to FUCK and get fucked...  

NightOwl02_777 36F
25 posts
3/31/2006 5:26 pm

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4/8/2007 3:58 pm

to FUCK and get fucked...

Curious about a “casual” fuck…?

Me too.
I wish I could find a way to be OK with it...goddam, I really wish I could do it & not hate myself or feel weird about it in one way or another.
not that anyone else should ever feel bad - I hate judgemental people. I just know myself well enough to know I wouldnt do "casual" very well...
it's not so much that I would get attached, more just that I would feel cheap & dirty.
duh, I know. grow up.

cant help it - doesnt bother me at all what other people are comfortable with - I just WISH i could be so comfortable...

It would be nice if I could do the casual sex thing, cuz my life would be so much easier! I’m so goddam horny I can feel my pussy clenching on & off all damn day, wanting action…its ridiculous, really, just how badly I wanna fuck & get fucked.

Basically I‘m shy & not so good at the mind games ppl play when they’re flirting or dating or what-the-hell-ever. Call me skeptical, but I’m also HORNY AS FUCK. In real life, I’ve never been comfortable just “giving in” to the horniness and fucking for the sake of a fuck…even though it is SO insanely tempting it’s making me crazy…

Gotta run for now, more on this later

(PLEASE share advice or reactions...)

67coyboy 49M  
494 posts
3/31/2006 6:25 pm

happy friday , NightOwl...
i too find the casual thing a tad uncomfortable but more for the
grovelous attachment issue than the cheap and dirty.i too am shy
(as the handle implies) and am not so good with the flirting and
mindgames.i'll come back for "more on this" later : )

norprin5 55M

3/31/2006 7:26 pm

reaction: obviously a dangerous amount of conscious and unconscious indoctrination

advice: read the blogs. there's no better place, there are no better people anywhere who are better able to answer your questions, asked or unasked...

NightOwl, only you can decide what you are comfortable with and what you are not...

follow me back to my blog, follow other links to other blogs, introduce yourself will make some friends

welcome to blogland, sweetie

King Nor XVIII

gspotfinder4her 57M

3/31/2006 8:06 pm

Hi Night Owl! You have what some call the 7 year eitch! but is more like avery 3.5 to 4 years. We both know what is needed if you where next door i could help maybe still! I just have not found out how to use this mail on hot match. I would know how to be tender and rought when you would need it i have the same need! But that would be up to you.

Rudy1166 50M
136 posts
3/31/2006 8:49 pm

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MyRealLoverOne 45M

4/1/2006 8:36 pm

Well, I am comfortable going with the moment. Some women I am more comfortable with than others. If everything clicks...I just let it happen...if not I don't. So, I really don't make a concious decision ahead of time, I just let the mood set the pace. That's just me though........

daman080808 43M
488 posts
4/3/2006 8:59 am

it is really up to you what your comfort level is...some people havenot problem with sexual tag, others like to put an emotional value to said it is your personal feelings that matter the most in a casual "fling"; being the comon word here. You will need to find a "comon" partner that shares the same view as yourself...(or possibly plural) to not be hung up on any form of attachment.
If not then you need to find a long term partner that has the same drive as yourself...which for most of us on this site, i assume quite difficult....
anyways take it easy and good luck
also thanks for hitting my blog....

Aries4venus 48M

4/14/2006 11:57 am

Curiosity know.

Keep in mind, of course, that this comes from a man...

I have had experiences, though few, with some very "casual" females. I think, however, that the concept of "casual" sex might be a bit overstated. These women were definitely overtly sexual, but only after having had a period of "anticipation-building".
I don't find your aversion to the "drop your drawers and make me yours" tedious. Some men would do well to remember that our predatory urges are only satisfied by "the chase".
Once the anticipation level (and safety factors) is sufficient, then if you have trouble waiting for the door to close before clothes begin to fall, who would not consider that casual?

rm_benifits67 45M
19 posts
4/15/2006 8:20 am

Hey babe. The whole causal sex thing is kind of mind blowing to me, and everyone is different. I'm the lover type, but got crushed a couple times, but I still love sex. So I've become somewhat cold to relationships. I have only found a few women though, who really just want a causal sexual friendship, most women almost always end up wanting more. The "sexy/slutty" types are hard to find, but I don't think the label I just gave should be negative. Most guys and a lot of women are turned on by this.

So who is to say, but if you have an itch in your pants, hey scratch it, see what happens. K. good luck too you.


goldenfingers1 46M
1 post
5/12/2006 1:11 am


Juggernaut1694u 36M

6/10/2006 12:30 am

Yes I wish you could get over it because I would love to have casual sex with you no strings! I stopped caring about what ppl thought a long time ago. I just do what feels good to me and try to be respectful of others while doing it. If you ever get over your hang up with casual sex look me up!

NightSeer02_777 36F  
6 posts
7/10/2007 11:11 am

ATTN: anyone who comes across this old blog and wants to know more about me "NightOwl02_777"...
This is my NEW profile: NightSeer02_777
I cant access this old NightOwl02_777 account, so follow me back to the new one and check me out there!

I'll be looking forward to it...

rm_2ring 63M
26 posts
5/22/2008 3:45 pm

I find it interesting at times how male/female perception enters into the defination of the word casual! I have been contacted by several single females that just want a "casual" relationship that involves "casual" sex for the purpose of fun and 'itch' fulfillment! When I agree to their every wish and provide incredible orgasmic bliss with my tallented tongue, or indescribable sensations with my pierced accessorized cock, they immediately fall in love and want soooo much more than the previously agreed "casual" relationship! This change in status of the interaction level tends to cause stress for both because of the change in the ultimate desires of one, and tends to cause both to re-visit the defination of "casual"! Some say that men think with the brain in their pants, but I seem to have encountered many single women that are guided and influinced by the sensual stimulations of my "brain"! I find that if I take the 'single' out of the equation, a more compatible defination can be agreed upon concerning the word "casual" when being discussed by two married people. For the most part, it becomes a maturity thing, and again the age comes into play, but then aren't we all young at heart?

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