Almost 24 hours later...what a difference.  

Nightguy_1961 55M
3324 posts
6/22/2006 12:51 am

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Almost 24 hours later...what a difference.

I posted earlier that I was thinking about shutting down my blog, because of all the drama going on here in Blogville. I received a lot of support from all of you here, some asking me not to shut down my blog; for that, I am grateful.

I guess with all that my lady & I have going on in our real lives, getting caught up in the drama here in the blogs was damn near the straw that broke the camel's back for me. Thanks to the comments I received from all of you, plus reading the posts from others, I put a lot of things in perspective; again, thank you all.

As it turned out, my lady has been keeping mum about a lot of stuff going on in our lives. She worries about me constantly, for she knows that I will brood about things...without saying a word to her. So, my lady posted on her blog today something I did not expect her to post, Are you real?, which helps explain a lot of what is going on in our real lives right at the moment. She went into detail about how someone has been getting copies of certain blog postings of mine to my son, in an attempt to stir up family troubles.

Why this low life is trying to do this, I do not know.

I do know it has put me on edge with what I write; I feel that I has to be careful talking about what is real in my life, out of concern that my words will be used as a hammer against me...or those closest to me. I have received email, not mailed to me directly but almost as an afterthought, telling me how my son has knowledge of the postings I've written about the relationship between he & I. Certain phrases and words have been quoted by my son, which shows that he has read what I've written.

Now, hopefully, you understand why I reacted the way I did when one or two people 'invaded' my blog and stirred up trouble. I couldn't help but wonder, Is this my son under an alias? Is it someone that knows my son or my family? Why are they trying to stir up this right now? My sparring with these 'invaders' was an attempt to draw them out; force them to reveal their hand so I could figure out who it was.

So, that is why I was considering closing my blog...hell, I was even considering closing my profile.


My lady posting what she did, along with all of your comments, helped me to realize something: Friends and loved ones will step up if your back is up against the wall. Several times now, you dear visitors to the Fortress & my lady's blog have shown your support...and for this, we are both thankful.

So I will keep my profile going and I will continue to blog until my fingers cramp up. I am an adult, regardless of what people may think.

And to the person (or persons) who are trying to stir up trouble with my family, I have a simple message:

Are you that miserable in your life that you have to cause trouble with others? Are you happy with the misery you've caused with my son? I hope it was worth it...I really do, because there will come a day when you will have to pay the check for your happiness.

Because you are a low life coward that likes to strike without honor. You seem to know me in real life - good, because I'm not hard to find. Grow a pair, if you've got them, and come meet me face to face. If you want to talk about it, fine. If you want a confrontation, pack a lunch, because it will be an all day affair. You have chosen to stick your nose in my family's business, so now you in it up to your neck. I have a pretty good idea who you might be, but I'll keep that to myself...for now.

Sorry, dear visitor, for dragging you into the middle of a family matter, but now I hope your understand what has been going on with my lady & I over the past few weeks.

To my friends, the Fortress will not be closed, it will remain open. I will say this much however; there will be a time soon that I will be away from the blogs. Some of you already know about what is about to take place...there will be more as this important date draws near (and yes, it is a good thing for my lady & I, don't worry)

The stories that I am writing for those who asked will be done and posted, as soon as I can.

Take well...

©NG61 2006

HBowt2 58F

6/22/2006 1:21 am

Glad to hear you are staying....And I know how it feels to wonder who is reading your blogs and what they will do with husband reads mine so it does limit what I can write...even though this is a public area ....his reading still feels like an he is reading my diary and yet I have no trouble sharing with others.....its a strange one indeed.....Take care of you HB2xx

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 12:37 am:

There are times that I feel a little funny, because I know my lady will be reading what I write...there is always a concern that something I'll write will bother her.

But we talk about far, no problems...


