Do you honor your Dominant/submissive?  

NGs_lady 64F
419 posts
6/7/2006 12:48 pm

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6/14/2006 10:24 pm

Do you honor your Dominant/submissive?

I know I have used this title or something close to it before. In reading some blogs and also reading the responses that people have gotten, I wonder sometimes if people realize a Dominant and a submissive are extensions of each other (or should be).

I am not pointing any fingers, but with some of the things I have read, I ask a couple of questions:

Question 1: To the Dominants; If a submissive reads some of your posts and your responses, would he/she say, "This is a man/woman that I could submit to, that I could be comfortable with? Would this person honor me? Could I be honored by telling other people 'This is my Dom/me'?".

Question 2: To the submissives; If a Dominant reads some of your posts and your responses, would He/She say, "This is a man/woman that I would take into my Household. I would be honored by their gift of submission. I would be honored by telling other people, 'This is my submissive'."

Just a thought for people to think about. This can also be put in a vanilla relationship as well.

©NGs_lady/Lady Stee 2006

rm_shannee2006 52F
3355 posts
6/7/2006 1:06 pm

You are right, this is a quesstion that could be put into non D?s relationships. I met a really great guy last week. When I sat watching him drive us to the destination of our hike, I noticed that he had on his wedding band. Toward the end of our wonderful day together, I remarked on his ring; that I was impressed that he wore it. I feel that this was honoring his wife; that he was being respectful of her and her position in his life.

My lover is always respectful of his gf too. He never gives me her time with him, only a bit of his own private time. He never talks down about her. He may discuss a worry about his relationship with her or his wish to work something out with her that's bothering him, but he never puts her down. She has his complete respect.

The same sort of respect is due my child, my friends, my business associates, my neighbors. It doesn't matter what the relationship is in my opinion. I think the question always should be do you honor yourself and others? Just my two cents...

Yup...this juiciness is from me....


NGs_lady replies on 6/7/2006 1:40 pm:

You understand what I was saying hope more do. Thank you and welcome.

wickedeasy 66F  
25470 posts
6/7/2006 2:21 pm

i hope so
i try

but i also have a smart ass side


gonna think on this some

You cannot conceive the many without the one.

NGs_lady replies on 6/7/2006 2:31 pm:
Yes you do, but you are always respectful to people

See you soon

peaches19555 61M

6/7/2006 5:45 pm

it seems no matter how we dress it up a relationship is always a work in progress....I'm a shorts and flip flop kind of guy (smile)

NGs_lady replies on 6/11/2006 10:11 am:
Life is a work in progress. You learn something every day.

libgemOH 56M/52F

6/8/2006 4:13 am

After having read some of your Man's posts from yesterday, I think I am understanding where this comes from. Am just coming to understand what a gift submission truly is and unfortunately, some will never understand this concept. Thanks! -B

NGs_lady replies on 6/11/2006 10:14 am:
You are welcome I try to explain things, but it does not always work.


6/8/2006 7:39 am

I have been reading your man's blogs for awhile now today is the first I saw you in one of his comments..woooohoooo thers the lady he speaks of.. so I came right over.
I'm learning so much of this lifestyle that interest me a great deal.. but yet very cluless to much of it.. So I hope I never seem disrespectful..I truly respect both of you bringing this to the blogs to help us understand more

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat

NGs_lady replies on 6/11/2006 10:19 am:
I am very glad you are willing to learn about the lifestyle. We were all clueless at one time. The only time I feel that people are disrespectful is when they try to put down what they do not understand. Please if you do not understand something feel free to ask.

ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
6/8/2006 9:28 am

A most confident Hell ye, we are definately extensions of each other and have a total and complete connection.

NGs_lady replies on 6/11/2006 10:19 am:
Thank you.

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
6/8/2006 10:00 am

My lady,

You honor me every minute of every day...I just hope I do you the same honor...

All my love...

NG61....disappearing into the darkness...with a warm smile...

NGs_lady replies on 6/11/2006 10:21 am:
My Love you honor me every day and thank you for this post.

shar1 55F
606 posts
6/11/2006 8:31 am

thank you for dropping by my blog.

I have enjoyed reading and learning from both Blogs, thank you for sharing.

As for respect, I would hope that I am respectful to people and would expect the same in return. Though at times I have been told by Kelts that I'm but think that he secretly likes that, one of my endearing qualities.

NGs_lady replies on 6/11/2006 10:24 am:
What I have read you do respect all. Lippy can be good sometimes.

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