My 100th post......and an observation  

Nightguy_1961 55M
3324 posts
3/22/2006 9:36 pm

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My 100th post......and an observation

Okay, this is my 100th posting...whoopdef**kin'doo.

I started this posting as a rant, but I had to stop and think after I started writing. Bear with me, kind reader.

I am of the mindset that if you write a good email to someone, a reply should be forthcoming...even if it's a "FO, buddy!"

I always try to write a pleasant email to members here on AdultFriendFinder...some times I get a response, but most times, I never hear a fargin' word. I could have copped a really nasty attitude and started flaming, except...

I happened, on separate occasions, to take a look at the email my lady & our friend, BAB, get on a regular basis. OMG!!!

Not only is the amount of mail damn near three times what I get, but the quality of the mail astounds and embarrasses me. Now, my lady's profile clearly states that she is not looking for anyone...she has someone in her life, namely me...all she is looking for are like-minded people. But some of the emails would make a saint curse.

From the standard "Let's f*ck!!!" to the ones that tell my lady "I think it's time you get a new Sir", the content of the emails blow my mind. (and btw, my lady's profile AND auto response clearly state that I will review ALL the emails she receives...Hello?)

So...with that in mind, it's no wonder you ladies don't reply to the emails you receive. If you're getting what my lady & BAB are getting, I wouldn't be surprised if the 'delete' button isn't worn out on your system.

I now have to look at emails on AdultFriendFinder from a different viewpoint. Thanks for your indulgence.


To all of you who have read my blog for the past 100 times, I thank you. Any writer likes for people to look at his/her children. I appreciate all of you so much...too many to list here, but you know who you are.

NG61...tipping his hat to all his fellow bloggers and the good people who take the time to read them

©Nightguy_1961 2006

qosmann 66M

3/22/2006 10:08 pm

cynically, you know how us guys are.

sarcastically, what do you expect on a website that promotes itself as the number one sex and swingers site?

ideally, folks should be more respectful. RTFM, as we used to say in the tech world.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 3/22/2006 10:13 pm:

True....I try to keep that in mind. But I'm with you about the 'respectful' part. Too bad some people tend to forget that.

HBowt2 58F

3/23/2006 12:26 am

congrats on the 100th......and as for the emails....sure aren't we entitiled to a good laugh on a daily basis.....

Nightguy_1961 replies on 3/23/2006 12:43 am:
Of course...and some of the emails are priceless

rm_LadySky1216 35F
1 post
3/23/2006 3:04 am

Congrats on your 100th post dahling. *ss*
Now for the emails lol.
Both lady and BAB are highly intelligent and beautiful women so it's plain that they are going to get at least some emails. I have yet to figure out how a woman's profile can say one thing to her or to those who are friends of hers and something completely different to a large(ish) portion of the male population of this site.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 3/23/2006 8:57 pm:
It's very simple...a lot of people can't read!!!

Sulabula 45F
12658 posts
3/23/2006 3:59 am

Congratulations on your 100th

Sula xxx

come visit my blog

Nightguy_1961 replies on 3/23/2006 8:58 pm:

Thank the name!!!

rm_CuummDrop 48F
2591 posts
3/23/2006 12:35 pm

Congratulations Sir... on Your 100th... looking forward to many more!!

And perhaps an email...

Now won't last forever, so use it wisely~c

Nightguy_1961 replies on 3/23/2006 8:59 pm:

Thanks, darlin'....hopefully, the well won't run dry anytime soon. And you never know about that email

NGs_lady 64F
762 posts
3/23/2006 12:47 pm

CONGRATULATIONS to you on #100 i am so glad it got written you has me worried for a while after a few silly people gave you grief about somethings you wrote please don't ever hide your gift

Nightguy_1961 replies on 3/23/2006 9:00 pm:
My lady,

Thank you for your support...and yes, you're right. I shouldn't let comments from 'certain' people bother me...but you know me far better than anyone else...words can cut worse than any of my knives.

All my love,

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