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| Anal Sex!!!!! |
Aug 23, 2007 4:34 am
Mood: happy, 9357 Views |  | Hiya all i wanted to set the record straight about anal sex.
i love anal sex and have had amazing orgasms from it. It got me thinking lots of people still find it a taboo. i found this great article about the 5 myths about anal sex.
thought you might enjoy reading it.
Anal sex has become a taboo act in many women's sexual repertoires.Many think of it as dirty and painful and won't even entertain the idea of letting a man go "there".
getting the facts
Of all sexual acts, anal sex is the most misunderstood. Despite the fact that one out of every four women has engaged in anal sex, the practice remains taboo. Many women are reluctant to experiment with anal sex because of the many myths and misconceptions that surround the practice.
But once you learn the right techniques, it's easy to see why anal sex can be so enjoyable. The anus contains a vast supply of nerves, and is one of our most sensitive erogenous zones. Stroking, massaging and otherwise stimulating the anus can be intensely pleasurable. In fact, some women are able to orgasm from anal stimulation alone. Here you'll find answers to the most common concerns about anal pleasures:
1- The anus is dirty
Early in our childhood, we are taught that the anus is dirty and should not be touched. Thorough hand washing after accidentally touching this area was stressed. You may also have heard similar sentiments voiced about your vulva and vagina, but of course stimulation of these body parts can certainly provide a multitude of pleasurable sensations.
With routine daily hygiene, the anus is as clean as other parts of your body. It does contain its own natural bacteria, though, and to avoid infections, you must never move anything from your anus to your vagina.
2- Anal sex is painful
Anal sex should not be painful. If it hurts, you are doing something wrong. If you learn the proper techniques prior to experimenting, you may find it enjoyable.The keys to pleasurable anal sex are relaxation, lubrication and education. The anus is a tube that is one and a half inches long and surrounded by two rings of muscle. One ring, the external sphincter, is under your control. The other, the internal sphincter, will automatically tighten whenever something is pushed into your anus. Relaxing the external sphincter will make anal sex easier and more pleasurable. Your anus does not produce its own natural lubrication, so use lots of water-based lubricants to further increase your pleasure.
3- Anal sex is harmful and unhealthy
Many women fear that anal sex will cause hemorrhoids, fissures or tears. Some even fear that they may become incontinent and spend the rest of their lives in adult diapers. Pleasurable anal sex does not cause harm to your anus or rectum. And as long as your partner does not have a sexually transmitted infection, neither semen nor sperm are harmful to your rectum.
If you are not sure about the sexually transmitted disease status of your partner, use a lubricated latex or polyurethane condom during anal sex. Avoid condoms with spermicides -- they may cause irritation of the sensitive anal and rectal tissues.
4- Anal sex is a perverted, unnatural act
Anal sex has been an accepted sexual practice for centuries. In some cultures, women engage in anal sex with their male partners for sexual pleasure while protecting their virginity. You must decide for yourself what feels natural. If you are uncomfortable with any sexual act, don't do it! You are in charge of what you do sexually.
5- Anal sex is enjoyed only by homosexuals
Long considered a purely homosexual act, anal sex is enjoyed by many heterosexual couples as well. Anal sex is simply another option for sexual gratification and is unrelated to your sexual identity.
know your anatomy
To better understand anal sex, you need to understand the anatomy of your anus and rectum. With a mirror, and a good light source, take a look at your anus. As you spread your buttocks, you will notice the opening to your anus. Though it appears small and tight, it is capable of stretching enough to accommodate a finger, toy or any size penis. You will notice that the skin surrounding your anus is dark and wrinkled, and contains hair, sweat and oil-secreting glands. The tube-like anus contains numerous nerves and is exquisitely sensitive to touch and stretching. At the top of the anus is the rectum. The five-inch rectum is not straight, but makes several turns. And because the tissue of the rectum is delicate, sharp objects or unusual force can easily damage it. Though not as sensitive as the anus, some women enjoy the feeling of rectal "fullness" that is created during anal sex play.
6 Do's and don'ts of anal sex
DO'S:
1. Be sure you really want it. It's important to decide jointly that this is something that you wish to explore with your partner.
2. Relax. The second thing that I tell clients who ask for technique tips is to b-r-e-a-t-h-e into the experience. The anal sphincter muscles are tight bands that encircle the anal opening and control your bowel functions. If you try to penetrate them without breathing deeply, it will most likely cause you pain. In fact, I always suggest that couples insert a well-lubed fingertip first, allowing the sphincter muscles to gradually dilate to the size of the penetrating object until you are both ready for the entry of a live penis. Remember, the object is not to stretch the anal opening, but allow it to expand slowly, accommodating whatever is being inserted into it.
3. Lube! Lube! Lube! The third key to pleasurable anal sex is using plenty of personal lubricants. If you are using latex condoms then you need to use a water-based lubricant such as Astroglide or Kama Sutra products.