2943 posts
6/22/2006 1:32 am

Wow..things never cease to amaze me here...I had something similiar happen on Alt...just a threat but they never followed through, I know it was someone who knew me personally..mentioned names and Employers..pretty much scared to shit outta me but I called his bluff and told him I already contacted the cops for threatening me...he backed down real quick...I am sorry you are going through all this BS....but from what I can see I think your love between you and your wife will pull you through this mess...Good Luck and I hope you stay....sweetSinn


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 12:38 am:

Well, I'm glad you put that stalker in their place...sometimes that's what it takes....staring them down...I've seen it happen here just in my blog as well as a few others...


willing2tryit42 40M
1141 posts
6/22/2006 2:09 am

Hi.... I never comment, just pass through and read from time to time, but I wanted to say...Thank you!!! It is about something you did earlier... dont want to go into detail, but thanx!! I dont like the drama either!!!!!!!!

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 12:39 am:

Well, I don't know what I did exactly, but thank you....hope I did good.

Thanks again and welcome to the Fortress....

curious082385 31F
4925 posts
6/22/2006 2:25 am

Glad to hear that you have decided to stay. I do wish that life for you and your Lady was easier though. Both of you are loved and respected here and I hope for a peaceful resolution to all that is troubling you and yours.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 12:40 am:

This will pass...I'm going to contact some friends from here...see if I can confirm who it is that is doing this...

Then it will be judgement day.....


Fox4aKnight1 43F

6/22/2006 2:30 am

All i can say sweetie is hugsss and I care .....well you know how thing s are with me. I wish i could help more but well *sheepish smile*
hugs sweetie ....and love to you and your Lady....

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 12:42 am:

I know you wish you could help, but just the offer means a lot to the both of us...


waerlookin4fun 50M/46F

6/22/2006 2:34 am

I am so glad you're not leaving, I do enjoy your posts even if I don't comment on some of them. Here's an interesting thing, I know you read and commented on my blog post titled "three little girls" and the subsequent postings on that subject. Right after those posted was when my parents contacted me again. That is the post I did about "what do I do now" which is hidden, giving me time to think about it. It makes me wonder if some how they saw that. I'm not privvy to your family dynamics or what's going on, I just know I like reading what you write and regardless of what you might think about yourself you Sir are a true gentlemen in every sense of the word and I think your Lady would agree.....

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 12:43 am:

From what I've been told, if you google your AdultFriendFinder handle, you'll see hits on your handle...most of them are your blog postings...

Scary, isn't it?

I was glad to comment on that posting...and I'd do it again. I hope things are going good in your family.


Mistress_Nessa 40F

6/22/2006 2:55 am

NG, I am glad you decided to keep the blog open, it would've been a shame to see you go over some idiot with so little to do than to try to ruin someone else's life. I've checked your blog before, since you posted comments on the story OHC wrote about me, and I've really enjoyed what I've read, I'm sorry I've never posted before, but I'll try to once in a while. Also, feel free to stop by my blog once in a while. I hope that this person, whoever he is, will grow up and change his behavior... before things get much worse.

~ Nessa ~

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 12:47 am:
Mistress Nessa,

I am glad that you have enjoyed reading my blog...comments are always welcome, but not long as you enjoy what is here.

I was stunned by the venom in OhC's blog in that incident...imho, it was unwarranted. I was impressed at how you and others came out and tried to explain what had occurred. Sad that the person who started it refused to even listen.....

Things won't get worse for us...only the one who started this, trust me...

Thank you and welcome to the Fortress...

fancy_for_you 39F
3014 posts
6/22/2006 3:29 am


Glad you are staying with us. I to know about the drama some people cause from this site. Thanks to a local man that had contacted me I am now having alot of troubles here in my town. The way I get it is he got tipsy at the local bar and decided to tell everyone my profile name, and what my name was in real life and then proceeded to tell everyone that I had contacted HIM for sex. Well, my good friend works at the local bar and when she got home she got on AdultFriendFinder and created a profile just so she could look me up and see for herself. Then she called me and I got a Christian Ass chewing about how it was so terrible of me to be on a "swingers" site. I tried playing dumb and saying I didn't know what she was talking about.....mostly because I come from a town 4 blocks by 8 blocks and everyone knows when you fart in this town already I don't need them knowing my sexual business also. Well let's just say someone that either heard the guy at the bar or the person who was supposed to be my friend decided to tell my family. Now my own Mother has called me a whore. Big Big mess around here. My parents have even threatened taking my new house away...since they are who got it for me.


