Unplugging the sign over my head that says "FOOL!!!"  

Nightguy_1961 55M
3324 posts
12/4/2005 9:35 pm

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Unplugging the sign over my head that says "FOOL!!!"

I've always prided myself on being able to detect a con, scam, swerve, etc., from a mile away. Usually, I turned the trick back on the trickster, watched them squirm and squeal, then patted myself on the back for a job well done.

Well....as we used to say in the Navy, one 'ooops!' can erase a whole lot of 'atta boys'.

First screwup...I sent an email to one of my 'matches'...you know...hello, how are you, nice picture, yadayadayada. I wasn't expecting a reply, just making contact.

Well, surprise surprise...I got a response. With some excitement, I read the email.

"Thank you for your interest in me. If you'd like to see more of me, contact me at my email addy, __________. If you'd like to see more of me, go to....." and there was the addy of another website....aha!

I emailed her back...telling her I was satisfied where I was and that I wasn't interested in joining another site. She replied the next day..

"I'm cool with that. Here's a password to another site..with more revealing photos of me. Go to......." another website.

Yeah sure....pour water on my boots and tell me it's raining. BTW....her profile has been closed here on A FF...Gee, I wonder why?

Second incident...I met someone in the chatroom who was interested in the bdsm lifestyle. After getting more comfortable in a public chatroom, we exchanged YIM addys and went private. I kept it on the up and up, answering questions, introducing her to O/others online.

Needless to say, an attraction developed..or so I thought. It was even to the point of her IMing my lady and getting comfortable with her, so there would be no reservations if we were to scene.(NOTE: My lady and I are as one...where I go, she goes. If that bugs people, sorry, but dems de rules).

This lady asked me to give her an idea of what type of scening would commence if we were to meet. I sent her an email...explaining how it would go...observing the lifestyle protocols I'd learned over the years. It didn't even get sexual...I left that to her imagination.

Since then......nothing. No email, no IMs. I know she's been online, because her profile says so. F/friends of mine from the chatroom have seen her and chatted with her. My lady has even talked with her online...but no word on if I've done or said anything wrong.

Call me paranoid..but after a week of no word, I can't help but have the feeling that I've been played...and played hard.

My profile clearly states...Don't waste my time. Well, my time has been wasted. Yes, I know...I brought it upon myself. Shoot me.

From now on, it's very clear......DON'T WASTE MY #$@#$@#$!$ TIME!!!!! I enjoy helping people learn about the lifestyle, but now......I'm not so sure.

NG...pulling his hat low..on a cold rainy Virginia night.

LustGoddess2469 50F  
2453 posts
12/4/2005 10:21 pm

Fakes, flakes, liars, users and losers - they are overabundant on this site. I'm so sorry you had the mispleasure of having two of them waste your time like that.

Personally, I think that they should all be dropped off on some deserted island in the middle of nowhere and forgotten about for eternity.


Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
12/5/2005 11:57 pm

Lusty...sounds good, but I think there are federal laws that prohibit dumping waste on perfectly good land.

Thanks, darlin'

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