Butch vs Femme  

NumberOneLioness 38F
29 posts
3/10/2006 12:58 pm

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Butch vs Femme

It is hard for me to meet femme chicks because most femme chicks prefer butch chicks. Most butch chicks prefer femme chicks. I am not interested in the butch type. Where does that leave me? It leaves me with the group of women that are not really sure about their own sexuality. They only feel secure with a woman if a man is involved. Now what? Why do you think that this is the case?
Is it because the femme chick is really looking for a male?
Is it because the butch chick completely identifies with a male?
Are the women types left using the male to hide their true selves?

sexywhiteboy07 46M

3/10/2006 1:30 pm

Don't agree ... go to lez bar and hotties are with hotties and the butch hair an flannel are together too

meerkittykat 42F

3/10/2006 2:29 pm

Um.....none of your vote choices make any sense. Everyone is different, and making those above generalizations and being hung up on "butch" "femme" labels...you are never going to find what you want. I have dated fems, I have dated a butch, and I adored them all, and none of them nor I fit into the little neat boxes you organized. Relax your thinking, and realize people aren't black and white...awful lot in between.

NumberOneLioness 38F
6 posts
3/10/2006 9:33 pm

If either of you look at my statement, you will see the word "MOST." And sexywhiteboy, you are neither woman or lesbian. Try again. MeerKittyKat, from your profile, I see that you are the THIRD type of chick that I referenced, hence your answer would be expected. Thank You.

rm_wetIAchick15 39F
7 posts
3/11/2006 12:53 am

No need for you to get defensive. You offered up a question where people had to give an opinion based on what they think someone else thinks. Just because someone disagrees and offers you something to think about, you make a generalization about them?

quote: MeerKittyKat, from your profile, I see that you are the THIRD type of chick that I referenced, hence your answer would be expected.

I gather it's hard for you to meet women cos of that sparking personality of yours

meerkittykat 42F

3/11/2006 7:34 am

Oh lawd...lol...well, then from your posts, I can only assume your response to my opinion is expected. Pretty hard to "use the male to hide my true self" when I've exclusively dated women for the past 5 years and haven't slept with a man during that time. But, as I correctly determined above, you like to categorize people. Just was my opinion. Be prepared to face those in the blogs, cause with this approach, you're going to be reposting and responding to others opinions of your comments a lot.

Good luck....as I sense you're gonna need it.

NumberOneLioness 38F
6 posts
3/11/2006 8:31 am

Just like the incognito lady said, be prepared for these type of answers... Well, be just as prepared for my responses! This is a blog, and I can and WILL respond. And yes, my personality is SPARKLING. I shine like Diamonds! I would tell you what type of chick I think you are, but I cant be all judgemental without a real pic... Thank you and have a GREAT day.

bicutiez2006 37F/35F
2 posts
3/11/2006 5:50 pm

I dont like to categories anyone but I have to agree with numberonelioness on how some women are unsure of their sexuality, and it sends mixed messages to the female that is intiating a contact. I am also not attracted to butch females because I feel that if the creator wanted to make you a man he would have done so. I am in agreement with numberone that it is sometimes hard to find a woman that is comfortable with her sexuality, and embraces the female to female experiences. Sometimes I think women tend to go along with the 3some with their man to please him and not speaking up ahead of time.(That is how I take the hiding behind a man to hide their true sexuality)

rm_fucmehard2ma 32F

3/12/2006 10:04 pm

i am a bifem. and i love to look good to catch the eye of both sexes. but i have been with only fems for the simple fact that for i want a man i will go and get a man and not a chick that wants to be a man. Dont get me wrong i love all of them im just saying that i love a woman that wants to be seen as the sexy woman that she.this is all off the subject, but, and whenever you have time hit your girl up lets talk. love to hear from you.

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