Ok I'm crawling off my soap box now and crawling back into my corner and taping my mouth shut. Sorry for snapping and venting on your blog NG.



Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 12:48 am:

Now what happened to you is nothing but common imho....some people just have nothing better to do than to stir up trouble...

I hope things are going better for you. I enjoy it when you visit and I hope you'll continue to do so...


PurplePeach72 44F  
9199 posts
6/22/2006 3:37 am

Dear NG,
So glad to see that you are staying and taking a stand. I totally understand what you & your Lady are going through. Steve & I had a similar problem a couple of years ago with someone in real life who "found" our profile, and wanted to make trouble. I didn't blog them and it still made me furious. Our blogs are like our diaries or journals and having someone use them against us is an unpardonable sin against the trust and caring that happen here b/t most of us adults.
I would send your son a few choice blogs of your own choosing and let it be known that the gig is up. Two can play that game and if he already has read the "bad" stuff, why not give him the good that goes along with it. There is no stronger blackmail breaker than the truth.
No matter what I hope things work out well and quickly.
Take care of you and your Lady.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 12:50 am:

Well, the blogs in question were of a bad nature...more like a baring of my soul. I think he just was fed bits and pieces of what I wrote.

I'm waiting...the person who started all of this trouble will make a mistake...and I'm very patient....


libgemOH 56M/52F

6/22/2006 3:43 am

L, 2 words...Lingerie and ballbat! I got yer back dear one!!! -B

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 12:51 am:

Someday, I'm going to have to get a picture of you in your lingerie and baseball bat....that will be great...

Thanks, darlin'...and your story is ready for posting

rm_PeanutJackie 35F
1286 posts
6/22/2006 3:45 am

    Quoting curious082385:
    Glad to hear that you have decided to stay. I do wish that life for you and your Lady was easier though. Both of you are loved and respected here and I hope for a peaceful resolution to all that is troubling you and yours.
I agree 100% with this comment. There isn't much more I could say.

Hugs to both of you

"I am beautiful no matter what you say, words can't bring me down. So don't you bring me down today."

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 12:55 am:
Thanks PJ, We both appreciate it....

Shameless_Biotch 48F

6/22/2006 4:25 am

all I can say is YAY!!!!!
Good to know you have friends, even if they are but blips on the screen, and not "real" in a face to face way.....

We love you!

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 12:57 am:

Why thank you...if I knew how to blush, I'd be blushing from all this....


MamChelle 48F  
1443 posts
6/22/2006 5:17 am

this girl is very happy to hear that You are feeling better and i know once all the dust settles in what is going on You both will breath easier and the changes be positives for You both...i am a phone call away should You wish to chat or maybe bounce an idea or such...and damn...i could listen to that sexy voice for an eternity.....even in hell. *winks* *hugs to You and lady* All the best blessings warmest thoughts, c.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 12:59 am:

I know and we both thank you for your friendship...

Don't worry about hell....the devil is afraid of new management

Thanks again....

GossipJunkie 40F

6/22/2006 5:27 am

I look forward to reading your future posts. Glad you decided against leaving.


"Dance like nobody's watching"

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:00 am:

Thank you...and I've read your letter. I'm thinking of a reply, but please bear with me, okay?

Thanks for your friendship and support....

mycin62 54F

6/22/2006 5:34 am

Glad you decided to stay!!! BLOG ON!!!

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:01 am:
Thanks...I'll keep blogging until my damn fingers fall off

sexyariesgirl 57F

6/22/2006 6:19 am

It never ceases to amaze me that there are people here and in Real Life as well who have nothing better to do than (to put it in "Country Vernacular") stir up shit! Their energies would be so much better put to use helping someone else or just plain GETTING A LIFE. So sorry this has happened to you and your Lady. I hope things work out well for you and your family. I'm glad you are staying!

Power To FOK

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:02 am:
Rock on with that country vernacular!!!!

Some people are just miserable, that's all.

But their time will come.....

Thanks for your comments and support...

MWWwantmore 51F

6/22/2006 6:32 am

I am really glad you decided to stay also, it makes it hard when people are trying to ruin you through the blogs. Its a rotten way to get at someone! Good luck to you and your lady!

