Looking back at the past  

Nightguy_1961 55M
3324 posts
4/12/2006 11:38 pm

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4/13/2006 10:01 pm

Looking back at the past

My lady is currently writing some blog postings telling about her early days in the BDSM lifestyle. I am offering my help to her, what little help she needs, that is.

For those that don't know (or haven't read our profiles), my lady & I have been in the BDSM lifestyle for most of our lives, albeit seperately. We decided a few months ago to take our relationship to the next level: a 24/7 D/s relationship.

It hasn't been easy: my lady worries about her experience as a Domme causing problems; I worry about whether I'm good enough to be her Sir; how do our grown children deal with it; etc, etc.

24/7 does not mean that I walk around in leather chaps, slapping a riding crop on my leg; nor does it mean that my lady goes around in chains, waiting on me hand and foot. Time for a dose of reality, my friends.

Somebody has to work; somebody has to pay the bills; somebody has to take care of the everyday things of the grand experience that we call life.

Everyday, we find out different challenges to face along our Path...and we welcome that. New feelings, new emotions.....I've discovered that since we've merged our experiences and taken this Path together, I love my lady more than I ever imagined I could.

Maybe someday, we will allow people into our intimate circle...to see what we see; feel what we feel. That day is not now...but who knows what the future holds? That's the beauty of WIITWD: it is a dynamic process, never static, always changing.

So I invite you, dear reader, to check out my lady's blog to see what she has experienced in WIITWD. I'm going to start posting my experiences starting tommorrow....we both hope you enjoy.

And please, feel free to ask questions, leave comments, or just enjoy reading.


NG61...going into his journal, pulling out some passages from the past...

Whispersoftly5 52F
15176 posts
4/13/2006 12:53 am

I can't wait to read about both of your experiences! I'm 41 and just starting my journey to discovering my sexuality (whatever that will represent) and relationships (not just the sex part) are always a journey too. I learn so much from other's experiences that I just can't believe it and this really helps me feel my way. So I am looking forward to it and appreciate both of you sharing such personal information.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/13/2006 1:17 am:

*offers his gloved hand*

Welcome...hope you enjoy the journey

rm_CuummDrop 48F
2591 posts
4/13/2006 3:57 am

Oh darn it, Sir, there You go blowing my whole visual thing, no leather chaps?.. Darn it...

No but seriously, congrats for you two.. Dominance and submission in a 24/7 relationship can be very hard, but if the two, put forth the effort, the dance will be phenomanal...

Hugs to you both,


Now won't last forever, so use it wisely~c

Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/13/2006 10:08 pm:
cd...no, more like this image:

dark dress slacks, dark dress shirt, with a long dress coat or cape...how's that for an image?

Although, my lady and Lady Hunter are seriously trying to talk me into getting a pair of chaps....just for the look....we'll see.

We are already enjoying the dance...but thanks for the support



libgemOH 56M/52F

4/13/2006 4:13 am

I have some "outside looking in" curiousity about this lifestyle and am looking forward to reading yours and your lady's stories for insight. Thanks!! -B

Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/13/2006 10:09 pm:
Standing outside looking in is just fine....but come on in, the water's just fine......


NGs_lady 64F
762 posts
4/13/2006 5:53 am

You honor me so much by adding me to your blog and by being proud of me. For women who are starting on this Journey, the feelings & emotions are going to be strong...Good luck.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/13/2006 10:10 pm:
*gently grasps her hand...squeezes it gently*

Here's hoping, my lady...I'm just glad you're with me for the ride


wickedeasy 66F  
25470 posts
4/13/2006 1:59 pm

the journey is everything

whispers, "and the sex is damn good too"

You cannot conceive the many without the one.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/13/2006 10:12 pm:
The journey is everything...and the sex is beyond DAMN good...silly, silly Yankee

but I still love ya, darlin' *hugs*


Fox4aKnight1 43F

4/13/2006 3:13 pm

I look forward to your revelations ....as your both travel back and look at memories and also perhaps see them in a diffrent light perhaps also gaining new insights. I will be visiting you Lady as well. hmmm I don't comment as much on her blog for it seem there is not much for me to say.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 4/13/2006 10:13 pm:

Just the fact that you read them; take time to visit them...that means so much.



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