What's Holding You Back?  

NewHeights4272 49M
12 posts
3/3/2006 12:23 pm

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3/20/2006 6:53 am

What's Holding You Back?

Most of us have fantasies that we think about. Some of us have expereinced them and now they are mere memories we may want to do again someday, some are jsut fantasies that havne't been fulfilled. My question is about the latter. Why havne't they been fulfilled? Is is becuase the fantasy is jsut too "out there" and you don't have the nerve? Is it because you haven't ahd the opportunity? Do you not feel safe or strong enough to fulfill this fantasy? Or you don't know the person or people or had the opportunity to fulfill it? What would make the situation change? What would it take? Or is it just something that will remain a fantasy?

I would like to hear everyone's thought. You don't need to share the fantasy unless you want to, just some general input......

smalltownangel 43F
40 posts
3/10/2006 6:14 pm

Why they haven't been fulfilled...good question. For me I guess its because I haven't found the one that I feel comfortable fullfilling it with.

Some fantasies are hard core sex some...romantic and I guess mine falls in the romantic category. It would have to be someone who knows certain things about me...about what I like....they would also have to have specific talents to make the fantasy work. So I guess if I ever find that one man who had those talents ..... I would have to think long and hard as to why Im not jumping on the chance.

Pajero414 30M
1 post
3/19/2006 1:33 pm

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