Just wondering  

NaughtyMom2006 31F
84 posts
1/21/2006 11:42 am

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Just wondering


What is the hold up on age. If two people are meant to be then why should people care about an age difference? My hubby is 57 and I'm almost 21. I love him to death and can't picture my life without him. Are there any men out there who don't care about age?

bigfunlover2 57M

1/21/2006 12:16 pm

I couldn't agree with you more. To me, age has absolutely nothing to do with a relationship.


BBQLVR

1/21/2006 12:22 pm

It is about time some body talked about age I am 59 and stil get very hard and love to have sexBut yes I said but because of my age nobody wants to have a thing to do with you.Even the women that are the same or near don't want a thing to do with you.But you want to know they are all going to get old or older some day and they will find out how cruel and hard things will be.


Multiple252 36M
7 posts
1/21/2006 12:27 pm

Yes, there are men who do not care about age, but older men usually look for younger women if there is an age difference. As long as both parties are above legal age and they both agree, it is no one else's business what their ages are.


rm_Smile_My_Way 59M
1519 posts
1/21/2006 1:05 pm

Yes, there are a lot of men on here who don't care about your age. They will do what you ask for in your profile and then spit you out to the curb. Please be careful who you pick to have sex with here. Take your time, get to know that person, just as you would in real life.


rm_alnyak1000 35M
1 post
1/21/2006 2:20 pm

hi this is my e_mail please send me amessege iam looking 4 sex one girl or group of two


Viggo57 59M

1/21/2006 2:22 pm

Age rarely matters. There is more to attraction....usually....than age.....as you know. And can't help but Love a naught Mom!


BROC817 43M

1/22/2006 12:01 am

well my last serious g/f was 20 and the girl i just dated a few weeks ago was 21....so i see nothing wrong with it....as a matter of fact there still my friends and there at the group i run here at AdultFriendFinder....youth is great and it keeps us older people grounded on what the future holds for us all !!! goood luck !!!


NaughtyMom2006 31F

1/22/2006 5:30 am

    Quoting rm_agoigo:
    Yes, and most of them have police files.
Well I mean withinin legal limitations. Yeah it's totally wrong for a 40 yr old man to be going after a 10 year old. I'm not talking about pedophiles I'm talking about legal aged consenting adults.


playtime44uandi 52M
6545 posts
1/22/2006 4:09 pm

I'm not worried about age, its more about mutual attraction & communication.

~We'll Leave The Light On~


rm_kissme126 56M
23 posts
1/23/2006 7:54 pm

hello naughtymom, as for me-It is much more important whats in your heart. True love conqures all.....

Thomas


jd9151 42M
7 posts
1/27/2006 7:23 am

Naughtymom, Age should never be an issue unless one of the parties is under legal age. The idea that age is a factor should be laughed at. The factors that play into a relationship are compatiability, freindship, affection. You your self should be able to testify to anyone who says age is an issue that yourself and your husband love each other and age means nothing. If your talking about just a sexual relationship....age is a prefrence thing with some, but it should be and for me will always be...two legal age adults have consensual sexual fun. Isnt that what it is really about?


NaughtyMom2006 31F

1/27/2006 8:17 am

    Quoting jd9151:
    Naughtymom, Age should never be an issue unless one of the parties is under legal age. The idea that age is a factor should be laughed at. The factors that play into a relationship are compatiability, freindship, affection. You your self should be able to testify to anyone who says age is an issue that yourself and your husband love each other and age means nothing. If your talking about just a sexual relationship....age is a prefrence thing with some, but it should be and for me will always be...two legal age adults have consensual sexual fun. Isnt that what it is really about?
Amen jd.... hubby and I could care less about age but there are some people who look at us with this disgust. We are of legal age and anyways, you really can't help who you fall in love with. I just don't get the hang up on age... maybe I'm just too open minded.


