Pics and the ladies  

Oceanluvr2005 52M
11 posts
6/25/2006 4:39 am

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Pics and the ladies


All right, ladies...
About guys...the first thing you need to understand is that most guys are: Visually orientated.
That means, yes, give us photos! And, believe it or not, the pussy shots aren't necessarily gonnna do it either! Ok, so we love your exhibitionistic side, and getting between your legs is a goal, but unless it is pierced, shaved, or with a toy of some kind, it is just another one...like most dick shots!
Guys are interested in what you look like! Note that I am not talking about Playboy layouts...clothing is fine, but you will substantially increase responses by giving people a hint of what you actually look like!
If you are shy, some general body shots will do, with something that actually shows what kind of figure you have! Let's face it, men and women have very different opinions of "average", and even women can't seem to agree on the definitions, either!
But ladies, and guys too, if you want more responses, and ones from people who aren't gonna run screaming after lots of hot emails to a pictureless profile... pics matter...lol

rm_CuummDrop 48F
2591 posts
6/25/2006 6:14 am

Agree's.. and just don't ya dislike the one's.. taken with the Camera phone?.... grins.. but ya just never know when a kodak moment is gonna happen....

smiles...

me~c

Now won't last forever, so use it wisely~c


fallinStrgazer 54F
388 posts
6/25/2006 7:48 am

I agree too, but some of us gals,(like me) who just lost a bunch of weight, arent used to pictures because we never liked ourselves in them. But i must say, now, i like my pics and the way i look (after loosing 77 pounds) I guess its all in the confidence level u have .. Enjoyed the post.


Oceanluvr2005 replies on 6/25/2006 5:10 pm:
Good point, we all have our "nervousness" levels to live with. But is going to be any easier meeting someone for real, knowing that they have a less than accurate impression?

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