Men in Love  

Notbigbutwilling 49M
67 posts
12/18/2005 5:39 pm

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Men in Love

My super-sexy Italian frined told me that these days, roles have been reversed.

It's men who want the relationships. We want love and friendship. To be caring. To hold and touch a woman. To be romantic. To be respectful.

But women just want sex. Don't ask me my last name, no strings attached, one night only, hardcore sex.

OK. But now that men are starting to eveolve, slowly albeit, into what we've always been told women want, they go and change the rules on us.

Is it just out of spite? Just so that they can say "Men don't know what women want" in perpetuity? Or have they really changed their needs? Or both?

I do wonder. Because I am someone who can love and care and hold and touch and respect. But mostly I am finding hardcore perverts.

But I'm lucky in that regard. Because deep down, mingled in with my caring, loving soul, my true romantic heart, is one hell of a sexy beast.

I think it's because I want to be the 'giver' in a relationship that it's easy for me to play both roles.

I 'get off' on giving. On making a partner happy. Whether it's in giving an honest compliment, in being a romantic, or giving sexual pleasure, I just love giving.

And damn, do I ever love sex!! Mmmm, there's NOTHING sexier to me then the sound and sight of a woman in ecstacy, especially if caused by me! The more she enjoys it the more I do. The more I do, the more energy and passion I have for it, the more she enjoys it.

In the end, I'm feeling like a nuclear reactor on overload, and she's screaming her head off deliriously and can't walk straight for the next day. And I'm ready for MORE!!


rm_Lady_Fantasy 57F
20 posts
12/18/2005 8:13 pm

Maybe it has something to do with age? Hormones? A woman's biological maturity shifts at different times within her cycle each month...and within the breathe of her life...

Notbigbutwilling 49M

12/19/2005 5:56 pm

Well, I don't know that I entirely agree with what I was told either, but sadly, all I seem to meet are the women who run around with rulers to measure guys, or are just nasty perverts. I mean, I don't mind a pervert, but I can't deal with the nasty.

I know I will never truly understand women. But I do aim to try. And at least empathise with them.

I'm the poor stupid guy who isn't getting any, because I care. I'll sit and listen. I'll let them cry on my shoulder. I'll refuse to take advantage of the 'rebound' or emotional instability.

But 'nice' women, who are beautiful on many levels, who are deep, soulful, careing and kind, seem to be just beyond my reach. Or overseas.

Thank you longhairednikki. You are one. You too, Lady_Fantasy.

rm_goddess1946 106F
13518 posts
12/28/2005 8:10 am

Be true to yourself and give what you want to receive.
As delicious as sex can be...without a deeper connection,
there is always more.

People continue to seek because they need something to
fill them. Be filled with that love and when you least
expect it, the right one will be there for you...

Blessings always.......

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

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