Too ticklish to be touched  

PassionateBeat 44M
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7/13/2005 5:43 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Too ticklish to be touched

Many people mention that they are too ticklish to get massaged and in some case simple caresses also become like being put thru a torture similar ton one of the "if you don't talk..." torture scene straight from early years cartoons.

Often these people are just reacting from previous experiences where they had been massages by someone with an overly gentle hand and or a person who was overly fidgety...

So what do you need to do if your partner is ticklish?

Well one thing is to set the mood. Its important that the person be relaxed and also in the mood for being touched!
Keep in mind that everyplace is not necessarily a good place for massages and anytime is not a always a good time for them either.
Its important that you communicate your intentions to the person verbally or in an other way so you don't cause any unexpected stress...
Don't suddenly jump into a full blown massage... That is a sure mood killer.
Massages are about relaxing!
If the person is extremely sensitive it may be a good Idea to start with non ticklish areas as the hands and fingers. Remember that a person's hands work all the time and most of the time they only get skin deep rewards like touching something soft or something that is pleasantly warm or cool.
So the hands are a very good place to start.

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