An interesting weekend  

Nightguy_1961 55M
3324 posts
3/23/2006 9:23 pm

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3/26/2006 11:38 pm

An interesting weekend

This past weekend, my lady & I headed down to Raleigh. There was a two fold reason for our jaunt. First, our friend, BadAssBlonde1, wanted us to come visit. Second, my lady is a member of an online group, Female Artists of Domination; A BDSM group created by women, for women and those who serve them. Well, FAD was having a get-together and sent invites.

Now...once more for those who don't know (or don't know how to read a profile): My lady is submissive to me...and me ONLY!!! She has over 30 years of experience as a D-O-M-I-N-A-N-T Lady under her belt. So she was asked to be a member of FAD as a D-O-M-I-N-A-N-T Lady.

With that out of the way, another point to bring up...FAD is for women only...the only men allowed are submissive men. So I had to adapt a 'neutral' attitude, so to speak. There is no way I could ever think of myself as submissive...I am an Alpha male; it's an intrinsic part of my being, just like my blue eyes and height are a part of my being. Needless to say, it was a test of patience for me.

Several times, my lady was asked "Is he your boy?" Our standard answer was "He is here with me" or "I am here with my lady". It wasn't a lie...and I was treated respectfully by all present.

A couple of things that I mulled over in my brain:

Dominant Ladies have got their s**t together!!!: Back in the day, since I didn't have a 24/7 submissive, I used to attend parties as an Enforcer...one who made sure that no trouble interfered with a scene party...either from without or within. So, since I wasn't going to be involved in any type of scening this weekend, I fell back into an old familiar frame of mind...staying in the shadows, looking for any signs of trouble.

There were none. Play went smoothly...almost like it was rehearsed many times over. It made me think back...the only time I ever had to speak to a Domme/Mistress as an Enforcer was when the scene got a bit 'over the top'. But time and time again, I had to call down Doms/Masters...even had to backhand one across the face for disrespecting the Dungeon Mistress. I guess it comes down to ego...Dommes either don't have ego trips or they keep their egos in check. Doms kind of have this "I need to feed my ego!!" attitude...and that's what gets them into trouble most times...IMHO, of course.

A Man among boys: As I was joking with BAB afterwards, now I know what it's like to be a Man among boys...and not be able to do a damn thing about it. Being an Alpha Male, I had to keep that side of me in check...period. I pulled it off...but damn, it was tough. I chalk it up to an exercise in character on my part.

Bottom line, my lady & I had a great weekend. We made some new friends, spent time getting closer with a dear friend, and had a chance to 'keep it real'...just the two of us.

NG61...getting back into the swing of things...at work, of course...sheeesh

©Nightguy_1961 2006


NGs_lady 64F
762 posts
3/25/2006 8:51 am

Thank You for the time to look at the other side of myself. I must admit i did enjoy it. As you stated we had a very good time, but i know i would not have been at ease without you. So again Thank You
NGs_lady


Nightguy_1961 replies on 3/25/2006 10:49 pm:
My lady, I was glad to be there...I mean, how many other men could have the pleasure of enjoying the company of two attractive ladies such as
& NGs_lady in the same night?

Fox4aKnight1 43F

3/26/2006 5:12 pm

I just wntedto comment about the ego thing. It is something that I noticed alot out on the friges of the bdsm community. Perhaps and not to be rude meabe it really is a tetostorone thing. Because it happens alot in everyday life as well.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 3/26/2006 11:40 pm:
Fox,

I figured the same thing....but don't get me wrong. There are a few Dominant Ladies out there who can get on an ego trip just as bad as the men.

Thanks for commenting

BadAssBlonde1 57F
4989 posts
4/8/2006 2:37 pm

As One of the Originals' of FAD, I would like to say that W/we all enjoyed both of your company. We have been in existance for years and yes, We do have Our things in order. Thank you for Your kind comments and I have passed them onto the Ladies and Our lovey submissives and slaves. The Best All Around! I look forward to your return visits to O/our Socials. Shake Shake Shake ... Does the bump with lady *W* Singing ... We are Family ... yeah yeah yeah ... I got all My Sisters with Me ... and One Outstanding Fine Ass Dominant Man. That would be You darlin' ... although ... You must admit that Our girls and boys are just Dynamite! A Lovely Time!

For all Time,

Lady Hunter
Madam of the Manor


After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

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BadAssBlonde1 57F
4989 posts
4/8/2006 2:43 pm

Wait! I don't know of ANY Dominant Women that have Egos *G* ... Fox is right; it is a Testosterone thing. LMAO

After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

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