Introduction - Going from Involved to being Single  

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8/27/2005 4:44 am

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Introduction - Going from Involved to being Single

Well here is my first blog. - duh!
As you may well tell from the title that I am recently gone from being involved to being single agian. This is a weird but gratifying transition.

I have poked around with some ideas of dating women that I have known while being involved, but only to find some real major changes since. I have not met so many females that have just plainly given up on the idea of romantic or erotic relationships. I do understand that we all have a past and that somethings do change us. But I never realized how many people put up walls and boundries just cause jane or joe hurt us in the past.

I am one to believe in living life to it's fullest. I guess that is why I left the relationship that I was in. I kept pushing issues as to go out or to try new things. These were not extremes such as "honey let's go join a nudist colony or a orgy". I just wanted to be with someone that if they have never tried something, that would have an open mind to the subject. Maybe I am too much of a free spirit, but I am a firm believer that we only get one shot at this life.....better make it a good one.

I also just love these " I am better than thou " attitudes....I just gotta laugh. I haven't been to the bar in a long time, but when I went this last weekend I was just looking to have fun and start off with some casual conversation. Man oh man do the women here put up one hell of a battle just to get the "RIGHT" to talk to them. I just walked away with a smile and laughing. I even had one woman follow me asking me " What the hell is so funny, I told you to f**k off". I politely told her that she wasn't all that and she just lost it.

What happened to the good ole days of going to the bar and striking up a conversation with the opposite sex. Kicking back a few cold ones, then if there was chemistry there maybe something else would happen.

I do have to say though, that being single agian is great though. Only responsible for myself and can do what I want when I want....and I do.

I frequent southern florida in the winters as a working vacation for about 3 to 4 months out of the year. The attitudes can be from one extreme to another. I remember fondly the first time I went to Miami's SOUTH BEACH. I was soooo nervous knowing that it would have nudity there. I was approached by some very beautiful women with not a stitch of clothing, and had some wonderful conversations. Needless to say I didn't realize that would happen to me. Seemed that once the issue of sex or nudity was out the window or shall we say not an issue, we had a great time. (yet I still couldn't be nude myself for embarrasement of my little buddy standing at full salute)

I guess if I was to give advise here or state my thoughts of wisdom. Don't be so quick to judge a person. You never know what you are missing out on.

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