What the fuck is wrong with guys on this website?  

OralFixationGirl 37F
23 posts
4/18/2006 4:27 am

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What the fuck is wrong with guys on this website?

I put up my ad a few days ago, making it very clear that I'm only searching for a female ... and, the very next day, I've got 27 messages, 24 of them are from guys, half of which say "I know you're just looking for girls, but I thought I'd email anyway" ... or "I'd love to dominate you, show you what a real man is like" ... etc. And yeah, most of them showing me pics of their cocks.

Then I get an email from a guy telling me how creepy he feels when he emails women on here, so I responded back, that considering my ad is female for female, then he should feel pretty fucking creepy emailing me. And I called him a jerk. What's his response? He emails me back insulting me. Grow up moron. If you can't read, or don't give a shit that I'm just looking for women, why should I give you any ounce of respect?

So, here's my question: Why do some men, even if you make it explicitly clear that you're just looking for someone with a vagina, still go out of their way to email you and try to hook up? Why?

Guys: Are you so fucking desperate for pussy that you'll email *anyone* without regard to what *that* person actually wants? If you do this, then you are an absolutely asshole and completely deserving of any contempt or insulting remarks I hurl your way.

So, in conclusion: If a girl on here is looking for pussy, and you have a dick, DO NOT EMAIL HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!! Also, don't fucking email me telling me how you have so many girls serving you, and if I hook up with you, I could try one of them. What am I, stupid? No fucking thank you.

That wraps up my first blog. Do any other women looking for women experience this kind of childish behavior?


Heartnsoul768 53M
360 posts
4/18/2006 6:09 am

75% of the guys on this site are total jerks. You just have to ignore them. You can put stipulations on the emails that you'll accept. I hope all works out for you.

apli4 69M
4 posts
4/18/2006 6:31 am

guys in are not much different, most of us are looking for someone to make us feel good. Me personally I would love to hook up with a woman who perfers a woman. she could probably teach me to be a better pussy licker. some of the AdultFriendFinder members ignor profiles because a lot of members list one preference and still sit and look at others. Lastly, u ladies are not as forthcoming as men looking for sex. A guy looking for a guy will go to the bath house and ask for a blowjob, and can probably find one close by. Picking up pussy is not as easy, not by a long shot. But there, I'm older and not too experienced with how u younger people go about getting sex. What would it feel like if no one wanted u at all

rm_dontttstop 54M
16 posts
4/18/2006 7:04 am

anybdy sends you anything that feels "creepy" go to the help page and send an email explaining---especially if it happened more than once from the same person

as far as unwanted emails, if its from a man, why open it?
not that it excuses their actions but would make things less stressful for you

GossipJunkie 40F

4/18/2006 7:31 am

I'm not looking for women, so I haven't experienced exactly what you have; however, I have encountered men who get all bent out of shape when I say "no, thank you." I've never been anything but polite in those emails and they come back with "stuck up bitch!". I mean, really!! Good luck though. From what I've seen in the blogs there are plenty of women looking for other women.

"Dance like nobody's watching"

rm_ocee4u 35M
7 posts
4/18/2006 7:38 am


roguebiggs 39M

4/18/2006 7:43 am

I hear where u r coming from and know what ur saying. I think most men email because they hope they will get that chance maybe not sure. Either that or they just lack proper intelligence to reqad the profile. I have emailed one or two women to send a compliment about a picture and that is it. I know I wont change ur mind and have no intention but a compliment is always welcomed I think. Hell I get emailed from men as well and my clearly states I am striaght so it goes bot ways hun. Like Soy said just delete them and move on to the next. Good luck and hope u enjoy urself

TrueTxGtlman 53M

4/18/2006 7:46 am

There is about 8,000 to 1 men over women here on this sight. Most men get frustrated with the lack of responses from women they start to just email all the women that have pictures. So those type of men seem to hurt men like me that just want to find some lady to be friends. You can set your email up to only receive email from those that match your Mutual Match. I have to admit I send email to women that don't always make a mutual match but if I ever send one to someone that is only looking for a woman it is an accident. I look at the pictures and read their profile. Sometimes I don't see what they are looking for and reply to what I see and have read.

Welcome to BLOGVILLE and hope you don't think all men are cyberpigs.


rm_rareview 41F
568 posts
4/18/2006 7:53 am

i have a similar post in my blog. They are just unbeliavable....
A guy after having written hundreds of mails decided that i was a lesbian or a man and that he would fuck me to show me what i was missing.
The sick bastard coninues his game with other girls still.