DON'TS:
1. Don't hurry or force it. The worst action that you can take is to force entry into the rectum, which is the opening to the anal canal. Sometimes the sheer act of hurrying entry or thrusting too soon is enough to sour one's taste for anal pleasures for good. If you take your time and go slowly during penetration (after applying generous amounts of personal lube), the experience will be much more pleasurable.
2. Don't forget about STDs. One of the most common mistakes couples can make in exploring anal sex is forgetting disease prevention. Anal sex can be a great method for sharing skin and making intimate contact without worrying about pregnancy, but being careless about disease transmission is never an acceptable alternative to healthy sexual expression. Just as with standard penis-in-vagina intercourse, you always need to use protection, such as a latex or polyurethane condom with either nonoxynol-9 in it to kill sperm and bacteria. Or if you prefer, use a nonlubricated condom without the spermicidal ingredient. (Whichever you choose, it's important to apply lubricant over the condom before you insert it.) After orgasm and ejaculation occurs, be sure to hold the base of the condom to prevent slippage or spillage.
3. Don't ever place the penis directly from inside your anus into another part of your body. This means that if you decide that anal play is a form of pleasure that precedes oral or vaginal sex, be sure to wash the penis carefully with warm soap and water before reinserting it. The bacteria that live in the anal area can produce infection or irritation if they transfer to another part of your body, so pay extra attention to cleanliness.
In the end, don't forget that most couples need practice when it comes to trying something new with their sexuality. If things don't work right the first time, don't get discouraged. Keep trying. Be patient and gentle with yourself and with your partner. Take your time. And above all, enjoy the fun of exploring!
Well I found it useful hope you do too
Keep smiling
Puss
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| Vibrators!!! |
Aug 22, 2007 12:09 pm
Mood: aroused, 8008 Views |  | I love my vibrator and wondered how they came in to use and when. Found this on the net.
EVER WANTED TO KNOW THE HISTORY OF THE VIBRATOR?
The first mechanical vibrator was invented in the 1880's by a British
physician as a way to more quickly and effectively perform a "therapeutic
massage." Starting in the first century A.D., doctors manually massaged
women to orgasm in hopes of purging them of a mysterious illness. The
vibrator was invented as a way to get the job done more quickly'therefore
allowing the doctor time to see more patients.
What, you must ask, were esteemed physicians doing with their vibrators?
They were treating hysteria, the most common health complaint among women
of the day. While the existence of hysteria as a disease was debunked in
the 1950ıs, medical experts from the time of Hippocrates up to the 20th
century believed that hysteria expressed the wombıs revolt against sexual
deprivation. A woman's display of mental or emotional distress was a clear
indication of her need for sexual release. Genital massage was a standard
treatment for hysteria; its objective was to induce "hysterical paroxysm"
(better known as orgasm) in the patient. Obviously such treatment demanded
both manual dexterity and a fair amount of time, so turn of the century
physicians were delighted with the efficiency, convenience and reliability
of portable vibrators.
Today, vibrators are status implements for most young educated women who
consider themselves wise in the ways of the world. Vibes are just a part of
the urban landscape, and a good boyfriend is one who sensitively buys you
one for Valentine's Day. The vibrator is quite possibly the most potent
symbol there is of womenıs sexual agency. The possession of a vibrator
tells the world (or at least yourself!) that not only are you comfortable
with your own peculiarly female sexuality, but that you are able to give
yourself sexual satisfaction'that you arenıt waiting for a man to decide to
send you into paroxysms of ecstasy.
I'm sure they have changed over the years in shape and style but I guess as long as we have needs we will have vibrators.
This is my latest one (well dildo)
Puss
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| Desert Island!! |
Aug 21, 2007 10:08 am
Mood: thoughtful, 7196 Views |  | Me minds been working overtime about the three things I would take to a desert island.
Top of my list is a photo of my children and grand daughter,(don't need to explain why)
then has to be me 3way rabbit vibe,(cause can't live without it)
then the third I struggled with but finally chose me mobile phone (so i can phone for help and also chat lmaoooooo.)
So what 3 things would you take and why ??
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| Sex Confessions!!! |
Aug 20, 2007 6:18 pm
Mood: bored, 7370 Views |  | Hiya,
was sat thinking about all the weird and wonderful places I have had sex. i don't think mine are very weird at all.
A graveyard on a grave is the worst, i apologise now to the person or persons in it didn't realise it was a grave till after.
Woods well that ain't unusual at all.
Train boring.
Phonebox err hard work.
Mcds loos frantic
Nightclub.
