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Kissing, the Lost Art
Kissing, the Lost Art
One of the first physical activities to go on a sexual relationship with a partner is kissing. Oddly many couples will have sex but have not kissed one another more than a "peck" in years. So on that premise, lets review some kissing techniques below to perhaps remind you of how wonderful it can be and how to start making the passion in your relationship hotter.
The key to good kissing is creativity and listening to your partners cues. Creativity speaks for itself. Creativity includes trying new ideas, and/or new combinations of movements, locations and moods. Listening refers to paying attention to your partner's verbal and nonverbal signals. Is your partner excited? Is your partner in an aroused mood?
Remember that a sensual kiss can often be very slow in it's motion. The slowness can actually raise the sexual tension by 'pacing' the sexual encounter.
Routines sometimes can act to diminish the excitement, because the other person already knows exactly what will come next. In that way, a 'first' with someone new is always exciting, because you simply have no idea about what to expect.
Therefore, in an effort to help people 'break' old patterns a set of different types of kisses have been collected.
Here are some Different Types of Kissing-
The type that has a long buildup and both parties wonder when the other one will start to lean over… or if the other person is even interested.
this one involves a bit of mouth movement (opening and closing). With the use of your tongue. Imagine sucking on your arm, while using your tongue to gently pull in the skin, and then push the skin back onto the arm. The movements are best when slow, steady and precise.
This is excellent for cunnilingus and fellatio. The saliva acts as lubrication. However, at all other times, unless specifically requested, avoid the slobbery kiss.
Wetting lips kiss:
Run your tongue along the contours of their lips.
Exactly that. Suck on their lips. Upper lip kiss. Only kiss the upper part of the lip.
Lower lip kiss:
Only kiss the lower part of the lip. The nibbling kiss. Literally, nibble on their lips and nibble/kiss all over their cheeks and ears.
Tongue sucker kiss:
Literally, suck on your partner's tongue as if it was a finger.
Teeth cleaner kiss:
While kissing, run your tongue along the inside of their mouth. Explore the structure of your partner's teeth. Feel each tooth (within reason), one by one. By following each grove, note the texture (s) of the tooth.
Tongue player kiss:
Use your tongue to play with their tongue. Mouth explorer kiss. Use your tongue to explore the rest of your partner's mouth. What does the inside of your partner's cheek feel like, the back of the lips? Does it feel dry, hard, of firm?
Kiss your partner in public, kiss your partner in private.
Change kissing speeds. Begin super slow, and then let yourself speed up. The beginning part of the kiss should last at least 10 minutes, then after your partner can not stand it any longer speed up. Then, do not forget to slow your speed down. Too much of anything is not a good thing. Frequent subtle alterations, keeps the person guessing as to what will come next.
Kiss your partner while making loud kissing noises.
Kiss your partner without making any noise - best to practice when someone is around and you do not want to be heard.
Kiss your partner the exact way that she/he kisses you. Follow your partner's lead.
Open eyed kiss:
Maintain eye contact during kissing.
Closed eye kiss:
Close your eyes and imagine how this kiss will lead to the best sexual encounter ever imaginable.
While kissing, use your tongue to lick her tongue, her teeth, and the roof of her mouth. Do not confuse this 'lick' with a sloppy wet kiss. This 'lick' is very precise. This technique is meant to be used to pull your partner's mouth slightly closer to yours and to feel what your partner feels like. Please note, your partner's mouth should be relatively dry afterwards.
The talking kiss refers to whispering sweet nothings to your partner as you kiss them on their lips. In between each kiss or two, while still invading their space, sharing thoughts with them about how much you like them, or how much they turn you on. (i.e. the dress you wore last night, your eyes, the way you handled the situation at dinner etc.).
Sneak a kiss in to your partner when you are on the elevator and no one else is around.
Shared Candy Kiss:
Sharing a candy or tasty morsel of food can be erotic and yummy!
Just a fast kiss on the lips, where you literally peck your partner on the lips.
8/11/2005 12:19 pm
The second part is better... go read it... P|