And, I blew it, again!  

Paksennarrion 38F
43 posts
6/27/2006 7:02 am

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6/29/2006 2:06 am

And, I blew it, again!

Those of you who have read my blog before (or read the other posts before this one), might recall me mentioning a nice gentleman. Well, this morning, he sent me an IM "still want to fuck?". Needless to say, this upset me, so I sent back: While I find you physically appealing, your language is starting to get on my nerves." He shot back with "then I won't bother!" and left the chat room. I swear, I could hear the door slam. I didn't mean to upset him. I just don't like that type of language. And I know that I've mentioned it to him in prior conversations (though I admit, if he's talking to a lot of different people like I am, it may be difficult to remember who is who). So, the question of the day is, do I owe him an apology? I'm sure I could have found a better way to remind him that that kind of talk doesn't turn me on. Not to mention, adult website and all that. If I can't stand the heat, I should probably get out of the kitchen. But then, it reminds me of a discussion my sister and I had about bars. She told me that you can't meet a nice person in a bar. I said, why not? I'm in a bar. She had to admit, I'm a nice person. So I'll just keep sifting, until I find a guy in or near SA, who is nice, but curious enough to end up here. (Please don't tell me it will take forever, I don't need my illusions shattered just yet.)

buddhamike 106M
7006 posts
6/27/2006 8:44 am

It won't take forever, but despite the vast number of men here, it can take some time to find a good one.

redmustang91 57M  
8656 posts
6/27/2006 8:44 am

Well it all depends. Between lovers one asking the other if the partner wants to fuck can be endearing. Over the internet you cannot hear tone of voice or see body language. Just explain your viewpoint and express your preferences. If he does not take a hint then he is an idiot and find a smarter and more considerate lover. There are lots to choose from... Next!

Choozmi 50M

6/27/2006 8:50 am

I wouldn't apologize to him at all. He was rude. That language is unacceptable (unless you have indicated to him that it is okay).

Just because you might feel that the pickings in your area are slim doesn't mean you should lower your standards.

That guy wouldn't dare talk like that to a woman he just met in person. He needs to grow up.

rm_irishangel37 47F

6/27/2006 11:37 am

I think that by my age....if it hasnt been found... its because...all the "good ones" are already what??

tracy_de_lacy 105F
9268 posts
6/28/2006 3:31 am

The only reason you should apologise is if you are happy to be spoken to like that. He shoud be apologising to you for treating you in that way. For the way he treated you like a piece of meat. How dare he assume that because you are on this site you will allow yourself to be abused in this way.

In my opinion you have just had a narrow escape. If you had started something up with him he would have treated you like shit.

Your too nice for that and you need to see your real value and iggy and block this numpty

Bye everyone, it was a blast

tracy_de_lacy 105F
9268 posts
6/28/2006 3:34 am

    Quoting rm_irishangel37:
    I think that by my age....if it hasnt been found... its because...all the "good ones" are already what??
I found my man on my 44th birthday

Bye everyone, it was a blast

rm_lilsass999 46F

6/28/2006 10:07 pm

u owe him no apology, he just proved what a shallow insensitive pig he is. makes me ill how crude men can be to women here with the excuse "well its a sex site, what do u expect?"... i expect to be spoken to like u care what i think. im not robotic, and not some trash off the street. i have pretty much lost all respect for men as a whole.. one track minds, hello men! women need to be mentally stimulated! DUH!

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