tapman3 72M
26 posts
1/27/2006 4:10 pm

    Quoting NaughtyMom2006:
    Amen jd.... hubby and I could care less about age but there are some people who look at us with this disgust. We are of legal age and anyways, you really can't help who you fall in love with. I just don't get the hang up on age... maybe I'm just too open minded.
well naughtymom, you and I have chatted a couple times and I must say it is quite an honor. I am not a person that worries about age,for it is just a number. As for you and your husband if you Love each other then there is no problem and you should be together as long as you two see fit.So I wish you and that lucky mature gentleman you are with the best loving relationship in the world and let the ones who look at you in disgust be jealous for the rest of their lives.For if you look at people with love and respect in your eyes then the love will come back to you 100 times over.You should post this question in group posts here in younger /for older and ftls. You will be surprised at some answers.You two have won me over as a friend.


uiucfun 38M

1/27/2006 10:24 pm

As long as the person is mature(and legal) age is not a problem, perosnally i prefer older women


rm_doug_vr 47M
58 posts
1/27/2006 11:08 pm

I think Love & attraction should trancend all age barriers. Society does seem to from on older men with younger women, but that shouldn't stop people who are attracted to each other.
Age is only a measure of one's years, love is timeless.

Doug_vr


NaughtyMom2006 31F

1/28/2006 8:54 am

    Quoting NaughtyBlonde78:
    NaughtyMom...I am 27 and my ex-boyfriend is 55, so 28 years between us (not quite as much as you and your hubby). But what you've heard from everyone else is right, age doesn't really matter. What does matter is mindset and attitude.
    And we learned from each other. I got into 60's and 70's music and got real life history lessons (cause I wasn't alive when JFK was shot, he was), and he was able to see things from my (youthful) point of view. So, don't worry about anyone else's opinion...live your life for you.
    (by the way, when you get people who ask or say "Is this your dad/ daughter?", just smile at each other, put your arms around each other and say "nope".)
Thank you NaughtyBlonde..... it's actually been cool because he's a Vietnam vet and he has so much experience in life and I have learned so much from him. In return I have gotten him to listen to Blink-182, got him to go to some concerts with local groups, and since he never went to college I have gotten him thinking about going back and taking some courses in criminal justice (he works at the in a prison). I mean we have learned a lot from eachother and we keep growing more by being together. Also he went to get his taxes done and the tax person congratulaed him on getting a younger gal.


rm_widowed56m 65M
22 posts
1/28/2006 10:38 am

LOL No problem with age difference here! TY to you and Naughtyblonde for comments!

Nice chatting with you today Naughtymon. Fun teasing some of the younger guys in the room also! I'll send you a note offline from here.


renfro_firewolf 40M
1 post
1/30/2006 12:25 am

Well, I'm of the mindset that age is just a number and has nothing to do with boundaries on love. Or even lust in many cases... I know when I was younger, in my early teens even, I was looking for everything I could get. I've been a sex addict for a long time now. I think that if both parties consent and know what they they are getting into and are properly educated with FACTS about the dangers and consequences and take proper precautions and they both still wnat to do it, then I don't think any age really matters (as long as they are both at least developed, of course). I speak from my own personal childhood experiences here.
And no, I'm not condoning illegal activities, just stating my own beliefs.


wayne340 69M

2/1/2006 11:21 am

Wow !! I'm glad I read your Blog. It does seem that when women see the '58' after my handle they automatically count me out and the ones that do answer always say 'no thanks'. Anyone catching my Karaoke show would easily think I'm in my late 30's or early 40's.
********I Never Have Showed My Age*********


wayne340 69M

2/1/2006 11:22 am

Oh, one other thing = Thanks for 'viewing' me a while back. It made my day !!!
********I Placed You In My "Hotlist"!!!*******


bigrob3172 44M

2/3/2006 10:14 am

I am probably too young to offer up the kind of answer that you are looking for. I dated (had sex with) a girl that was 21 last year and it cost me about 5 years on my life. It was fun for me, because I got to feel some soft 21 year old titties again, but I just wasn't fun enough to keep her attention span. I left that relationship happy that a girl 10 years younger than me was sexually attracted to me, but disappointed that I didn't know how to hold on to her attention. Enough about me though. If you are happy, then it shouldn't matter what other people think.

