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A little traveled
A little traveled
I have been to a lot of places and have been afforded a lot of oppertunities that a lot of people probably haven't had. I got to live in Europe for a little over two years which was a complete blast. I got to see the way they view sexuality and nudity and how it contrasts with the way we view it in the US, especially where I was raised. They were so comfortable with it that it made me feel a little wierd. I had one experience where I was with a friend when she wanted to go home and change so that we could go out that night. This girl changed in front of me! I know guys are thinking, "nice! did you get some?" But that night she was going to meet her boyfriend. I even asked her about it and she apologized and asked if she had offended me. Of coarse I told her she didn't and that I was a little turned on by seeing her naked...she just smiled and said poor american...
While living in germany I got to travel through France, Austria, and Spain. In Spain they have beer glasses that are almost the size of a pony keg...and it only costs about 5 bucks...While in Spain I got to swim in the Medditerrainian...(I don't think I spelled that right...)anyway, I got to see a bull fight, and got to see how drunk europeans act when they are on "holiday" There is one major thing that stood out. Women in Europe go to the clubs for the same reason the guys do, TO GET LAID! There is really no games about it, no mind games, no wierd rules about first second or whatever date. That is in fact where I got the name for my profile. If you were to walk into a club and go to every woman in the place and use the line, "Nice shoes, wanna fuck?" About one in three will respond favorably, some a little more aggressively than others. You might get one every once in a while that might get offended but really they have a good sense of humor about it. Even if you get shot down they will probably still at least crack a smile.
Women, AND men in america are just too uptight. The head games and drama are most of the time enough to keep me from starting any kind of serious relationship. Not that I am not hoping I will find a girl that is the most awesome girl I have ever been with, but the bar is set pretty high. There is something to be said for someone who is a little traveled.
11/30/2005 3:21 am
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