May the Dark Fortress live on!

I'll have a cafe, mocha, vodka, valium latte to go please!

Good girls go to heaven.....bad girls go down!!

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:03 am:

It is a rotten way to deal with people...I prefer a more face to face scenario...

and yes, the Fortress is here to stay...



6/22/2006 8:03 am

So glad you decided to stay... You have the support from your lady..The only one that matters...

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:12 am:
Thank you Mrs. Muff

We both appreciate the two of you, even though we've never met face to face....

btw....I may be asking a favor of you soon....nothing serious, just some information

Thanks again...from both of us...

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
6/22/2006 8:03 am

I am wary of the net. I do not want folks from the net digging into my buisness, friends or not. Consequently, I am very reluctant to reveal personal information here.

I did cam up for 2 popular bloggers once to prove I was the same guy from my blog. Although I did it as koocnachtiek and had the camera upside down...


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:14 am:
Confuscious say, "Man who stand on his head has distorted view of all around him." LOL

Thanks...I don't have a real problem with the net...there is nothing that I am ashamed of; hence my very open profile...

But this caught me off guard, but it will all come out in the wash....

Thanks and welcome to the Fortress...

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11238 posts
6/22/2006 8:47 am

thank you

~ hugz for both of you ~

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:14 am:
No, thank you....for everything....

ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
6/22/2006 9:08 am

Best news I could of heard.Thanks to you and your lady.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:15 am:

No...thank you.....

concupiscentKid 40M

6/22/2006 9:11 am

Great post!
You know what to do.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:16 am:
Thanks...and you're right, I know exactly what to do....


6/22/2006 10:36 am

and I can't wait AUUGHGHAIAIAIAI WOO HOOOOO!!!!!! {=}

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:16 am:

Thanks MO....we appreciate that....

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
6/22/2006 11:05 am

I am glad you are staying! Something similiar happened to Sail and I months ago with that asshole Samishung4u but I wouldnt let the bastard take us down and stayed on, kept my blog, and managed to get the little fucker kicked completely off the Internet for good. He cant have access to any email services nor Verizon so even though it was a lot of trouble, I won in the end!

Purry {=}


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:18 am:

I heard something about that...glad that you two took care of the situation...I would hate to not see you in silk anymore...that would break my heart....


digdug41 49M

6/22/2006 11:13 am

sorry that things have been a little shakey on the homefront I hope it all gets sorted NG and stick around I just realized something very important reading traveling texas's blog and we chatted also and that this is supposed to be fun I've goit enough drama in my life as is so I dont need to bring it here and wont any more

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:19 am:

Trav's post, along with GOTD and a couple of others, helped me put things in perspective...

I think that we can all agree: somewhere along the way, we lost sight of the fun...and that's never good.

Thanks for your comments, they are appreciated...

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
6/22/2006 12:35 pm

a simple hug and a gently kiss on the cheek

I'm a

i'm here to stay

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:21 am:

If you only knew how much that meant...I really mean it...

btw...working on your a good theme working

Thanks....for just being you

angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
6/22/2006 12:45 pm

I'm so happy to see that you are not leaving. As you know from my blog about date ....someone wrecked some havoc in our lives as a result of being on here I would have respected your decision to leave, but I might have driven to Franklin and hunted out every hotel till I found you for a goodbye hug! lol......and I AM just kidding....I'm no stalker! ROFLMAO!!!!!

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:22 am:

I know that you would have supported whatever we decided to do...

and you can come on here to Franklin anytime....

as The Rock would say, "Don't sing it, Bring it!!!"


wickedeasy 66F  
25470 posts
6/22/2006 2:41 pm


spits and turns away from such nasty, maliciousness

You cannot conceive the many without the one.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:23 am:

It is spiteful, but it is so juvenile as to be laughable...

Don't worry, things have a way of turning on some people...