Canal side (cold 
Car boring
Outdoor Swimming Pool
Bus
So who's brave enough to tell me theirs 
keep smiling
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Have to add the BJ whilst a guy was driving very horny and great fun |
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| Weekend!! |
Aug 20, 2007 2:43 am
Mood: bouncy, 7008 Views | Hiya all,
Had the best weekend it was wonderful. Doing the two things I love, shopping was brill. Although very fast cause I was running late Leeds I have to go visit again.
Clubbing was the best I danced till my my feet ached till 4am but enjoyed it so much. Even getting my foot cut didnt stop me from dancing.
A big woman stood on me foot and the dancefloor was covered in glass. My white shoes are ruined but thats a good excuse to go shopping for new ones
As if I need an excuse to go shopping.
I want to thank my Mr Wonderful for spending it with me. Thank you Darling. 
Looking forward to this weekend
keep smiling
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| Obssessed with!! |
Aug 20, 2007 2:35 am
Mood: aroused, 6170 Views | Hi all I can't get this song out of my head love it.
Sean Kingston -Beautiful Girls
JR! Sean Kingston!
Chorus:
You're way too beautiful girl
That's why it'll never work
You'll have me suicidal, suicidal
When you say it's over
Damn all these beautiful girls
They only wanna do your dirt
They'll have you suicidal, suicidal
When they say it's over
Verse 1:
See it started at the park
Used to chill at the dark
Oh when you took my heart
That's when we fell apart
Coz we both thought
That love lasts forever (lasts forever)
They say we're too young
To get ourselves sprung
Oh we didn't care
We made it very clear
And they also said
That we couldn't last together (last together)
Refrain:
See it's very define, girl
One of a kind
But you mush up my mind
You walk to get declined
Oh Lord...
My baby is driving me crazy
(Repeat Chorus)
Verse 2:
It was back in '99
Watchin' movies all the time
Oh when I went away
For doin' my first crime
And I never thought
That we was gonna see each other (see each other)
And then I came out
Mami moved me down South
Oh I'm with my girl
Who I thought was my world
It came out to be
That she wasn't the girl for me (girl for me)
(Repeat Refrain and Chorus)
Verse 3:
Now we're fussin'
And now we're fightin'
Please tell me why
I'm feelin' slightin'
And I don't know
How to make it better (make it better)
You're datin' other guys
You're tellin' me lies
Oh I can't believe
What I'm seein' with my eyes
I'm losin' my mind
And I don't think it's clever (think it's clever)
You're way too beautiful girl
That's why it'll never work
You'll have me suicidal, suicidal, suicidal...
Love to know what you think of it ????
keep smiling
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| This weekend :) |
Aug 17, 2007 7:48 am
Mood: energetic, 6286 Views |  | Hiya all,
i have been looking forward to this weekend for ages. I'm going to do the 2 things I love so much well apart from sex
shopping and clubbing. i'm gonna shop till I drop and dance till me feet are numb.
Have decided to wear this when I go out could be an interesting night
Anyway hope you all have a great weekend whatever your doing
keep smiling
Puss
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| one of those days !!! |
Aug 13, 2007 10:29 am
Mood: grumpy, 6299 Views | Ya know when you get out of bed and you just think whats the point.....well am having one of them today. Once in awhile im not me smiley self im just bored and todays one of those days.
I always watch Dirty Dancing (cheesy I know) when im feeling a bit low. it always perks me up too see Patrick Swayzes body and of course its a good story.
So i'd be interested to know what you do when ya feeling a bit low??
Any suggestions cept getting naked on cam before ya say it | |
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| A new pic !!!!!!!!! |
Aug 12, 2007 5:54 pm
5153 Views |  | This pic was took in one shot and isnt as good as me others but I love it. So i though i would share it |
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| Your ideal date!!!!! |
Aug 10, 2007 8:33 am
Mood: amused, 4212 Views | Hiya all while i was lead in bed earlier cause i was feeling ill i started thinking about dates i had in the past. Some were good, most were, some not so good.
Then i started thinking about my ideal date and couldn't think of anything exciting. Just the usual nip across to Italy check out Rome do all the sights then have dinner in a fabulous restaurant.
So I would love to know your ideal date,where you would go,what you would do ???????
Or what was your worst date???? | |
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| Will never understand men!!!! |
Aug 7, 2007 9:10 am
Mood: blah, 3942 Views | After much thought i decided to put my thoughts on paper well blog lmaooo. I just cannot understand men at all, all they seem to want to see on cam on Adult FriendFinder is a pussy. It don't matter how big how small or what age the person is they just wanna see it. Preferably with a vibe stuffed in it.
Well I must be abnormal I much prefer to see a guys face as well as his cock. It makes it much more personal and intimate to see his face.
I mean should I take my face of all me pics seeing as no ones interested in your face and just have me body on?? Very impersonal but seems to be the norm. Maybe when guys meet women we don't need faces we could just have pussys on on our shoulders that would keep them happy. Save on make up and hairstyles.
oh well me thoughts are on. Tell me what you think? | |
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