Cowgirl Up.......  

NJCwbyCpl 48M/46F
6 posts
5/23/2005 6:28 am

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Cowgirl Up.......

Well, since this is the first blog I'll keep it pretty generic to see how it goes. We've been members on this site for a long time. We've changed our name a couple times due to either technical problems, or just our prefernce. Either way, we still have yet to meet the types of people we're looking for. Adding people to your hotlist and network is fine and dandy, but what ever happened to actual face-to-face meetings? Don't get me wrong, we like the great naughty pics that people have, but seeing it online, and seeing in front of you are totally different(can I get an AMEN?!?!?!)!!!! What's so difficult about trying to find a woman or a couple that wants to have a long term friendship with great sex whenever possible.? You'd think we're tryin to crack the dang DaVinci code.
And on a side note......for the love of all that is good, PLEASE be clean!!!! You don't have to shower 5 times a day, but once should be a mandatory experience. If we can smell ya from 5 feet away, what makes ya think we wanna get any closer?!?!?!?!

rm_Lazr_larry 57M/53F

5/25/2005 9:16 am

Love to see if we can change all that.. write me and let's see where it leads..

curious_and_open 56F

9/2/2005 5:10 am

if you all r still looking, let me know. I am seperated BBW 45 y/o lady with 2 grown kids and 1 fabulous grabdchild, so discreetion is what i need too. Lets meet and if we click we can be friends on the outside and "friends" everywhere else.
I have barely been with a woman before, hope that is ok.

Baseball1011 47M/44F

11/26/2005 12:13 pm

I agree with what you said. The problems we're having are twofold. First, we have two small children and no easy sitter, so we have to entertain at home. We've done it a few times, but coming to our house has turned some people off. Secondly, with everyone's desire for discretion, nobody wants to give us pics (particularly face) before we meet. We're not being overly choosy, but we do want an attraction, as I think you would also. The response we get is "why don't we meet and see if we click". That's great, but with nights we're able to play limited, I don't want to waste everyone's time if there's not a mutual attraction. Plus, if you're not interested, how do you meet them and say so without hard feelings? That's just our feelings.

NJCwbyCpl 48M/46F
9 posts
12/10/2005 8:38 am

Having any children in the house, no matter what the age, can limit the times for playtime. We know that all too well. We have 3 in the house from ages 8 to 15. Our other problem is work schedule. If everyone is going to be involved, we have to plan "playdates" at least 2-3 weeks in advance, and if the other parties cancel, then it's a night wasted. We'd have gotten a babysitter, taken time off of work, and let's not even get into the part where we get our hopes up about!!! If it's just for an afternoon get together for 1 or 2, that's a different story. Keep in mind though, THAT doesn't happen until there comes a time when all parties involved agree!!! We have no problems sending face pics. Our other parts are on here because it IS a sex site. Our need for discretion is simple, we simply don't want someone calling our house or showing up at our work. We alaso don't want them being overly affectionate in public. Believe it or not, we've had that happen. I can only speak ofr us, but going to somoene's home is far more intimate, and much more cost effective, than going to some hotel/motel. You really get to feel comfortable in a home setting, plus it's a safety bonus for the person who's home you're in. We invited a friend back, after we had already played once, and she said that going to our home was far too intimate and that she would NEVER have anyone at her house. I don't really understand that at all. Call us naive, but what better place than your own safety zone? I dunno, we're still looking for the right female/couple to get involved with. You'd think we're tryin to find the secret of life itself with all the potholes we keep running!!!
Like I said though, we're still lookin...........

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