My first step on my Path along the Lifestyle.  

Nightguy_1961 55M
3324 posts
4/15/2006 1:46 pm

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6/8/2006 9:54 am

My first step on my Path along the Lifestyle.

This is a continuing story of my BDSM past. For the first part, please go to The Dark Sage reminisces on things gone by.... Thank youNG61

Lighting a candle to illuminate the darkness in his lonely tower, the Dark Sage thinks back along the years, picks up his quill, opens his journal, and starts writing about the past...his past...

I went into the service after graduation. I made it through boot camp without too much trouble, survived a winter in North Chicago, then I was sent to school in Orlando. Talk about the farm boy seeing the lights of the big city! Sunny Orlando in late May/early June...whooboy! I acclimated myself to the life down there rather quickly. I made a lot of friends and fell in love with the area, so much so, when I got out of the service, I moved to Orlando.

It was tough, but thanks to a friend, I got a job as a bouncer at a strip club. Not bad work if you can find it. It was a pretty laid back club; pretty dancers, a quiet clientele, beer/wine only...and, since I was ex-Navy, I got along with the recruits newly graduated from Orlando RTC down the road.

There was a dancer at the club that I became friends with, her name was P____. Petite, blonde hair, blue eyes, nice figure...we started off by just grabbing a cup of coffee after closing one night and things led from there. She was bi-sexual and living with another girl about her age, whose name was C_____. Now C_____ was a bit different from her petite roomate: short brown hair, a bit stocky but a nice figure, a little on the domineering side. C_____ never copped an attitude towards me, even though she knew that her roomate and I were knocking boots on a regular basis.

One Friday, I went by their apartment to pick up P____ for a trip to the beach. C_____ met me at the door, saying, "Oh, she'll be out in a bit...she's tied up at the moment". I went to sit on the couch, but C_____ motioned for me to come on back to the bedroom...to see what was back there.

She wasn't kidding when she said P____ was 'tied up'. P____ was naked; her wrists tied to her headboard with rope. Her ankles were cuffed, along with her thighs, with ropes that pulled in a way, she was spread wide open. Her nipples had clamps on them, the chain connecting them tied to a rope around her waist, so her nipples were being pulled constantly. There was a plug in her ass...and a vibrator inside her wet pussy. P____ was gagged, so all she could do was look at me with her big blue eyes, a slight blush on her cheeks.

C_____ turned to me and started explaining what was happening. It seems that both girls were into BDSM and incorporated it into their lives on a daily basis. If one broke the rules or failed to do a chore that was assigned, they 'worked it out between each other' so to speak. C_____ was a bit more dominant, but she didn't mind her roomate tying her up every now and then.

C_____ smiled at me and said, "Wanna watch for awhile?" Now what fool in his right mind would turn that down? C_____ picked up a wooden ruler and started smacking her bound roommate’s spread thighs, ass, and pussy; while playing with her own wet pussy with her free hand. P____ wiggled and moaned through her gag, her excited balanced by some embarrassment at my presence. C_____ paused to either play with the vibrator, push or pull on the butt plug, or to check the nipple clamps. Suddenly, she whispered in P____'s ear, "Do you want him to fuck you now?"

P____ nodded her head and murmured a muffled 'yes' through her gag. Without a moment's hesitation, I stripped down and slipped my hardness into P____'s wet pussy. As I pushed her over the edge, P____ mewed like a cat as an orgasm rocked her bound body, C_____ cried out as her fingers pushed her into an orgasm, and I growled as a powerful orgasm rocked my body. Helping C_____ untie P____, we all three collapsed in the bed, cuddling, kissing, and laughing. Needless to say, we spend a good weekend together. Later on, I found out exactly what a 'pain slut' was when C_____ had me chain her bent over a chair and spank her ass with a metal spatula, then assfuck her until she came several times.

It was through these two wild girls that I met others in the BDSM lifestyle...and my first mentor.

The Dark Sage puts down his quill and rubs his tired blue eyes. Closing his journal and blowing out the candle, he settles back in darkness...thinking about the next step along his path so long ago.

©Nightguy_1961 2006


libgemOH 56M/52F

4/15/2006 2:01 pm

Still with ya and still listening..... -B


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/15/2006 2:48 pm:
I'm glad you're here....think you might be the only one. Thanks, B

wickedeasy 66F  
25406 posts
4/15/2006 4:47 pm

sweet jesus

i need a cold compress

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/16/2006 9:18 pm:
wicked,

No...ice play is a story for a different time

Whispersoftly5 52F
15176 posts
4/15/2006 5:03 pm

Damn! What an introduction! That is so hot!!!

Whisper...


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/16/2006 9:19 pm:
Whisper,

I was very lucky when I first started out, but keep in mind...not all of the Path is easy.....lots of potholes and setbacks along the way.

But I'm so glad that you're enjoying it *hugs*

bluegirl39 49F

4/15/2006 5:40 pm

no I read it too..very good by the way..never tried any of that bondage stuff.but I think it sounds interesting


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/16/2006 9:21 pm:
bluegirl,

Welcome to my dark fortress.

BDSM is not for everybody....and I'm not trying to 'recruit' anyone who isn't comfortable.

