People...I Have Another Question..........  

NaughtyKittyII 44F
535 posts
4/25/2005 4:38 pm

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People...I Have Another Question..........

Can ONE person truly be your "ALL"???

When I say this, I mean...Can ONE specific individual be "EVERYTHING" that you DESIRE in a person???

Personally, I'm torn over this matter....With the "lifestyle" that I've chosen to live...I've come to feel that EVERYONE in SOMEONE'S life, serves a specific "purpose"...Even and especially, with emphasis on the sexual. And others...just come really close and "Get In Where They Fit In".

I've even found that I tend to "find" different things in people that attract me to them...Hence, fulfilling/satisfying a significant "purpose" and place in my life.

I'd like to believe that there is ONE person in the world for EACH and EVERY breathing, human being on this planet...A "soul mate", shall we say...and again...others just get really "close".

So...Again, I'll ask...Can ONE person be someone's "EVERYTHING" or are we all destined to seek these things (our desires) out in others to satisfy our own carnal and general needs??? Remember...Everything, definitely isn't always about SEX!!!

Speak Up People...I'm Really Pondering Over This One!!!

Kisses XOXO


Ms.NaughtyKitten


KNIGHTY4005 52M

4/25/2005 5:16 pm

In my experience,no one can be someones everything,i think that we want to believe that there is someone out there but "NOBODY'S PERFECT".Once we realise that there ARE more things to life than our addictions,we begin to see and accept that nothing lasts forever and "NOBODY'S PERFECT".


TangoFarceKetal 65M

4/25/2005 5:28 pm

in answer to the 1st sentence. no... maybe we shouldnt expect it?


rm_Rogue2777 39M
3 posts
4/25/2005 5:35 pm

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rm_BigDnLady 43M/41F
1140 posts
4/25/2005 5:45 pm

I have to chime my opinion here!! Ok, nobody is perfect...true, but is also true that one person can fufil your every desire! The desire for friendship, fidelity, stimulate your mind, every emotion, know your innermost secrets, and fears! I have been lucky enough to find that someone!! We have no secrets and a great relationship!! We keep things exciting and fresh! He is my ultimate partner and supports me in everything I attempt to achieve! Our relationship has endured financial hardships, outside attempts to break us apart, anything you can think of we have worked through it! We are each other's soulmates and I am grateful that we have found each other!


angelwithahalo 59F

4/25/2005 5:59 pm

I dont think one person can be it ALL.you have to find out what is important to you,that could be your all.Is it trust.humour, the way he/she makes your eyes light up when they walk in the room etc etc


mysterylayd4u 51F

4/25/2005 6:23 pm

Naughty: Great question! The question I get a lot is what is my type? Honestly, I don't have a specific type. It all depends on the overall package. If I could take a little bit from all my loves, then I'd have the perfect man. But since it doesn't exist, I appreciate the differences that make us all unique. And now, the older I become it seems that I am choosing to lean more towards the lifestyle of freedom, although I haven't so much acted on it, to enjoy all the differences in different people.


lupon_69 43M

4/25/2005 6:37 pm

Well now, thats a tuff subject. In my life I to have had some girls that to I thought would be my everything, but turn out to my every NOT. but I still have hope that I might find that one person, that will be my everthing. But I don't expect that person to change, or try to make them change who thay are. And lastly that person that does get close to me is going to have faults and make mistakes, And I will love that person for who thay are. "As long as I posiably can!!!" I hope this helps in some way, to end your ponder??


TDandH1960 56M

4/25/2005 6:38 pm

Yes I believe that someone can be your everything, if you find someone who you really connect with and they connect with you then it really becomes a state of mind, how you think of the other, if your thoughts of each other are always possitive,then love will last, its when negative thoughts get in the way (which often happens in life) that the relationship suffers , negative thoughts become like a cancer eating away at your love.


BLONDENEEDSSEX 57F

4/25/2005 11:20 pm

I think that is to much of a pedestal to put someone on, can someone be pretty darn close , ohhh ya , but like echoed here no body is perfect.


zuulou 59M

4/26/2005 8:23 am

The simple answer Kitty, is NO. We, as human beings are too complex to be able to have one person satisfy every need. It's too much to ask of one person.


rm_fillup2469 76M

4/29/2005 11:50 am

Evidently there are not too many people that are everything to just one person or there would not be too many people on this site looking for what they need and lack!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have a friend that tells me that if she were married she would not need anyone else. She lives in a real fantasy world believe me. She is like a cock magnet and could not be loyal to anyone.


rm_gent258 68M
486 posts
9/2/2005 10:08 am

No one person can be your everything. Even the dream lover or spouse cannot be everything for you. That's the reason we have friends.


SirMounts 102M

9/20/2005 8:39 am

Well, I believe so. After all, I'm already everything to all the girls in My harem. *smiling*


shemaletoy1000 56M
1 post
9/27/2005 8:08 am

you look hot enough to satisfy ALL my sexual need if only you had a strap-on dildo and a female friend or two to join us.


BLACKCOFFEE1959 57M
2 posts
10/4/2005 12:49 pm

ABSOLUTELY NOT--THE HUMAN MIND CHANGES TO MUCH FOR ANYTHING OR ANYONE TO BE THE ALL OF ANYTHING.LOOK AT THE CAR YOU DRIVE,HAVE YOU SEEN ANOTHER YOU WANT.YOUR CLOTHES ,NEIGHBORHOOD,FRIENDS,YOU NAME IT IT WILL CHANGE.SIMPLY BECAUSE AS HUMANS WE PROGRESS OR REGRESS--THUS THE IDEAL OR CONCEPT CHANGES ALSO,WHETHER WE WANT IT TO OR NOT.WE LEARN TO ADAPT AND MAKE DO --OR SETTLE---IN TRUTH WE LEARN TO LIE TO OURSELVES


BLACKCOFFEE1959 57M
2 posts
10/4/2005 12:52 pm

ABSOLUTELY NOT--THE HUMAN MIND CHANGES TO MUCH FOR ANYTHING OR ANYONE TO BE THE ALL OF ANYTHING.LOOK AT THE CAR YOU DRIVE,HAVE YOU SEEN ANOTHER YOU WANT.YOUR CLOTHES ,NEIGHBORHOOD,FRIENDS,YOU NAME IT IT WILL CHANGE.SIMPLY BECAUSE AS HUMANS WE PROGRESS OR REGRESS--THUS THE IDEAL OR CONCEPT CHANGES ALSO,WHETHER WE WANT IT TO OR NOT.WE LEARN TO ADAPT AND MAKE DO --OR SETTLE---IN TRUTH WE LEARN TO LIE TO OURSELVES---POST 17079


ImLaidBack2007 61M
19 posts
11/11/2005 12:28 pm

I doubt one person could be my "ALL". Relationships are tough. People (both sexes) are moody. The longer I have been around, the more I realize that - in order to have fun in life - you must carpe diem. Noone ever looks back at the end of their life saying I wish I didn't enjoy myself. They always look back and say, maybe I should have sampled more of what life has to offer.

Then again... maybe I'm just not monogomous

Live like there's no tomorrow...
... for you never know when it'll be true!


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