PurplePeach72 44F  
9199 posts
6/22/2006 2:51 pm

Glad you are staying. The sad truth is, if the person stirring the pot knows you in the "real world" they would just be looking for a way to case you grief. It would be a terrible waste for you to stop being part of this community because of it. As LeeAnn said we had a similar problem a few years ago. Tried to use it to cost me a job. I found out who did it. Still don't know why. The funny thing is, not long ago I was in a position to ensure he lost his job. But being the better man I made sure that his problem was dealt with fairly and he didn't lose his job. He has had his one free forgiveness ticket punched. And I know I have done the right thing. All is right in my world. Having an adopted son, a "natural born" son, from my deceased wife and a wonderful child with my current wife, I know how it can be hard sometimes. "Other" family members seem to live to make trouble between everyone. The last time I told both my sons, they did not have to pick and chose. I was there for them growing up, I am here for them now, and I will not hold "those peoples" behavior against them.
So hang in there and keep writing for us. The best to you and your Lady.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:24 am:

Thanks...there is a lot I could say here about the situation, but now is not the time.

Glad to see that you could rise above your situation and keep your head are definitely Kipling's man....


lightswitch1963 68M/53F

6/22/2006 2:53 pm

Thank you ssoooo much for staying. I hate it when someone attacks a friend. I would be tempted to turn off the light if the Fortress closed. Will be faithfully reading your blogs, as you are on my favorites list. I do check in every day. Hugs and Kisses to you and your lady. We've been told "Don't turn off your fucking light" via friend, so the Fortress must stay open.

We'll leave the light on for you.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:28 am:
Well, as long as you leave the light on, I'll leave the gates to the Fortress open, deal?


lacenleather2 105F
159 posts
6/22/2006 4:06 pm

NG...I was sadden by the prev post on closing down the blogging and profile , and now I am oh so very happy .Your blogs are like an addicition, and although I dont always comment , they are the first thing that I go to when I turn on my puter , followed by WE'S.I guess that with everything , someone has to try to spoil it and /or cause shit.Too bad .
Glad that i dont have to find a new addiction!!
Yellow rose of friendsghip left quietly for a very special person and his Lady.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:30 am:
Thanks lacen...glad to know you enjoy reading what I don't know how much that means to me....

Thanks again....for not just the rose, but for everything

Kaliedascope61 41M
4084 posts
6/22/2006 4:10 pm

very strange indeed.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:31 am:

Yes, very strange indeed, but time will work this out...

Thanks and welcome to the Fortress....

rm_sloman44 60M
701 posts
6/22/2006 4:16 pm

Keep the faith NG. I am another who has visited your blog without commenting. You always leave me speechless. What can I say. I do always read your comments on other's blogs and enjoy your style and passion. Glad to hear you are going to hang out a while longer.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:32 am:
Thanks sloman and welcome to the Fortress...

I'll keep the might get tough and you might see me rant and rave, but I'll keep blogging until they cut my fingers off...

Thanks again....

lightswitch1963 68M/53F

6/22/2006 4:34 pm

Sorry about the double answer....I read the post your lady wrote. I think I am guilty of ommission myself. I apologize for that. Have added your lady to my list, also, and plan to visit her blogs every day, also. Don't want to offend a friend, and can add another friend to my list.

We'll keep the light on for you.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:34 am:

Thank lady doesn't blog as much as I do, but when she!!!

I am always impressed by her thoughts and ideas; her only thing is that she's a bit shy about her typing...she's much better to talk to on the phone or face to face...ask wickedeasy, BadAssBlonde1, MamChelle, or a few others....

Thanks....from both of us....I'll leave the gate unlocked....

Twister2bed 47M
617 posts
6/22/2006 7:01 pm

Glad your staying NG sometimes a little break helps.

BTW if someone on here is screwing with you and its affecting RL
I'm an email away no explanation needed just send me the jerks handle.

hehe you know how I handle trouble makers I made a few vanish from blog land already till they buy a new hardrive for there computer

*disclaimer this is for amusement purposes only*........My amusement that is hehe.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:35 am:

Thanks, but what I have in mind when I find out who it is will be very suitable....a loss of respect within a certain person's family....

Thanks again....