You delete them and report them and they make the next follow up handle XXXXX2 XXXXX3 XXXXX4 etc.

same shit all the time


bluegirl39 50F

4/18/2006 7:58 am

honey you can set a profile blocking..such as no males or no profiles without photos and such...better luck..oh by the way I also get e-mails like you do I just delete them

SexyRycheBabe 45F
820 posts
4/18/2006 8:04 am

They do email and will continue to email because they think that they are just the one to make you change your mind. Don't worry about it.

imLadyBambi 58M/50F

4/18/2006 9:05 am

I'm sorry as well.
There are alot of real assholes on this sight,but don't let that discourage you.
It get's better.

Lady Bambi

rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
5220 posts
4/18/2006 9:17 am

LOL!!! Go take a look at the very first post in my blog!

You can place filters on your email. Do it. You can make your profile more specific. Try using big letters and simple words. Maybe some of them will actually read it (though I wouldn't hold my breath). Mostly, just resign yourself to deleting a lot of garbage. You don't owe people a response. There is a method of deleting all on network invites. I use it quite a lot.

VERY important - read the "terms of use" on the blogs, and don't actually name any of the idiots. You can expect hate mail over this post, but just delete them. Don't do anything to get yourself banned.

All that said, there are a lot of very nice ladies (and men) on this site, and it does work for meeting people. Good luck!

saddletrampsk 54F

4/18/2006 9:18 am

there are alot of men who either don't read profiles or just think they are so fucking fantastic that ANY woman will want them regardless of the age, gender and body type that is selected in the woman's profile..don't let them discourage you sweety..good luck in your search..

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
4/18/2006 9:22 am

welcome to the blogs....

most standard M members canNOT view profiles; you just show up in the listings as 'new member' and that seems to set off all kindz of alertz .... (and no, this answer does in no way mean I don't know there aren't idiots and such on here)

Da_Lone_Elf 50M

4/18/2006 9:52 am

I have to agree with what everybody has said so far. Some men are just so starved for attention, or so arrogant, that they don't bother to read profiles, they just send out emails to any and all females. I have a few female friends that are willing to vent in my direction, and I have quite a few times about just this kind of behavior. The only advice I can offer has already been offered several times here already, use email filters, and just delete the unwanted ones.

I'm afraid that when it comes down to it, us gentlemen on this site & even in the real world are the minority.

I truly hope you find what you are looking for, with the least amount of headaches as possible.

Da Elf

rm_just_me63901 43M
122 posts
4/18/2006 10:13 am

On behalf of all males, I apologize. Ive seen or heard about this before. Apparently, couples looking for females deal with the same thing. I just hope and ask that you dont judge all males this way. We're not all inconsiderate morons. Try not to get too frustrated and enjoy yourself. As others have said, you can set your email filters accordingly. I know that wont elliminate the problem, but it should help. Good luck and welcome to bloggville.

SirMounts 102M

4/20/2006 6:23 pm

Hey baby!...
Oops! you know, I think it must be in the genes. *winking*
Welcome to the blogs, OralFixationGirl. *smiling*

rm_MustangD6644 52M
1031 posts
4/23/2006 10:46 pm

Dear Oral; it unfortunately comes down to whether your profile is being read by a Gentleman or a P.S.U.

A Gentleman would say damn and move on, and perhaps send you an email only if he wished to offer a compliment or similar non sleazy comment.

A P.S.U. [that is Penis Support Unit] on the other hand would read your profile using its big brain, but in the translation of the message to the dominant little brain , the little brain of the penis would only register that there are likely to be two or more pussies associated with your profile. The Penis then says "Full Steam Ahead, and Damn the Torpedoes", so you end up receiving an email.

I hope that this explanation may help with your understanding of the male brain[s].


PS Welcome to Blogland

qyxx 60F
3267 posts
5/14/2006 6:29 pm

    Quoting GoddessOfTheDawn:

    welcome to the blogs....

    most standard M members canNOT view profiles; you just show up in the listings as 'new member' and that seems to set off all kindz of alertz .... (and no, this answer does in no way mean I don't know there aren't idiots and such on here)
like GOTD, standard members can't read profiles so they use a shotgun approach, female FAIRGAME. As for the silvers and golds, there is no excuse, chalk it up to male ego. Set your Cupid preferences, delete or report abusers


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