Party Poopers!  

Passionatelove70 46F
262 posts
8/14/2005 6:25 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Party Poopers!


Just wanted to vent my frustration....
I was put in charge of organizing a gathering for the New Ulm/Mankato Kink Group here on AdultFriendFinder since the Moderator's grandmother just died I got handed the torch. I spent 6 hours Friday night sending out personal emails to hundreds of individuals, couples, groups, you name it! We were going to have a bonfire and some were going to camp too. It was set for Saturday night. When I wake up on Sat morning I see that the guy who was supposed to be helping me organize said "it looks like no one is interested so I'm not going". UGH! I was so angry with him! I emailed him and told him never to contact me again. I wasted my whole Thur and Fri nights for this! There were only a handful of people who said they were going to show so I sent them emails cancelling the bonfire.
It just pisses me off that people whine about wanting to get together and then when something is scheduled they don't want to go or don't show up. The date had been set about a month ago. We were going to go to the Mall of America but too many people complained it was too far to drive, so that's why I changed it to something locally.

I'm still upset, even a day and half later! Any suggestions on how to vent my frustrations?

Jory72 44M  
1420 posts
8/15/2005 6:02 pm

passionatelove, u can vent your frustration with me by having some all night good sex i hear u though on this. usually when something is put together it usually ends up to short notice for me when i find out about it, or just a bad time. thats why i never say yes until i am absolutly sure i can attend. and i hear you on interest about these get togethers. everyone complains there never are any, then when there is one, just about everyone who complains the most never answer that they will come. i see very few fantasies in this site getting fullfilled. hopefully u and I can get together and at least make some of ours come true. especially finding another woman to join u and I in a 3-sum. take care.


smackyman 46M
3845 posts
8/15/2005 11:28 pm

Being an organizer is an underappreciated position. Without people like you, these things would never - ever - get off the ground. Sorry that in the end it didn't work out for you. Your heart and enthusiasm was in the right place. I hope that it doesn't turn you off of every considering organizing anything like that again.


northwoodsguy30 50M
2 posts
8/18/2005 3:59 pm

If I'd have known about it I'd have driven down there from up north. It'd be nice if one of these meets happend just once. I was a member here a few years ago and it was the same BS. Lots of talk no action. Did meet a couple of ladies.


rm_katofunguy 54M

8/22/2005 10:27 am

Passionatelove...thanks for taking the initiative to set this up. I really wish I could have attended but was out of town. Don't get too frustrated and I hoipe to see you at a local gathering soon.


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