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NoNeedToHideIt 39M
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7/7/2005 7:44 pm

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I joined this site looking for sex. Simple. I am not looking for a commitment, because I just got out of a painful relationship. But that doesn't mean that I'm not open to the possibility. I want to make friends. I want to hang out with people who are like me and like the things I like. I want to hang out with people who aren't afraid, ashamed, or inhibited of open healthy sexual activity. To me, I think of it as a hobby, and thus can be shared with others.

However, I do feel that intimacy is good too. If I had someone in my life who felt more important than anything else, I'd want to have an intimate relationship with them. I would want it to be more than sex. I guess the term is "making love." I've had sex before. But I've never truly made love to anyone. I think it would be nice to experience. But making love is only for someone with whom I am having a deep emotional relationship, and I'm not looking for that right now. But if something develops, something that I won't push for - it has to happen on its own - if that happens, then it will be more than just sex. That will be with only that person and no one else.

angelcoed1980 36F

7/9/2005 8:40 am

I do understand what you mean and I as well am very curious about "making love." At times it is all I think about, having that deep emotion connection with someone. That is something that takes time, lots of time, and for some reason men don't seem to, I guess, respect me as they should. Here in Laramie the men do one of two things (1) look straight through me as if I were just a ghost or (2) fuck me and never talk to me again. I know that I shouldn't do that but I can't help it I love sex and sometimes masterbation just isn't enough. I do want more I want that connection and it is weird but I can have sex like a man (sometimes I just want sex) with no attraction no feeling just sex. I will tell you a secret, I probably have a higher sexual apitite than a lot of the men here (on this site). Mail me on this site and we can chat or email back and forth. I too think we have a connection and I do think it's a pity that I don't live in Salt Lake anymore.


sxydevil4u2love 38F
9 posts
7/14/2005 12:10 pm

i don't know if i've ever really made love either. i've been with a guy i really cared about, and even wanted to make love, but honestly it didn't really feel very loving. i don't know what was wrong or why it didn't feel right, but it wasn't. times i'd give anything to experience lovemaking the "right way" and be sent to the outer orbits. i mean sex is fun, like you said, but there's just gotta be something really special about lovemaking that makes everyone want it more than sex. i hope you get to feel that special feeling. no one should have to live life not knowing it. i know i want to.

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