Imagine that!  

Nishka5 45F
23 posts
8/14/2005 1:10 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Imagine that!

Don't mind me tonight, I'm in a bit of a reflective mood and when I'm pondering something unexpected, I've found that writing about it can help me work out whatever questions or thoughts I may have on the subject and achieve a clearer understanding on all matters concerned.

I have this friend, female, that I've known for around 5 years and in times of trouble, regardless what that trouble may be, she's always been there for me, even if all I need is to vent any frustrations. We've hung out socially, gone out to party at the bars and always have a blast. About a month ago, I was at her place, we were getting ready to go out & party when I had a memory flash of something she had said once about making out with another woman and asked her if she swung. I've always felt very comfortable in talking about ANYTHING with her (& vice versa) so I knew that she wouldn't flip out over my asking. She told me about how she was curious about being with another woman, that it was something she hadn't totally done, mainly kissing & some light groping. Ok, cool. I know that I've been curious too and am interested in seeing what it's like being with another woman. Well, that night passed normally for us, drinking, hanging out, listening to music & hitting on men. I hadn't thought about our talk anymore because it just didn't come to mind. Until tonight. I was over at her place, again we were hanging out, she had the tunes going, we were doing some drinking & flaking out in general when she started to tell me about an experience she'd had within the last two weeks with a female exotic dancer in the bay area. This was all discussed in a very conversational manner as we have the same view on most things. We basically just don't give a fuck what others think of our behavior, attitudes or train of thought. While sitting on her couch, we were just kind of lightly touching, nothing special or attention getting, just kind of playing with the others hair, giving hugs of friendship & support when I told her that while being with another woman was something I've wanted to try, it was difficult finding someone that you're comfortable with, let alone having any type of attraction for when I realized (& said at that moment) that she was probably the only woman that I know well enough & was comfortable enough with to try it out. What I thought was cool was that she said that she felt the same way about being with me. It was then that I noticed that I was getting wet. It's funny isn't it? Sometimes, you want to try something, look around & meet new people in hopes of fulfilling a desire never realizing that the friend you're sharing these thoughts with just may be the best one to experiment with. Regardless though of whatever may or may not happen, I know that I can still rely on her as one of my dearest, closest & most trusted friends, that she'll always have my back and that she knows I'll always be there for her too.

NiceGuySO_269 38M  
3 posts
8/14/2005 8:04 pm

A great friend and good times. True friends last until the end, and it's hard to find "true" friends...they can make the world the most wonderful place by just being there. Good to hear (and that you had a nice weekend too) Nishka...

Nishka5 45F

8/15/2005 3:43 pm

Thanks NiceGuy... It's always nice to get feed back on thoughts. I really like hearing from others as to what they think, if they've had a situation like that before, how it worked for them, whether they'd do it again & if they have any advice to share. Since I have a VERY VIVID imagination, I love to read details of sexual experiences because I can get such a clear picture of it in my mind and naturally, the more details, the better the picture!

rm_WLHUNG7697 47M
1 post
8/18/2005 4:19 pm

I would love to meet u sometime

Nishka5 45F

8/22/2005 9:54 pm

WHHung....... I'm definitely going to have to get in touch with you! I'm sure we could have a lot of fun.

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