If he has a sexy twin send him over....hell send them both over. Can't get too much of a good thing.lol
DP


BiGirlHamNZ 38F
2 posts
1/25/2006 11:12 pm

Sounds like my perfect guy too! Although I don't like our chances of finding two of them in Hamilton!


bulging_boy 49M

1/26/2006 5:08 am

I did my list Peche... and fuck me if I didn't find her.

You'll have guys clamouring after you shortly... but don't rush in.

Don't compromise yourself either... if he's the right guy... he'll understand YOU and accept YOU.

and I would message you cause that's me... but I'm taken


GoodiesNZ 42M

1/29/2006 7:59 am

Darn - I fit the bill for all but one thing. Time for a smoke-break to think about it!


Paulie5223 35M

1/31/2006 8:31 pm

hey think i have been in that relationship. but couldnt have since it didnt work out. lol How can one say that they fit that. haha I know i aint the perfect guy but i Love my family and if I have that special someone then I will love and take care of them till the end. I really like to make sure they know I care. Hope you find that one but if you'll settle for someone a lil less perfect and needs some edges smoothened out then try me. Because it takes work to build a strong relationship. We all know that. xx babe


ranger69692000 54M
8 posts
2/6/2006 5:31 pm

hey girl you have just found your perfect man, i"ll be your daddy anytime. you can have your cake and be eaten too!!!!


velvethandsNZ 68M

3/4/2006 6:26 pm

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, lets think this through

Significantly taller than me so I can wear heels and not be taller than him.
I am 3.5 inches taller - will heels thab big do?

* Have manners and hold doors open for me, pull my chair out but not go as far as opening the car door for me, waiting for me to get in and closing it for me then walking all the way round to the other side to get it! I hate people closing car doors for me and I don't wanna wait for you to walk to your door lol.

I guess I could forgo the walking round the car bit if you insist - though the point of closing the door for you is A) to ensure your coat or gown don't get caught up in the door, and b) to be sure there's no one behind your seart going to make a grab for you or my luxury foreign car.

* Be at least 3 years older than me.
AT least 3 years, and then some in fact - but that should make you feel pretty good, as it means I've done the me-mine thing so can focus on helping you do the you-yours!

* Doesn't smoke or do drugs.
Been there, smoked drugs and done ciggies, one in the 70s when everyone did, the other until three years ago when I gave up on a cold day - rotflmaf

* Likes going out once a week for dinner & a movie and doesn't mind seeing foreign films.
Is twice a week for dinner OK? and maybe the theatre sometimes too?

* Gives me massages because I'm sore & tired and because he wants to, and doesn't make me beg for them.
A LAdy never begs - and a gentleman would never allow her to get to the point where she needed to! Backrubs and foot massages are the best pre-foreplay I've ever come across,even if it's a day-pre-foreplay it works for me

* Hugs me when I cry and knows that there might not be any reason in particular, I just need to cry!
At least once in a full moon a woman needs to cry just for the hell of it, and be hugged while she does it - just like she needs to be able to talk about her challenges without a guy trying to tell her how to solve them!

* Understands that sometimes I need to study and do other things and that just because I'm not with him it doesn't mean I'm seeing someone else!
Lets face it - if you were seeing someone else it would be the guy's fault for not pampering you enough! Eveyone needs space to do their thing, and that includes a night out with the girls (or guys for a guy) now and then too. Not understanding that makes the significant other possessive, which in turn should make them insignificant again.

* Doesn't mind that I have guy mates and knows they are just mates and nothing more.
That isn't difficult, as long as it's sauce for the goose as well as the gander. Everyone needs mates, and these days which of the five sexes they are shouldn't matter to anyone else at all.

* Likes to give presents for no reason.
Well, there would always be a reason with me, which would be the look in your eyes when you open the box and see something that's not needed, but definately appreciated

* Likes having breakfast and reading the morning paper in bed on Sundays.
You mean there are other ways to spend part of Sunday mornings!

* Takes me away for random weekends away.
How about 'brings me away .... etc..? Give that I don't live in te same city as you (yet!@#!#%$#! )

* Likes going for drives to random places for no reason but to be alone together for a while.
Never tried that, but it does sound like fun - though the random has to be a bit planned, otherwise we'd end up in the Cook Straight! lol

* Is honest, truthful and tells me everything and wants to know everything about me.
Tell me all aout you - (I'll tell you about me, but it may take a year or two so a little bit at a tie movig from oldest to current - each taking half hour turns OK with you?

* Texts me every night just to say good night!
Good night sweetie - I'd do it by text, but I don't have your c-phone number, nor would I expect it until you felt much more comfortable than you do right now with me


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