Revelations on Perfection  

Oceanluvr2005 52M
11 posts
6/26/2006 5:59 am

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Revelations on Perfection

The Perfect Match...

In one form or another, aren't we all looking for that? For some it's nothing more than a quick screw - names optional, friends with benefits, discreet meet out of a marriage, others look for a casual relationship, others want something committed.

And then, of course there is the physical. There are so many things people find attractive, small, large, big tits, little tits, piercings, tattoos, long hair, short hair, black, white, asian, shaved, natural, silicon, natural, the list is endless... But, we all have our vision of Perfection.

Lately, though, after the scattered encounters I have had over a few years of intermittent online dating, I have started to look closer at my own "wish list" and have come to the revelation that Perfection is over-rated.
Only once can I say that what I was looking for, average to petit in size, came in a package with the personality I was looking for as well.
Only once did I find myself to be truly surprised, pleasantly, to excess, at the reality versus the picture and the virtual relationship started online.

However, I have found recently, that there is an attraction that goes beyond my normal expectations. I met a lady a while ago, after some very explicit and erotic chats and phone conversations. Normally, she would have been heavier than I am attracted to, but because of the interaction previous to meeting, the attraction was there. (it didn't work out, for other reasons, but it was a fun evening)

So what if perfection IS over-rated...doesn't that leave the door open to a wider variety of opportunities? Hmmmmm....

The light-bulb glows...dimly at first...LOL

noordinarychic2 48F
242 posts
6/29/2006 5:58 am

Remember darlin that the outside...most often is a work in progress. The outside may initially attract you but its what comes out of her mouth that will keep you coming back for more. We all have our "types"....for me its big...guess it comes from my desire to feel "petite" often i find myself attracted to guys who are average in height, weight etc because they are intelligent, funny and make my day just a little brighter.... Bottom line...keep refining your "wish list" may be surprised where it ends up!

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