We gotta ask this  

Oralcharms 77M/58F
15 posts
1/13/2006 4:59 pm

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4/26/2006 4:22 pm

We gotta ask this

We have reviewed so many profiles that we are dizzy. One thing that crops up a lot in profiles is the statement "no drama" or "Looking for someone with no drama" OK just what the hell does this rally mean?? What are we missing here? Please some one explain what they mean by saying the do not want drama!

Thanks, C & S

the_love_couple 56M/53F

2/7/2006 9:22 am

Hey C,
This is T and I had to respond to your question..........Well, I think there is alot of people who enjoy the "idea" of sharing and swapping, but when it comes right down to it they get "jealous" and can't seem to seperate "fact" from "fantasy". We have ran into that ourselves and I must say it put quite the damper on some promising plans. But, I guess in the long run it is all worth the effort if you end up in the end, finding that great couple that your can embrace not only "sexually" but also embrace as "friends". So, for me I say "drama' is any problem that might come up that causes an encounter or the that thought of one, to be anything less than extreme pleasure.... t

Oralcharms 77M/58F
31 posts
2/7/2006 3:38 pm

Hey T! Thanks for your thoughts. We think you are probably right. We have yet to have an actual meet with a couple either socially or for play. But what you say makes sense - we wondered if we would encounter couples with jealousy problems and its given us some concern as we have discussed that between us as well to be certain that WE were both ready for this and we believe we are. And its also true that it would be well worth it, to find that one couple with whom everything clicks at nearly every level in and out of bed. It certainly is what we are seeking.

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