I just hope to show what it is like in the real world for real people, like my lady and I

NGs_lady 64F
762 posts
4/15/2006 5:55 pm

Glad to see you are going on with your story. It is an interesting one.
Hugs and Love
NGs_lady


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/16/2006 9:22 pm:
Oh my lady,

I'm glad you're enjoying it...it is a lot different reading it in black and white than sitting together talking about our experiences.

Though I would gladly sit and talk with you for hours...along with other activities

rm_DarkenMist 105F

4/16/2006 3:02 am

*Smiles* what a wonderful introduction to the lifestyle.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/16/2006 9:24 pm:
Darken,

Keep reading...hopefully, I'll hold your interest some more

rm_hippy6663 65M

4/16/2006 9:03 pm

Very Good, if this did happen, WHY did you leave?


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/16/2006 9:26 pm:
hippy,

Welcome....this did happen....times and circumstances change...keep reading, you'll learn more, if you wish

frogger1995 39F

4/16/2006 9:12 pm

You mentioned a while back about what is and isn't proper S&M technique. Is there someplace to find rules. I am certain I am a sub, currently with a dom...but maybe both of us are just freaks.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/16/2006 9:39 pm:
frogger,

Hmmmmm......

The biggest rule, for lack of a better term, is Safe, Sane, and Consensual.

A big part of BDSM is pushing limits...which you told me in earlier blog postings and emails is what you want to do. More power to you!!!!

Just play it Safe - people can get hurt doing this..and not just physically.

Play it Sane - If there is something you don't want to do, for whatever reason, DON'T DO IT!!!! I jokingly refer to this as the "no greased footballs up the ass' rule

Play it Consensual - A Dominant only has as much power as the submissive gives them....a paradox isn't it? You have control over what is done. Talk about what you like, what you don't like, and what you'd like to try. Communication, communication, communication...I can never stress that enough.

There are several good resources to choose from. SM101 and Screw The Roses...Send Me The Thorns!!! are two excellent books that I recommend reading for starters. I don't wish to offend the Gods of A FF, but there are several websites that are great sources for information.

There is nothing wrong with being a 'freak', though too many times, that term is used to put people down...imho.

Just be honest with who you are, frogger...and I know you can do that.

Thanks for stopping by *hugs the good lookin' liberal stuck in Texas*

papyrina 50F
21133 posts
4/17/2006 5:25 am

possible a wee bit extreme for me lol,but who knows till i try it


I'm a

and
i'm here to stay


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/17/2006 10:08 pm:
papy,

Hmmmmmm....try to think about BDSM like a chef thinks about using curry in a dish: it can be as extreme or as tame as you want it to be.

I know, strange analogy...that's what happens when you watch the Food Channel too much LOL

gentile_sadico 51M
1368 posts
4/17/2006 7:43 pm

you lucky bastard...


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/18/2006 3:29 am:
You're right about the bastard part...not so sure about the lucky part.

gentile_sadico 51M
1368 posts
4/17/2006 9:34 pm

    Quoting frogger1995:
    You mentioned a while back about what is and isn't proper S&M technique. Is there someplace to find rules. I am certain I am a sub, currently with a dom...but maybe both of us are just freaks.
you story about the dog collar would certainly make you a sub....assuming you enjoyed that session...


Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
4/18/2006 3:35 am

    Quoting gentile_sadico:
    you story about the dog collar would certainly make you a sub....assuming you enjoyed that session...
Not necessarily...remember, a collar is just an accessory, nothing more. I know many people who play with BDSM props and will NEVER ever get into D/s or M/s relationships (and more power to them!!!)

But....to be either a submissive or a Dominant requires something deep down inside....one is born either D or s...or they're not, simple as that...imho & experience.


gentile_sadico 51M
1368 posts
4/18/2006 7:34 pm

    Quoting Nightguy_1961:
    Not necessarily...remember, a collar is just an accessory, nothing more. I know many people who play with BDSM props and will NEVER ever get into D/s or M/s relationships (and more power to them!!!)

    But....to be either a submissive or a Dominant requires something deep down inside....one is born either D or s...or they're not, simple as that...imho & experience.
i agree, i should've said it's a first step in the right direction...


Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
4/18/2006 9:45 pm

    Quoting gentile_sadico:
    i agree, i should've said it's a first step in the right direction...
No harm, no foul *grins*

Thanks for your input, though


Shameless_Biotch 48F

6/6/2006 2:11 pm

NG..great blog! I am wet to my knees...I need to go take care of myself....or call a phone sex buddy!!LOL
Since, literally, today, I started down this BDSM road in earnest, you have inspired me to write my own blog about today's activities, while still fresh in my mind...and I humbly invite you to take a peek, Sir!

***SPANK ME!***

~Shameless


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/6/2006 8:57 pm:
Of course I'll take a peek...thanks for the invite and Welcome to the Dark Fortress...

rm_Wandrlust 61M
2 posts
6/8/2006 7:24 am

Quite interesting blogs NG,Does seem you have your head/heart in the right places,and as an older one into D/s I am glad to see it,as well as your gently guiding the curious along for TO many 'wannabes'try take advantage of the ones that wish to learn of the Lifestyle,and perhaps enter,,,,,,


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