Have a great day!


rm_KnowStuff 56M
240 posts
2/3/2006 6:49 pm

Age does not protect you from love. But love, to some extent, protects you from age.

Live long and prosper.


1hornybostonian 47M
5 posts
2/4/2006 9:20 am

I have 2 takes on this. The first is after a certain point in life, you step up to the next plateu, and if you are 10 or 30 steps, or plateu's ahead the other indivdual, chances are you will eventually lose interest in one another, just because you are at 2 differant points in your life. Sort of the same reason that we as adults in our 20's 40's or even 60's, don't hang out with groups of elementary school aged children. Or people in their 60's and 80's don't hang out with groups of 20 and 30 year olds. And the gap that you have in your relationship, is pretty large. Secondly, even though I truly love the look of youth and beauty, I don't think that I could go out with a young lady that is younger than my own children, that just does not appeal to me, fantasy maybe, reality never. Now I must also say about my first point, I am just educating you with the facts. If it works for you both, and you are both truly happy with one another. GO FOR IT. I wish you both the best of luck.


rm_z71nut 44M

2/25/2006 12:11 am

age is nothing but a number.its all about the 2 people involved and their feeling towrd oneantoher!


rm_gordon678 55M/55F
1 post
2/26/2006 10:47 am

question about staying power, 6 pack works for me and im 44


jumpnride 53M
2 posts
2/26/2006 8:48 pm

Age i thought always doesn't matter.I love younger women.Want a younger Lady to settle down with.But in years to follow,most will stray.If you can get a honest one and treat her fine,and she stay's to the very end,then you'll have paradise.


discreteluv4you 36M

3/7/2006 4:18 am

if you looking for that younger guy to fuck you hard while he watches let me know


davecl3069 49M
32 posts
3/7/2006 11:06 am

Age is a state of mind. So no it shouldn't matter, but our society is hung up on it big time. My last two girlfriend were 10 and 13 years younger than me and it all worked fine. Good luck to you.


scorpmail66 50M
260 posts
3/11/2006 12:16 pm

your hubby must be a lucky man you look great,age is just a number good for both of you its more important that you love each other
scorps
xxxxxxxxxx


me4eetn2 66M

4/24/2006 4:21 pm

i`m 55 & my wife is 29 - we get along great & have a very fulfilling sex life.


velvethandsNZ 68M

5/7/2006 3:25 pm

Het there sweetie
You know my opinion on this stuff - as long as I'm only a couple of years older than my teeth I'll be looking for Ladys who are happy to be with - you, 'shell, CG and the others are just great folks to spend time with as far as I'm concerned.

LOVE long and prosper, but buy shares in the right pharmaceutical companies as well! lol


Paul4348184 60M
69 posts
5/9/2006 7:55 am

Hi: I totally agree with you. Age is just a number. I don't care about age.


bill_e_2 72M  
803 posts
5/15/2006 6:04 am

I'm 61 and very active sexually! I'd love to be your "friend" Bill


cumasur456 70M
1 post
5/22/2006 10:33 pm

age has little to with sexual attraction, or love, even friendship.it's more about you him, and feelings, to heck with whaT OTHER PEOPLE THINK, IT'S NOT THERE LIVES, OR THERE BUSINESS.


traumamedic91 39M
2 posts
6/7/2006 10:49 pm

Its kind of like I have always said physical appearance shouldn't play a very large role in a relationship because we will all be old wrinkled and have a hump on our back, a persons age is only a number its whats on the inside that really matters because that is what never changes with time.


rm_kiodo38 50M

6/28/2006 3:47 pm

age doesn't matter...I have to confess that I masturbate a lot thinking of a 17 years old girl. I am counting days and weeks to her 18th birthday, because I want and she want it too.


