Maybe someday, I'll learn..........  

Nightguy_1961 55M
3324 posts
4/6/2006 1:35 am

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Maybe someday, I'll learn..........

Damn it....once again, I believe I've had the fool's crown put on my head.

Someone I got to know....someone I trusted....someone I started to show feelings toward....has misled me.

When someone stops a private chat because they have to leave to go to work, I take them at their word. Why shouldn't I?

But to then turn around.....and find them in another chatroom?

I guess I'll just keep my @#$#@$ YIM turned the hell off from now on.

NG61...feeling that familiar coldness taking over the core of his soul....and not going away anytime soon....


Fox4aKnight1 43F

4/6/2006 1:45 am

Night .........hugs ......I am with you. *&%&* em all .....sorry bad night tonight


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/6/2006 1:53 am:
I know...right now, I'm just a bit stunned. Maybe it will get cleared up...I don't know.

Fox4aKnight1 43F

4/6/2006 1:55 am

Night dunno ....but I have seen exactlly what you are talking about lots of times. I guess they think were idiots or something. *shrug*


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/6/2006 1:58 am:
Well, you know the old saying, "Once bitten, twice shy"

Fox4aKnight1 43F

4/6/2006 1:59 am

yup Night .....hmmm check your mail hun please I will send ya something there shortly...


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/6/2006 2:22 am:
okay

rm_DarkenMist 105F

4/6/2006 2:20 am

Nightguy....do not allow the foolishness of someone's actions judge Your train of thought. Through their stupidity and lack of judgement You will punish Your true friends that use YIM to contact You while You are at work? I seriously dont think You to be that type of person....perhaps tell that person off and delete them and place them on ignore but not punish Your other friends....Your true friends at care about You and Yours.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/6/2006 9:21 pm:
Darken,

I'm afraid the foolishness was on my part...I put my mouth (or in this case, my typing fingers) in gear before I got my brain out of neutral.

Hopefully, I can correct my horrible mistake.

blogginOnly 58F

4/6/2006 3:06 am

Yes, I say the same thing. I always trust and believe what a person says, but once I catch someone in a lie, I just dont trust them anymore.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/6/2006 9:22 pm:
blogginOnly,

I think it was more of a misunderstanding than a lie. Hopefully, things will work out for the best. If not.........

libgemOH 56M/52F

4/6/2006 4:22 am

Night, some lie. Why beat yourself up for it? If one is found to be dishonest, they are just cut from my life and I go on. But for every one you find that lies, there are sooooo many that are truthful. Keep seeking those out! -B


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/6/2006 9:23 pm:
gem,

I know...I just had a knee-jerk reaction. I misunderstood someone and made the mistake of categorizing them with others.

Now....I'm afraid that I've destroyed a friendship with my words.

sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
4/6/2006 4:29 am

I'm sorry. Some people don't have the guts to tell any truth. You're better off without them.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/6/2006 9:24 pm:
As I've said to the others, not so much a lie....as a misunderstanding.

sportsfan362436 47F

4/6/2006 5:29 am

You know.... did you even bother to find out what the deal was??? Has this person lied to you before... or given you cause not to believe them?? God knows there are a ton of complete idiots on this 'friendly site'... unfortunately tho, there are some good decent people too... or so I thought.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/6/2006 9:27 pm:
sports,

It was like a shot out of the dark...and I jumped to a conclusion (the wrong one as it turns out). I hope I can fix this and move on...if not, then I bear the burden of destroying a friendship...and that's something I'll have to live with, not the other person.

Yes...I know there are good, decent people on this site...that's what worries me. I've chased away a good, decent person because of my temper.

Don't ever lose faith in yourself or your abilities.

rm_CuummDrop 48F
2591 posts
4/6/2006 7:15 am

Hugs to You,, Sir... i would never mislead You... Take care of Yourself...

cd/wendy~c

(and i may really need You one of these nights, please Sir,, keep it on)

Now won't last forever, so use it wisely~c


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/6/2006 9:28 pm:
cd/wendy,

I know you wouldn't....turns out, I misled myself.

Whispersoftly5 52F
15176 posts
4/6/2006 12:46 pm

(((Hugs)))

Whisper...


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/6/2006 9:28 pm:
Thanks, Whisper....I needed that right about now...especially after acting like a complete asshole.

wickedeasy 66F  
25377 posts
4/6/2006 2:09 pm

well well well

hoisted on their own petard

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/6/2006 9:29 pm:
wicked,

The trouble is, I hoisted myself on my own petard.

Nobody to blame but myself.

MamChelle 48F  
1443 posts
4/6/2006 2:56 pm

NG there is a lot of us who need and enjoy You....but i can relate to the feelings.. *hugs* chelle


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/6/2006 9:30 pm:
chelle,

I know...and I appreciate a lot of people as well, including the person I'm writing about. Let's hope things work out, okay?

Babel__Fish 45F

4/7/2006 2:28 am

*HUGS*

Babel


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/7/2006 3:14 am:
Thanks Babel....I'll never turn down a hug from you *HHHUUUUUGGGGSSSS*

clitalicious67 49F

4/7/2006 11:08 pm

Sorry to hear that happened to you...I don't see how people think telling a lie is easier than just speaking the truth?!


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/7/2006 11:46 pm:
As of Friday morning, I think things have been settled...I hope

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