LustyTaurus 48M  
21253 posts
6/22/2006 7:13 pm

You're Welcome...and the RL stuff will work out soon enough.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:35 am:

Thank you....for more than you'll realize

and you're right, things will work out....

mysticdreamangel 60F
2759 posts
6/22/2006 7:30 pm


I'm so happy that you will be writing until your your fingers cramp up...and thank you to your Lady for knowing the right words to say to keep us blessed with your words. Always remember...

"Don't waste yourself in rejection, nor bark against the bad, but chant the beauty of the good."

Ralph Waldo Emerson

I can't wait to read what you write in the future and may whatever you and your Lady will be doing shortly be for only the two of you!

All my best,


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:37 am:

Thank you...for your means a lot to the both of us...

rm_DarkenMist 105F

6/22/2006 10:33 pm

*Smiles and tips My hat politely then backs up deep into the shadows*

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 1:39 am:

I hope you realize that even though we don't talk like we used to, due to technical f*ckups, my lady & I still regard you as a close friend....and hope to hear from you soon...

Thanks for a whole lot more than you realize....

sportsfan362436 47F

6/23/2006 2:33 am

this one is so glad You decided to stay.......

*Smiles, kisses n hugz*

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/26/2006 1:20 am:

I'm glad that you're commenting here....

You have been missed here.....


chasingfun27 38M
1108 posts
6/23/2006 2:47 am

You can only please so many at once.

Perhaps those who want to fuck you over can wait while the rest of us enjoy your blog.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/23/2006 2:59 am:

The funny thing...I started concentrating on my blog for my own satisfaction.....but it would appear that a few people like what I put down.....

I'm not out to please everybody....just hoping to entertain every now & then...


rm_shannee2006 52F
3355 posts
6/23/2006 4:36 am

Glad you're gonna stay around.

Yup...this juiciness is from me....


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/26/2006 1:21 am:
Thank you...besides, I still have some stories to write...

Mistress_Nessa 40F

6/23/2006 6:08 am

    Quoting Mistress_Nessa:
    NG, I am glad you decided to keep the blog open, it would've been a shame to see you go over some idiot with so little to do than to try to ruin someone else's life. I've checked your blog before, since you posted comments on the story OHC wrote about me, and I've really enjoyed what I've read, I'm sorry I've never posted before, but I'll try to once in a while. Also, feel free to stop by my blog once in a while. I hope that this person, whoever he is, will grow up and change his behavior... before things get much worse.

    ~ Nessa ~

By the way, I forgot to tell you, I wrote my version of the story Ohc wrote, in case you care to read it, it's posted on my blog My Desire. If you do choose to read it, I do hope you enjoy it!

~ Nessa ~

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/26/2006 1:24 am:
Mistress Nessa,

Thank you...I went, I read, I was impressed....great blog, my compliments....

You're on my list now...

rm_Kissmystuff 61F
1435 posts
6/23/2006 7:49 am someone would cross such a line! This is why I'm very careful about who I correspond with..or let close to any way.

I am so sorry for the pain and anxiety this has caused you..your lady and your son. It's pretty despicable of do what you describe in your post. What kind of person would do such a thing?

Thank you for reconsidering your decision..and not closing your blog. You'd be sorely missed.



Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/26/2006 1:28 am:

I think it was because someone recognized my profile picture and decided to stir the pot...

Well, that will come back to bite someone on the me on this...

Thanks for your means a lot to me...

OboesHonedIambs 62F

6/23/2006 8:31 am

Glad you decided to stick around here. I enjoy reading your blog.

Instant Human -- Just Add Coffee

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/26/2006 1:30 am:

Thank you......I appreciate that....

silverbreeze2 65F

6/23/2006 11:41 am

AdultFriendFinder is open to the public world wide. You have as much right as anyone to be here and write what you want on your Blog page. It is not illegal to be here. Anyone that would try to cause trouble between your son and you because of your profile or blog page is a fool! If they think that is cute, it will turn around and bite their butts one of these days! Glad your keeping your blog open..."Keep on Keeping On"!

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/26/2006 1:32 am:

I thank you for that...and you're right, it's not illegal to be here, but somebody thought they could stir up trouble....and it didn't work...

Now some people are scrambling...from what I'm hearing....