rm_BackStrollOn 63M
193 posts
7/31/2006 1:58 pm

I'm 53,during my life i had a ten steady relations,with women of different shapes,minds and age,i.e. younger or older than me.When I was 21 with a 17 years old(now a reknown cartoonist)and she was the leading element of the couple,when I was 36 with a woman older of ten years,and I was the leading element.What other can one say?Nor science nor dialectical analisys can compute all elements interplaying in a relation.Yet there can be many different interests,these may enlarge the gap or stimulate curiosity in the partner.There may be also problems in the organization of each one's life, but if this does not affect negatively the union,there is no reason to deem it an unworthy one under any respect.What really matter is how much one can rely on the chosen mate.If it works there is no question.I'm still in friendship with both (one is married,the older one was divorced since well before I knew her)and the reasons that brought us apart had nothing to do with age.


hunter8482 64M
1 post
8/18/2006 12:39 am

Im a strong beleiver in age is only a state of mind and if you can overlook the age of the person as long as he treats you well then so be it.


100toncaptain 69M

9/9/2006 12:10 pm

Age is an interesting subject, as many people have built in prejudices against it, especially older men and younger women.

However my first sex was on my 17th birthday and the WOMAN was much older, she was 37. Howevr it was the greatest thing for us both! She was married, but had a sexless relationship with her husband!

We had an AGGRESSIVE sex life and our affair lasted almost 20 years.
After the first six months of her teaching me, my ALPHAMALE personality took over and then I was the instructor for the next19.5 years. She enjoyed this very much! I was Dom and she was sub.

I am looking for a younger woman in the central Fl area.


Quiet_guy_ohio 51M
7 posts
9/24/2006 7:47 pm

Maturity level...soul mates can meet on different ages...it is in the communication and maturity level between them.


will_yum1947 69M
16 posts
10/8/2006 10:17 am

Age is not a factor for me. It is about the Friendship, and Connection. If the lady is a friend first and we choose to take it a step further then that is all that counts. The problem is finding that lady. One night stands can be found in most bars any night of the week. A true friend and lover is something completely different. My 2 cents


Gunslinger_DFW 55M
5 posts
10/10/2006 4:51 pm

I see nothing wrong with it, fuck anyone who thinks there is. My ex fiance, we were together for 2 1/2 years is 16 years younger than me. We got along great until she decided she needed to find herself in another state. That was nearly 2 years ago. Well I am 46 and the girl I am dating now and who is madly in love with me is 26. I think a relationship between a young girl and an older man is very special and no one else who has not experienced it could possibly understand it.


eugene453
2 posts
10/28/2006 11:51 am

it is how you feel about each other age isjust a number it does not tell you how you feel so if 2 people are met for each than they should be togather


eugene453
2 posts
10/28/2006 11:55 am

it is how you feel about each other age isjust a number it does not tell you how you feel so if 2 people are met for each than they should be togather


rm_luning2629 66M
91 posts
11/13/2006 11:54 am

I think age is very subjective, not irrelivant. I know women who are 19 and girls that are 60. Attraction to me is more personality, interest, sense of humor and being down to earth enough to not take yourself too seriously, without being someone who changes direction with every wind. Someone who knows and trusts herself and is willing to open up to others is someone I enjoy getting to know. I enjoy your pic and your comments in the group and look forward to reading more of your blog. I think you and hubby are pretty secure in your relationship and either it's monogomous or you have your own arrangement, so I won't offer myself to you as some would--but I hope you're having almost more fun than you can handle. (besides we're somewhere near 500 miles apart) ROFLMAO


rm_whyme909 58M
2 posts
1/2/2007 4:54 pm

I have a brother he was married bout 20 years older than him.
all a age is a number.nothing else.as long as 2 people love each other
thats all matters


rm_dnn239 82M

1/19/2007 11:36 am

I'm over 70 and my last 2 girl friends were in their 30's. They were smiling when I left.


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