The first time  

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11/15/2005 7:30 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

The first time


Most people think of their first time as when they lost their "purity" and became part of the sexual world. But to a degree we are all virgins. Think of the way you feel about seeing someone for the first time. The excitement, the anticipation and most of all the nerves. No matter how many times I've had sex (or a act of sex) when the thought of being with someone new is a very anxious time for me. My main focus is making them happy, making them "get theirs" if you will. But the moment always has that weirdness in what will she think when my clothes are off? Will we have the right type of chemistry? Will she enjoy me? Will I enjoy her? All things that you worry about as a virgin. I still wonder these things, but I now know from experience to just relax and let things happen. I hate to say that a mouth is a mouth, a tongue is a tongue, and a hole is a hole, because in all honesty, they're not. I've met people here and out in my life as well that were just HOT physically, but the person inside was rotten. That to me makes them not worth my time. I'm a normal guy, no huge steriod muscles, no AE model spread, but I'm not horrible either. I've always been called cute by the women I know, and that's how I want it to stay. To me, that says they know I'd put them over myself. Make them comfortable in any situation. Because while I have reservations about myself, any woman who is going to honor me the pleasure of taking their clothes off and letting me place my hands, mouth, tongue, and dick on them/in them, they are beautiful in multiple ways. I was with a woman years ago who was a friend, she was a plus size girl (BBW) and not what most would call overly attractive, but we had a moment where we were both seeking some pleasure. When she allowed me to put my hand under her shirt and rub her breast, my focus was making sure she knew she was beautiful and the most special woman in the world that night. And I have to say that when I laid her down in my living room floor to taste her pussy, she was beautiful. Her sweet little puss was perfect! Thank goodness for that first time. We both thought, "no, we can't it's too weird." But when all was said and done, it was the best night of sex for me in a long time. Those first times can always be weird and will most likely always have some akwardness, but tell your partner what you want, tell them how you want it, and let's all cum happily ever after.

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