Thanks and welcome to the Fortress....

tillerbabe 55F

6/23/2006 5:26 pm

I'm so sorry for this...seems that you are the only one here that has walked in my shoes as of late.

"Are you that miserable in your life that you have to cause trouble with others? Are you happy with the misery you've caused with my son? I hope it was worth it...I really do, because there will come a day when you will have to pay the check for your happiness."

..same but, different....
i'm sorry....I understand your pain when others attack..when they really don't know..

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/26/2006 1:39 am:

Each of us walks their own path....each with it's peaks and valleys, it's own ups and downs...

The thing that burns me...whoever it is has done so from the complete darkness....without a clue...

I could deal with someone who came into my blog, or emailed me, to attack...but this stealth bullshit....

anyway, I hope you're doing better....I am so glad to see you here *hugs*

rm_5Hawkeye6 60M

6/23/2006 6:03 pm


I get this spooky feeling every time I read something you write, that we were twins, separated at birth. When I read your accounts of your family life, that feeling intensifies. If it weren't for the age difference, I'd be convinced.

Well, at least you're a lot more like me than my own brother is...

...always hoped that I'd been adopted anyway - it would explain a lot.

Your 'brother',

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/26/2006 1:42 am:

Thank you and welcome to the Fortress...

I'm glad that you find something to like in my blog, that is always appreciated....

Whispersoftly5 52F
15176 posts
6/23/2006 7:37 pm

After reading this post and the one before it I sure can't blame you for not feeling comfortable blogging. I don't like that somebody is in your family business. That's just not right and seems like for any decent person it would be off limits, despite negative feelings toward another. I'm so glad you're not leaving and am happy to read something good is going to be happening for you and your sweet lady.



Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/26/2006 1:43 am:

Thank you....and it will come back to haunt's already started....

Thanks, darlin'...

mattbrim69 45M

6/24/2006 7:48 am

I'm glad you are stay. My time in the Fortress has been short but very enjoyable. I'm sure our LiLfriend will also be happy to hear you are staying.

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/26/2006 1:43 am:

Well, I'm glad that both of you are coming by again and again...that means a lot....


BadAssBlonde1 56F
4989 posts
6/24/2006 11:48 am

I knew about all the Drama with the Family and such but goodness, seems like a terrible waste of time for someone. Had no idea that is was a continuing saga. Hope all is improving there for ya'll.

Lady Hunter

After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

Copyright © House of Lady Hunter 1998-2009

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/26/2006 1:45 am:

It was like that itch that you just have to scratch...and somebody slipped up and gave me some information they didn't mean to give me...

When an adversary makes a mistake, you strike...and that's what we did...

Thanks...always good to see you here at the Fortress...

PlaynAgain 54F

6/24/2006 7:20 pm

I found you by spending a day in bed propping up a broken foot killing time by reading articles in the AdultFriendFinder magazine. I found yours, and then your blog, and was totally amazed. You are a wonderful writer, and sound like an amazing person. I'm very glad to read that you will be staying since I have just found you.

This is off-topic, but as a standard member I can't initiate an e-mail to you from your profile so I'm sending it here. I have always craved a "submissive" lifestyle but have not actively sought it out because I was afraid of pain. In reading your blog I learned that there are different degrees of pain and that a good experience requires trust. You've given me the courage to look for what I desire. I only hope I can find a "teacher" as compassionate as you seem to be. Your lady is a very lucky lady.

"Attitude is everything. Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle. Live simply, Love generously, Care deeply, Speak kindly. Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, It's about learning to dance in the rain."

Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/26/2006 1:47 am:

Thank you and welcome to the Fortress....

There is much more to the D/s lifestyle than pain......remember that....

If you have any questions, please feel free to try and contact me...okay?

Thanks again....

rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
5220 posts
6/25/2006 5:17 pm

One more reason why I don't release much personal information on this site. There are some really weird people in the world, it doesn't surprise me that some have slipped in here.


Nightguy_1961 replies on 6/26/2006 1:52 am:

I understand why you are private...and I don't blame you.

But I figured that me being a knuckledragger, I was immune from this kind of BS...

guess I was wrong....

but no worries, whoever it is will have to answer....someday are indeed someone special

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