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so, after a few weeks ive yet to actually meet anyone on here.. what gives? am i ugly? am i not putting myself out there in the right way? or is it clear what i want, and noone is interested?
8/19/2006 10:26 am
Welcome to New Jersey! Our state has a lot to offer. Just be patient until you learn to navigate your way around.
The same rule applies to this site. You are very new here and a male Standard Member. We're an older M/F couple who also are Standard Members. I'm the active female member here. Our only advantage is that our options might be better than yours are... with having a woman as part of our couple. It helps us to receive views and mail.
I'm unable to read how you portray yourself on your profile today. That could change tomorrow; it all depends upon how many views to our profile we receive. I can see your picture and you are an extremely good-looking young man! Try to find members that share common interests with you. Make sure that you READ their entire profile before you write to them. Show respect and be polite when you do write -- a hello, a brief intro about yourself and your interests, mention their interests, a thanks and take care...etc. No woman wants
to receive a "Hey, baby! Wanna f---?" kind of letter. LOL If you send pictures, face shots are better appreciated in a first time letter.
You might have better luck with meeting people if you upgrade your membership to Silver or Gold, even if you only try it for a month or so. You'll be able to view more profiles, send winks, and write more letters to anyone that interests you -- all the things that AdultFriendFinder limits male Standard Members from doing. Hope this advice helps...
Good luck to you!